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The Catholic Layman's 

BOOK 

of 

ETIQUETTE 

BY ROBERT C. ^RODERICK, M. A. 




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PREFACE 

OUR purpose in preparing this book is to offer to the 
Catholic laity a book of manners and practice. Motivation 
to carry out these actions stems from sincerity of faith. 
Within these pages may be found reasons to support moti- 
vations, but it is not our intention to provide or augment 
the reasons which prompt such actions. Such reasons are 
more amply set forth in other writings. 

The need has long been felt for a book detailing the 
orderly functioning of the laity within the sometimes 
complex liturgy and procedures of the Church. Questions 
constantly arise as to what is to be done, when, and how, 
in relation to reception of sacraments, use of sacramentals, 
our role in Catholic Action, membership in Church 
societies, our relationship to Catholic education. 

It is important for the laity to be aware of the reasons 
why certain actions are required. Knowing the proper pro- 
cedure and use of Catholic practices will extend both the 
acceptance and frequency of action on the part of the 
laity. 

Recognition must be made of the many diverse regu- 
lations which are announced in different dioceses and 
parishes. These particular laws will be much alike ia most 
dioceses, and it would be impossible to include all ex- 
ceptions. Instead, we present the general practices and 
procedures which prevail in this country under usual con- 
ditions. It is strongly recommended that lay people COTTOlt 
their parish priests concerning laws and their application, 



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since much of the interpretation and application of the 
law rests with the priests. 

We will presuppose that the general terms are known 
and limit our definitions to a minimum. It is intended 
that this book, indexed for ease of reference, together 
with a Catholic dictionary and a small encyclopedia, will 
furnish the Catholic home with the basic knowledge from 
which greater ease of action will arise. We offer this 
book to the faithful, to converts, to strangers to the faith, 
and we dedicate this work to their happiness as members 
of the mystical body of Jesus Christ through the 
Immaculate Mother who is mediatrix for every member 
of that body. 

THE AUTHOR 



CONTENTS 

PAGE 

Introduction 7 

1 

THE CHURCH AND HER AUTHORITY 9 

The Supreme Head: the Pope The Hierarchy 
Religious Orders and Societies Terms of Address 
The Laity The Law of the Church 

2 

THE COMMANDS OF THE CHURCH 29 

Attendance at Mass Fast and Abstinence Annual 
Confession Easter Duty Contributing to Church Sup- 
port Concerning Marriage 

3 

THE SACRAMENTS 41 

Baptism Penance The Holy Eucharist Confirma- 
tion Matrimony Holy Orders Extreme Unction 

4 

SACRAMENTALS OF THE CHURCH 99 

The Sign of the Cross Holy Water Religious Medals 
Scapulars Blessings Prayers 

5 

HOLY MASS, DEVOTIONS AND Pious PRACTICES . . . in 
The Mass Holy Hour Forty Hours' Devotion 
Devotion to the Sacred Heart Devotion to the Blessed 
Virgin The Rosary Other Devotions Daily Private 
Prayers 

5 



6 

THE CHURCH CALENDAR ....131 

7 

THE HOUSE OF GOD . , 137 

The Church Building The Altar Genuflection The 
Choir and Church Music 

8 

CATHOLIC READING AND EDUCATION 151 

Reading Education Publications The Parish 
Library 

9 

CATHOLIC ORGANIZATIONS . .... 167 

In General Confraternities The Holy Name Society 
The Confraternity of Christian Doctrine Secular 
Institutions The National Catholic Welfare Conference 
Other Organizations and Societies 

MISCELLANY 188 

Symbols Relics The Christmas Crib Catholic 
Reverence and Courtesy The Catholic Funeral 

IN CONCLUSION 195 

DICTIONARY IN BRIEF . 197 

INDEX 237 



INTRODUCTION 

THE Holy Roman Catholic Church, founded by Jesus 
Christ, is a society made up of all the faithful who pro- 
fess and practice the teachings of Christ, and who are 
united under the pope and his bishops. The sole purpose 
of this Church is the sanctification and salvation of the 
faithful. The faithful, as members of the mystical body 
of Jesus Christ, are ministered to, so that the graces of 
the divinely instituted sacraments may aid and lead them 
to obtain salvation. 

In the organization of the Roman Catholic Church 
as founded by Christ there is a twofold acceptance of the 
divine Founder's commission. The first acceptance is that 
of ministers; the second acceptance is made by those 
ministered to. The first are those who receive the sacra- 
ment of holy orders and are given full or partial power 
to administer the sacraments. Those who are ordained 
make up the Hierarchy of Orders. They have the power 
or authority to govern, and thus are known as the 
Hierarchy of Jurisdiction. Only those who have received 
the sacrament of holy orders belong to the hierarchy. This 
includes all the clergy who have the divine right 
to administer , to teach, and to govern. Any other member 
of the mystical body who may share in the work of 
teaching or governing does so only by delegation from. 
one who has the power by right and chooses to delegate, 
in part, this power to others. Thus the mandate of Catholic 
action must come to the laity from the bishops. {See The 
Sacrament of Holy Orders^) 



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The administering, instructing, and governing powers 
of the clergy are governed by the laws of the Church or 
by mandate from the Holy Father, the pope, who has the 
supreme power. Thus there is uniformity in the manner 
of functioning on the part of the clergy. At the same time, 
on the part of the faithful, those who are ministered to, 
there are certain practices and procedures which are con- 
trolled by the law or custom of the Church. This control 
makes it more easy for the faithful to serve within the 
structure of the society of the Church. It is to those who 
wish leadership that we direct ourselves in this book. 

The uniform actions of the faithful in accepting the 
teachings and laws of the hierarchy make for good order 
in the Church. In many instances these required acts are 
merely the wish, on the part of the Church, to follow 
the dictates of the society of mankind in general. Only 
in a few instances will these manners seem to be arbitrary 
and unimportant, even to the most demanding. Without 
these regulated procedures there would be no smooth- 
running, orderly action. The faithful best serve their in- 
tentions by the acceptance of being ministered unto, 
instructed, and governed. In the degree that the faithful 
prepare themselves, they become better able to respond to 
the call to Catholic Action. 



1 

The Church 
and Her Authority 




1 

The Church 
and Her Authority 




The Supreme Head: The Pope 

Church by divine law is independent of civil 
power in everything which directly concerns the 
objective of the Church, that is, the salvation of 
souls. To all just regulations set up by civil authority for 
the governance of people, the Church bows and obeys. 
The Church is not a political power, and claims no tem- 
poral power. However, in so far as acts of civil authority 
involve degrees of morality, the Church has indirect 
jurisdiction. 

It is thus that the Church alone may interpret the 
natural and divine law and bind men by her interpretation* 

The head of the Catholic Church is the pope, the 
Vicar of Christ on earth, who is the supreme authority in 
jurisdiction. The pope alone is infallible in matters of 
faith and morals when he speaks as the head of tbe 
universal Church. Thus the jurisdiction of the pope in 
matters of faith and morals and Church governance ex- 



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tends to all churches, bishops, clergy and faithful. His 
jurisdiction is independent of any civil authority (c. 218). 

The pope is the supreme head of the Church, deriving 
his authority by direct commission from Christ. He is the 
successor of St. Peter, the divinely appointed head of the 
Church founded by Christ. The authority of the pope is 
personal and supreme. It is because of his authority, rather 
than his infallibility, that the entire Church listens and 
obeys when he speaks through encyclicals and papal pro- 
nouncements on subjects other than those of faith or morals. 

In the governance of the Church, the pope is aided by 
counsel and delegated authority. The chief aids to the 
pope are the cardinals, who are called "princes of the 
Church." Each cardinal is appointed by the Supreme 
Pontiff. By such appointment, a cardinal becomes a mem- 
ber of the College of Cardinals, which may not exceed 
seventy members. It is the prerogative of the College of 
Cardinals to elect a successor to the pope after the Holy 
See becomes vacant by death. The duties of the cardinals, 
both individually and jointly, are to assist and advise the 
pope in governing the Church. 

Further aides to the pope in administering the affairs 
of the Church are the Sacred Congregations twelve 
established groups who serve by reviewing and recom- 
mending actions to be carried out under the authority of 
the pope. These congregations are: 

The Sacred Consistory made up of the pope and 
cardinals, concerns itself with major questions. 

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The Congregation of the Sacraments examines and 
has responsibility for the administration of the sacraments. 

The Congregation for Extraordinary Ecclesiastical 
Affairs treats of matters of international importance 
arising between the Church and governments. 

The Congregation of the Holy Office considers 
questions of heresy, examines books as to their content 
regarding faith and morals. 

The Congregation of the Council deals with ques- 
tions of discipline and order within the Church. 

The Congregation for the Oriental Church handles 
affairs of the Oriental rites. 

The Congregation of Religious treats of all questions 
concerning religious orders of men and women. 

The Congregation for the Propagation of the Faith 
supervises missions. 

The Congregation of Rites regulates matters of 
ritual* 

The Ceremonial Congregation supervises certain 
sacred functions. 

The Congregation of Universities nd 
regulates institutions of learning- And, finally: 

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The Congregation for St. Peters Basilica provides 
for the management of St. Peter's Basilica in Vatican City. 
(It is not a canonical congregation but is listed as one.) 

There are, in addition to the Sacred Congregations, 
six tribunals, three of justice and three of grace, which 
are directed to legal matters, both religious and civil. (For 
ordinary matters of discipline, the diocesan courts are the 
courts of first authority.) 

Since the Church is a sovereign temporal power, es- 
tablished in and occupying the territory of the Vatican 
State, it sends representatives to foreign countries. Such 
representatives are known as apostolic legates. These are 1 , 
in descending rank: legates; nuncios 5 apostolic delegates; 
apostolic vicars and ablegates. They represent the pope to 
governments, bishops and faithful of the countries to 
which they are sent. The United States has an apostolic 
delegate as its representative from the Holy Father. 



The Hierarchy 



By broad distinction, the membership of the Church 
is divided into clerics (a man becomes a cleric by first 
tonsure), religious (brothers, sisters and tertiaries), and 
Imtj. (See section on Laity.) The sacred hierarchy of 
the Church, by reason of holy orders, is made up of bishops, 
priests and deacons. Members of the hierarchy may have 
various titles, which are conferred upon them because of 

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the office they hold or by dignity. Thus the Holy Father 
is a bishop (not only by holy orders but also by consecration 
as the Bishop of Rome), but by office he is the Supreme 
Pontiff, just as a priest may be honored by the pope with 
the titles of Right Reverend or Very Reverend Monsignor 
while at the same time by office being a pastor. 

Popes and bishops have power by jurisdiction, that is, 
by the fullness of authority residing in their respective 
offices. They make up the hierarchy of jurisdiction. 
Other members of the hierarchy of orders share in the 
power of jurisdiction by delegation. 

MEMBERS OF THE HIERARCHY BY PERSON AND TITLE, 
All bishops have the fullness of orders, and to this nothing 
can be added because of title. Following the cardinals in 
honor are the archbishops. By title there are several grades 
which are in order of dignity: Patriarchs (the greater 
patriarchs are the archbishops of Jerusalem, Constan- 
tinople, Antioch, and Alexandria); the Primates^ an 
honorary rank (given usually to the senior bishop of a 
country) ; Metropolitans, title of those archbishops having 
an added degree of jurisdiction over the other dioceses 
of a province} and Titular Archbishops^ ruling over single 
dioceses or having the title to an extinct archdiocese (also 
an honorary rank). 

Most bishops rule over distinct territories called 
dioceses. Such a bishop is termed a Diocesm Bishop aad 
is referred to officially as the ordinary of those mnkr 
his jurisdiction. A bishop who governs a diocese which i& 



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part of a province has the prefix suffragan or provinciaL 
When the diocese is not a part of a province, the bishop 
may be referred to as an exempt bishop. When a particular 
country or territory (usually missionary in character) is 
established, but the jurisdiction is exercised by a priest 
who is not a bishop but has been given certain additional 
powers, this priest is referred to as a wear apostolic or a 
prefect apostolic. Bishops who do not have the governance 
of a diocese are titular bishops and are referred to as 
auxiliary or coadjutor, being given the "title" to an 
extinct diocese. 

By dignity, there is a broad group known as the 
prelature. Actually, the title of prelate is applied properly 
to the pope, cardinals, patriarchs, primates, archbishops, 
bishops, abbots, and monsignors. The title of domestic 
prelate is given to priests as an honor and dignity by the 
pope. There are the priests who bear the title of monsignor, 
of which there are four degrees of prothonotaries, A fifth 
group, also entitled monsignors, is made up of papal cham- 
berlains. The title of address of the papal chamberlains 
and the 4th rank of prothonotaries (titular prothonotaries) 
is "Very Reverend." "Right Reverend" pertains to the 
first three degrees of prothonotaries. 

Each diocese also has certain dignitaries who are 
honored with titles which arise from their office. These 
are: vicars-general, chancellors, diocesan consul tors, deans, 
etc. The title of a priest who is placed in charge of a 
parish is properly pastor y although in some instances the 
title may be "rector." However, in America the title of 

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"rector" is usually given to a superior of a religious insti- 
tution, as, for example, the rector of a seminary. 

A priest assigned to assist the pastor of a parish is 
called a curate > although by custom he is frequently re- 
ferred to as an "assistant." When a priest is placed as a 
spiritual director of a group of religious, a religious 
institution, or as a member of the military or naval ser- 
vices, his title is that of chaplain. Such a priest may be 
referred to by title or rank of service. 

Religious Orders and Societies 

Further spiritual work of the Church is carried on 
by individuals who affiliate themselves with one of the 
religious orders. Primarily, these orders are communities 
of men who join under a particular rule of life which 
directs them in a special way toward perfection, A re- 
ligious community implies a fixed way of life, according 
to a rule, having either simple or solemn vows of poverty, 
chastity, and obedience. These communities are distin- 
guished by the vows taken by members. Those having 
solemn vows are religious orders. Members of religious 
orders devote their lives to prayer and spiritual perfection. 
Their prayers are directed to the salvation of the individual 
members and to reparation for others. 

Besides the religious orders there are group called 
congregations. These groups may live a sera-commwiiity 
or monastic life but are directed to the active apostokte 
of teaching, missionary work, etc. 



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These communities or orders of men are called clerical, 
meaning that their members are priests, or lay institutes^ 
if composed of brothers. 

While the majority of religious orders and congrega- 
tions have both priests and brothers living according to 
their rule, there are societies where the membership is 
made up of brothers, with few priest members. These 
societies are directed to a particular purpose while they 
live a life of personal spiritual advancement. Such societies 
include the Christian Brothers; Brothers of Mary; etc. 



RELIGIOUS ORDERS OF WOMEN AND TERTIARIES. The 
religious rules of life, adapted to women, were patterned 
after the rules developed for men. There are two groups 
of women in religious life. Those living in monastic seclu- 
sion and leading a life devoted to contemplation are 
usually referred to as nuns; women joined in communities, 
but engaged in an active apostolate outside the cloister, 
are more often called sisters. However, the titles are 
commonly used for both. 

In addressing groups of nuns or sisters, it is the practice 
to refer to them as "Venerable" which is a term of 
dignity. In listing a sister's name or addressing her in 
correspondence, it is proper and preferred that the initials 
of her affiliation be given. This is because of the simi- 
larity of names taken in the religious life and the courtesy 
of recognizing her life, and thus it is proper, for example, 
to write: Sister Mary , B.V.M. 

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Religious orders are affiliated with associations of the 
laity known as third orders and referred to as terti&nes. 
These members are not properly members of the religious 
state but are made up of groups of people who, while 
living in the world, espouse a particular rule of religious 
life (Dominican, Franciscan, Carmelite, etc.). They 
say certain prescribed prayers and conduct themselves 
in accord with a life directed toward their personal 
sanctification. 

Also there are third orders regular whose members 
live a religious life but are also active in some apostolic 
work, teaching, nursing, or missions- They take public 
vows of chastity, poverty, and obedience. They are usually 
addressed as "Sister." 



Terms of Address 



(Key: in formal address, as indicated in the following: 
(a) direct speech or conversation; (b) correspondence. 
The abbreviation, add. y is for the address on the envelope j 
sal. y the salutation of a letter.) 

THE POPE (a) Your Holiness, (b) Add.: To His 
Holiness, Pope Sal. : Most Holy Father, 

CARDINALS (a) Your Eminence, (b) Add.: His Emi- 
nence (Christian name) Cardinal (surname). Sal.: My 
Lord Cardinal. 

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LATIN PATRIARCHS (a) Your Excellency, (b) Add.: His 
Excellency the Patriarch of .... Sal. : Your Excellency 
or Most Reverend Excellency. 

EASTERN PATRIARCHS (a) Your Beatitude, (b) Add.: 
His Beatitude the Patriarch of .... Sal.: Most Reverend 
Lord. 

APOSTOLIC DELEGATES AND NUNCIOS (a) Your Ex- 
cellency, (b) Add.: His Excellency Archbishop (or 
Monsignor) .... SaL : Your Excellency. 

ARCHBISHOPS (a) Your Excellency, (b) Add.: The 

Most Rev ? D.D. ? Archbishop of .... Sal.: Your 

Excellency. 

BISHOPS (a) Your Excellency, (b) Add.: The Most Rev. 
* . . . y D.D.j Bishop of .... SaL: Most Reverend. 

ABBOTS (a) Father Abbot or My Lord Abbot, (b) Add,: 
The Rt. Rev. . . . , , Abbot of.... Sal.: Right Reverend 
Abbot. 

ABBESSES (a) Lady Abbess or Mother Abbess, (b) Add.: 
Lady Abbess . * , . , Abbess of .... Sal.: Dear Mother 
Abbess. 

PROTHONOTARIES APOSTOLIC (Domestic Prelates and 
Vicars-General) (a) Monsignor. (b) Add.: The Rt. 

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Rev. Monsignor . . . . 3 P. A. or V.G. Sal.: Right Reverend 
and Dear Monsignor* 

PROVOSTS AND CANONS (a) Provost or Canon, (b) Add.: 
The Very Rev. Provost (or Canon). Sal.: Very Reverend 
Provost or Dear Canon. 

PAPAL CHAMBERLAINS (a) Monsignor. (b) Add.: The 
Very Rev. Monsignor . ... Sal. : Very Reverend Mon- 
signor. 

RECTORS OF SEMINARIES (a) Father (or title), (b) 
Add.: The Very Rev. . . . . Sal.: Very Reverend and 
Dear Father (or title). 

PROVINCIALS OF RELIGIOUS ORDERS (a) Father Pro- 
vincial, (b) Add.: The Very Rev. Father Provincial. . . . 
Sal. : Very Reverend and Dear Father Provincial. 

PRIORS (a) Father Prior, (b) Add.: The Very Rev, 
Father Prior. . . . Sal.: Very Reverend and Dear Father 
Prior. 

PRIORESSES (a) Mother Prioress, (b) Add.: The Very 

Rev. Mother Prioress Sal.: Very Reverend and Dear 

Mother Prioress. 

RURAL DEANS (a) Father, (b) Add.i The Very Rcir, 
. . . . , V.K Sal,: Very Reverend and Dear Dean. 



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PRIESTS, DIOCESAN (a) Father, (b) Add.: The Rev. . . . 
SaL: Reverend and Dear Father. 

PRIESTS, RELIGIOUS (a) Father, (b) Add.: The Rev- 
erend Father. . . . Sal.: Reverend and Dear Father. 

CLERICS (BELOW ORDER OF PRIESTHOOD) (a) no title, 
(b) Add.:Tht Rev. Mr . Sal.: Reverend Sir. 

BROTHERS (a) Brother, (b) Add.; Venerable Brother 
.... Sal.: Venerable and Dear Brother. 

SISTERS (a) Sister, (b) Add.: Venerable Sister .... Sal.: 
Venerable and Dear Sister. 

PAPAL KNIGHTS (a) Sir (b) Add.: The Honorable 
. . . . , K.S.G. (or K.H.S.). Sal.: Honorable and Dear Sir. 



The Laity 



By definition, all those persons who are not clerics 
are lay people. As such, the laity as members of the Church 
and of the mystical body are frequently referred to as 
a the faithful." Lay people have the right, under the man- 
date of Christ and under the law of the Church (c. 682) 
to receive from the clergy the aids to their salvation, 
including the sacraments, instruction in the faith, good 
example, etc. Lay persons may participate in administering 
Church property under the law and by special delegation. 

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At the same time, the laity are to subject themselves 
in filial obedience to the Church, observing its laws, ac- 
cepting the ministry given, seeking proper instruction, and 
joining in Catholic associations for the spread of Catholic 
belief and practice among all men. 







THE LAY APOSTOLATE. The laity has both the oppor- 
tunity and the obligation to seek, first, its own perfection, 
and second, the perfection of others through works of 
merit. This activity is called the "lay apostolate." It may 
be both singular and group action* The layman may seek 
his own sanctification by complying with the law and 
directives of the Church, by receiving the aids of grace 
through reception of the sacraments, by seeking proper in- 
struction for himself and those subject to him, and by 
acquiring greater knowledge, and hence greater effective- 
ness, in -working for the Church. The role of a lay apostle 
begins with ourselves and our families and extends to all 
t the associations of our social life. 

CATHOLIC ACTION. By definition, Catholic Action ex- 
tends broadly, embracing activities which seek the good 
of the parish, the diocese, the state and the nation. Its 
operation is the diffusion through society of the Christian 
principles of faith and morals, including domestic, social, 
and legislative areas. 

Concerning Catholic Action, Pope Pius XI declares: 
It is not alone "of the pursuit of personal Christian per- 
fection which is, however, before all others, its first 



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and greatest end, but also of a true apostolate in which 
Catholics of every social class participate, coming thus 
to be united in thought and action around those centers of 
sound doctrine and multiple social activity, legitimately 
constituted, and, as a result, aided an<J sustained by the 
authority of the bishops." In the strict sense of the term, 
Catholic Action must have two primary qualities to be 
genuine: each group should have an apostolic objective 
and be organized under the direction of the hierarchy. 

There are many organizations which promote Catholic 
Action in different degrees. Activity takes place in many 
enterprises: study clubs, radio programs, parish and mis- 
sion work, religious instruction (Confraternity of Chris- 
tian Doctrine), writing, art, labor organizations, etc. 
(See Catholic Organizations?) At the same time, the 
laity is encouraged to group itself in vocational units, that 
is, associations of fanners, doctors, lawyers, employers, 
workingmen, technicians, students, etc. 

It must be emphasized, however, that Catholic Action 
is not a political party, and may not be affiliated with any 
political activity. Organizations of the laity must seek the 
counsel of the clergy in obtaining spiritual direction in 
Catholic Action work. 

DIGNITIES CONFERRED ON LAY PERSONS. The chief 
formal honors conferred on members of the laity are 
several pontifical awards. As a sovereign ruler, the pope 
may award a title of nobility ranging in rank from prince 
to baron. 



THE CHURCH AND HER AUTHORITY 

These honors constitute a dignity by title and are con- 
ferred by the pope upon petition of the bishop of the 
diocese where the person lives. They are awarded to 
Catholics (sometimes to non-Catholics) for notable ser- 
vice to the Church in science, literature, the arts, teaching, 
or for notable alms given to the Church, endowments 
established, etc. 

The Noble Guard is made up of distinguished gentle- 
men who form a bodyguard for the pope, and a detachment 
attends him when he appears for a formal public function. 
The commandant is always a Roman prince (Italian 
nobility), decorated with the Order of Christ. Each 
member must be of a family having had noble rank for 
at least sixty years, have an independent income, be in 
good health and of outstanding character. 

Besides these, there are six pontifical honors conferred 
on laymen. These are orders of pontifical knighthood and 
are in rank: 1. Supreme Order of Christ; 2. Order of 
Pius IX; 3. Order of St. Gregory the Great; 4. Order of 
St. Sylvester; 5. Order of the Golden Militia or Golden 
Spur; 6. Order of the Holy Sepulcher. Each carries 
several or more degrees of rank. The degree of rank, the 
insignia, and the directions on the type of uniform are 
included in the documents of bestowal* 

Other papal decorations are given by conferring medals 
of distinction. These are given for unusual services and 
are: the Pro Ecclesia et Pantifice (For Church and Pope), 
the Benemerenti Melal and the Medal of the Holy 



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Various other honors are conferred upon the laity by 
organizations or schools, and are awards for unusual ac- 
complishments, e.g., the Laetare Medal conferred by the 
University of Notre Dame and the Magnificat Medal con- 
ferred upon the outstanding Catholic college woman 
graduate by Mundelein College of Chicago. 

It is an honor for a lay person to hold an office in 
any of the Church organizations, whether this be on a 
national, diocesan or parish level. The wearing of the 
insignia of Church societies is also an honor and the 
Church in some instances has attached indulgences to the 
wearing, e.g., an indulgence of 300 days once a day for 
all members of the Holy Name Society who regularly but 
visibly wear the Holy Name emblem while they are in 
any public place, provided they say once a day, "Blessed 
be the name of the Lord." 



The Law of the Church 

All members of the Church are governed by the pope 
and bishops. However, a body of formal law embraces 
all the specific privileges and regulating powers which 
affect the laity for example, the discipline of the 
sacraments and sacramentals, reservations, censures, fast 
and abstinence, indulgences, confraternities, books, eccle- 
siastical burial, etc. The application of these laws is 
exercised by the priests and constitutes the extent of their 
delegated powers. 

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CANON LAW is Church Law as distinguished from moral 
and civil law. The Church has the right to make laws 
for all her members (cf. Mt. 16). 

At present, the law of the Church is contained in the 
Ne<w Code of Canon Law which was promulgated in 1917 
by Pope Benedict XV. On Pentecost Sunday, May 19, 
1918, it became law for all the Latin Church. 

The Code of Canon Law is divided into five books: 

1. General norms: What former laws, general and 
particular, may still be followed} interpretation of laws 
and customs. It then presents the rules concerning time 
for various acts and obligations, the kinds of rescripts, 
their interpretation, and the nature of privileges and 
dispensations. 

2. Persons: Both general and particular persons, moral 
and juridical persons, physical persons, the clergy, the 
pope, cardinals, bishops, pastors, canons, religious orders 
and congregations. 

3. Things: The sacraments, the Mass, stipends, 
church property, ecclesiastical burial, divine worship, 
censorship, preaching, benefices, pious foundations, etc. 

4. Courts and processes: The difficult questions of 
procedure, competence, etc. 

5. Crimes and punishments y including the responsi- 
bility and particular penalties. 

These five books embrace 2,414 canons. The study of 
canon law is required of all priests. 

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REGULATIONS. In addition to these canons there are pre- 
cepts of the Church which bind members in conscience. 
(See Commands of the Church.} Actually these precepts 
are laws in the accepted meaning of the term. 

The parish priest is the first interpreter of canon law 
as it applies to the laity. He is not only instructed in 
sufficient degree to counsel the laity in matters of law, 
but he may petition an ecclesiastical court in behalf of 
anyone who petitions him. 

Besides precepts and canon law, there are from time 
to time special regulations given by the ordinary of a 
diocese. These may be merely regulating laws or they may 
be binding under penalty of sin. This right arises from 
the jurisdictional power of the bishop. In all instances, 
regulations are made known by pastoral letter, publication 
or special announcement to the faithful. 

The clergy and religious superiors are guided by law 
in all that they do in ministering to the faithful. 



The Commands 
of the Church 




The Commands 
of the Church 



commands of the Church, also called "pre- 
I cepts" of the Church, are laws which bind all 
JL Catholics under penalty of sin. The Church being 
a perfect society and hence endowed by God with the 
authority and the means necessary to secure the spiritual 
good of its members, has the right and power to make 
laws. 

While these are laws in the true sense, carrying the 
penalty imposed, they should be looked upon not so much 
as "restrictions" but as aids which, when followed, bring 
to the follower the benefits and spiritual good of the 
Church. In practice, these laws encourage and extend the 
virtues of temperance, religion and faith. 

The Baltimore Catechism of Christian E>octrine lists 
six commands of the Church which apply to Catholics. 

These six are: 

1. To assist at Mass on all Sundays and holydays of 
obligation. 

2. To fast and to abstain 00 the days appointed, 

3. To confess one*s sins at least once a year. 

4. To receive Holy Communion during the Easter 
time* 

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5. To contribute to the support of the Church. 

6. To observe the laws of the Church concerning 
marriage. 

We shall treat briefly of these commands of the 
Church, to clarify the particular times and the essential 
practices which Catholics are to observe. 

Attendance at Mass 

Under the section on the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, 
the conditions of attendance at Mass on Sundays and holy- 
days of obligation are outlined. 

In the United States, the holydays of obligation, 
besides the Sundays of the year, are the following: 

L The Feast of the Circumcision of Our Lord 
(New Year's Day January 1). 

2. The Feast of the Ascension of Our Lord (observed 
on the fortieth day after the Feast of the Resurrection 
or Easter Sunday), 

3. The Feast of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin 
Mary (August 15). 

4. The Feast of All Saints (November 1). 

5. The Feast of the Immaculate Conception of the 
Blessed Virgin Mary (December 8). This is the patronal 
feast of the United States, for it is under this title that 
the United States is dedicated to the Blessed Mother. 

6. The Feast of the Nativity of Our Lord (Christinas 
Day, December 25). 



THE COMMANDS OF THE CHURCH 

Under the divine positive law all are obliged to keep 
holy the Lord's Day and, under this command and the 
interpretations of the Church, all servile works, court 
sessions and public markets are forbidden on Sundays and 
holydays of obligation. 

By servile work is meant work which is chiefly phy- 
sical, manual or mechanical. It does not mean work for 
which one is paid, as some believe. Not prohibited under 
the law are intellectual pursuits, such as study, reading, 
etc., artistic endeavors, such as painting, music j or general 
pursuits, like cooking or giving a speech. The excusing 
causes may be generally listed under these headings: phys- 
ical or moral impossibility (the necessity to work to mam- 
tain one's job), custom (e.g., working on holydays at 
regular work from which one is not excused) j and dis- 
pensation. 

The private and public worship of God is prescribed 
By divine law. The Church declares the days on which 
worship is to be offered and the frequency. It is not re- 
quired to attend jnore than one Mass on a holyday, for 
example. 

The question may arise concerning the patronage of 
shopping centers which are kept open on Sundays. It would 
be the proper course not to shop on Sundays, unless a seri- 
ous necessity or the impossibility of shopping on other days 
of the week make such activity necessary. 




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Fast and Abstinence 

The general rules of fasting and abstaining in the 
United States are given here. Particular regulations may 
be established for some dioceses by the ordinary, and these 
regulations may be learned through the Catholic news- 
paper of the diocese or by announcements. 

The law of fasting permits one full meal at which 
meat may be taken on a day of fast. On the same day 
two other meatless meals may be taken, but these two 
together should not be more than a full meal in quantity. 
When a day of fast occurs on Friday, meat may not be 
taken at the principal meal. On Ash Wednesday, and the 
vigils (day before) of the feasts of the Assumption and 
Christmas, meat may not be taken at the principal meal. 
A day of fast is reckoned from midnight to midnight. 

On all days of fast no eating between meals is per- 
mitted. However, liquids (as milk, beer, fruit juices) may 
be taken. 

Everyone over 21 years of age (past his 21st birthday) 
and under 59 years complete is obliged to fast. 

Members of the armed forces, while they are on 
active service (including the training periods of the re- 
serve forces) are not obliged by the law of fast and ab- 
stinence except on Ash Wednesday, Good Friday, and the 
vigil of Christmas. They are also obliged to the law of 
fast (but not abstinence) on Holy Saturday. This dispen- 
sation applies wherever this service may be, that is, foreign 

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or domestic assignments. Likewise, the dispensation 
applies to members of his family and servants if the ser- 
viceman habitually lives with them during the time of 
service, whether on or off the post. 

No one is obliged to fast when a vigil occurs on a 
Sunday. When a holyday of obligation occurs on Friday 
no one is obliged to fast or abstain. 

By special rescript, the ordinaries of the United States 
may dispense the faithful of their dioceses from fast and/ 
or abstinence when "any of the civil holidays now observed 
occur on a day of fast and abstinence or of abstinence 
alone." 

The days of fast are: the weekdays of Lent j all Ember 
days (Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday of weeks occurring 
four times during the year, once during each of the 
seasons) ; the vigils of the feasts of Pentecost, Assumption, 
and Christmas. 

The laws of abstinence differ from the law of fasting 
in this manner: fasting limits the quantity and time of 
eating} abstinence forbids the eating of meat, broth or 
sbup made with meat. Thus it concerns the quality or 
type of food. 

Under the law of abstinence the term meat includes 
flesh meat, broth, meat-derived products (e.g., bouillon) 
of all mammals and fowL Thus are included the flesh, 
marrow, blood, brains, tripe, meat extracts, minHTOat, 
beef tea, mutton soup, etc. The term soup includes ml! 
soups made from meat stock, even those cooked with soup- 
bone from which the bone is removed before serving. 

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Permitted under the law are fish> and the flesh of 
cold-blooded animals such as turtles, frogs, snails, shell- 
fish, oysters, crabs, and lobsters. Custom or special legis- 
lation may permit whale meat, seal meat, etc. 

The law of abstinence is applied partially on days when 
meat may be taken once at the principal meal (see above), 
or completely, as on days when no meat is permitted. 

The days of complete abstinence are: all Fridays, Ash 
Wednesday, the vigils of Assumption (Aug. 14) and 
Christmas (Dec. 24), and Holy Saturday.* 

The days of partial abstinence are: Ember Wednesday 
and Saturdays, and the vigil of the feast of Pentecost. 

Pastors may dispense, for a just cause, individuals or 
families from fast and/or abstinence. 

In case of doubt concerning the laws of fast or ab- 
stinence or whether or not the law obliges you, consult 
your pastor or confessor. 



Annual Confession 



The requirement of this law is that all of the faithful 
who have attained the use of reason (See Penance} must 
confess their sins through sacramental confession at least 
once a year. 

Usually this obligation of annual confession is satisfied 
at the time when the faithful seek to fulfill the command 

*A ipeciii privilege from the Holy See allows American bishops to make changes 
J the general law for their own dioceses. Such changes may occur especially on 
Holy Saturday. 

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of receiving Holy Communion during the time of Easter. 
However, it may be satisfied at any time during the year. 
The wish of the Church is that the faithful seek the 
graces of the sacrament of penance frequently. 




Easter Duty 



All members of the faithful who have received their 
first Holy Communion (See The Holy Eucharist) are 
obliged to receive Holy Communion once a year, at least 
during Easter time. 

The Easter time^ under rulings by the American 
bishops, is extended from the first Sunday of Lent to the 
feast of Trinity Sunday, inclusive. 

If one does not receive Holy Communion during this 
time, he still has the obligation to receive Holy Commun- 
ion within the year. 

A Catholic may satisfy this obligation by receiving 
Holy Communion in any parish, but it is recommended 
that one receive in his own parish if possible. If the recep- 
tion of Holy Communion in fulfilling this obligation is 
made in another parish than one*s own, tfae pastor of ibis 
parish should be so informed. 

Reception of Holy ConHnumoi* in any Catibolic rite 
fulfills this obligation^ 

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Contributing to Church Support 

The obligation to support the pastor, the Church and 
the works of religion is founded on both the natural and 
the positive divine law. Under the natural law, those ap- 
pointed by legitimate authority (as pastors appointed and 
ordained by the Church) have a right in justice and by 
contract to be supported. This obligation is declared by 
divine law as is stated by St. Paul, "The Lord directed 
that those who preach the gospel should have their living 
from the gospel" (1 Cor. 9:14). The Church has the 
right to exact from the faithful what is required for the 
support of her ministers and that which is necessary for 
divine worship and other projects essential to the purpose 
of the Church (c. 1496). 

The degree to which each member of the faithful is 
to satisfy this obligation is voluntary in so far as it is up 
to each to determine the amount. The amount should 
always be in proportion to the ability to pay and should 
not be considered as an alms. It should be considered as a 
portion of the budgeted account, coming out of current 
income, even at a sacrifice of luxuries. To say, "When I 
get a lot of money, Pll give some to the Church" is not 
a satisfactory intention. 

The contributions made in meeting this obligation 
include all money given freely at the door of the Church 
(admissions in the sense of a charge for attendance are not 
permitted), the offertory collections (whether made by 

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envelope or in cash), church membership dues, collections 
at divine services (e.g., Holy Hours), Christmas and 
Easter offerings, Peter's Pence, stole-fees, special drives, 
contributions to the Propagation of the Faith, and the 
offerings made for Mass intentions. Besides these, the 
faithful who contribute to the support of Catholic edu- 
cation through payment of tuition and school fees are 
satisfying in part this obligation. 

Offerings made at votive light stands are contributions 
in satisfaction of this obligation, but it must be remem- 
bered that these votive candles are not blessed, and of 
themselves are not to be looked upon as "guarantees" of 
favors. The prayer and intentions one makes when burning 
a vigil light are commendable, but they may be made 
without the burning of a candle which is not even a 
sacramental of the Church. 

Alms or fees paid to organizations which are not em- 
ployed directly by the Church are not considered part of 
this support money, e.g., dues in a fraternal society, such 
as the Knights of Columbus. 

The prime support obligation of a Catholic is owed 
to his home parish, since these priests bring the gospel 
directly to him. 

The faithful may make wills in which they contribute 
to the support of the Church (the parish or the diocese 
may be the beneficiary), or they may establish ajanuities 
payable to the Church. This is a most commendable ex- 
tension of the fruits of one's life to the temporal needs 
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cannot thus meet the obligations of the heirs to support 
the Church j nor may the heirs look upon such legacies 
as taking care of their obligations. 

In some instances, a form of beneficial endowment 
may be established by societies or individuals taking out 
life insurance on the lives of young priests, with the 
diocese or the parish as the beneficiary. Payment of such 
premiums are tax deductible, and the ultimate payment 
to the beneficiary is not subject to inheritance taxation. 

The obligation for the support of the Church rests 
upon all the faithful, whether or not they are registered 
as members of a parish. Those who fail to register in a 
parish, thinking that they will not have to contribute to 
the support of the Church, are grievously at fault. 



Concerning Marriage 

The laws of the Church concerning marriage are out- 
lined in the next chapter. (See Matrimony.'} Persons 
contemplating marriage should consult their parish priest 
in all cases of doubt. 



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The Sacraments 





The Sacraments 

A MINISTRATION of the sacraments is by a duly or- 
dained and authorized priest* Ceremonies followed 
in the administration of each sacrament are gov- 
erned by Church ritual. 

On the part of the recipient, there are spiritual dis- 
positions, intentions, and benefits, but we will touch only 
upon those which pertain to the reception of the sacra- 
ments on the part of the laity, and those regulations under 
which the laity functions. 




Baptism 



The sacrament of baptism, based upon the teaching 
of Scripture, is declared by the Church to be absolutely 
necessary, in fact or in desire, for salvation. An adult seek- 
ing valid baptism must have the intention of receiving tbe 
sacrament, which calls for an act of reason, A convert 
should thus be prepared by sufficient Instruction in the 
faith and the requirements of liturgy before being ad- 
mitted to baptism. 

Adults who because of some inmffioency never had 

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the use of reason (cretins, idiots, morons, etc.) may be 
baptized like infants. If one loses his reason, he may be 
baptized thereafter if he desired the sacrament before the 
loss of reason. 

The ordinary minister of baptism is a priest. In 
solemn baptism of infants the sacrament should be ad- 
ministered by the pastor of the parents, unless permission 
to have another priest administer the sacrament has been 
obtained from either the pastor or the bishop. 

THE TIME. Since baptism is mostly given to infants, it is 
necessary that the child be provided with sponsors, and be 
presented in the church as soon as is reasonable after birth. 
This reasonable time is considered to be ten 'days to three 
weeks after birth in ordinary circumstances sooner, of 
course, if the child is in doubtful health (See Private 
Baptism) , and it may not be delayed beyond three or four 
weeks, except for serious reasons. 

THE PLACE. A church or a public oratory are the proper 
places for solemn baptism. Under special conditions, 
solemn baptism may be administered in other places, e.g., 
the chapel of a Catholic hospital. The ceremonies of 
solemn baptism take place at the baptistry or at the 
baptismal font within the church. 

THE SPONSORS. There should be at least one sponsor, but 
never more than two, for the person baptized validly 
(c. 765). These sponsors are commonly called "god- 

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parents," and where there are two sponsors they are one 
male and one female. The requirements for valid spon- 
sorship are: 1. The sponsor must be baptized, have the 
use of reason, and intend to undertake the obligation. 
This obligation is a serious duty to watch over the religious 
instruction of the child in later life. 2. Excluded from 
sponsorship are: a member of a heretical or schismatic 
sect (Protestant), or persons excommunicated by a con- 
demnatory or declaratory sentence, or declared infamous 
by law, or barred from legitimate acts. A deposed or 
degraded cleric may not be a sponsor. 3. The father, 
mother or spouse of the one baptized may not be a sponsor. 
4. The sponsor must be named by the one to be baptized, 
or by the parents or guardians. The priest administering 
may name the sponsor if any of the above have not done 
so. 5. In the act of baptism (when the water is poured 
and the essential words spoken) the sponsor must per- 
sonally (or the proxy acting for him) hold or touch the 
one baptized or lift him immediately after the baptism 
from the font or from the hands of the one administering 
the sacrament. 

For lawful sponsorship, the sponsor should be fourteen 
years of age (unless the priest administering permits one 
younger), must not be excommunicated or have lost: his 
good name, and he should be instriicted in Christian 
Doctrine. He should not be a novice or a member of a 
religions order (unless permission to act as sponsor was 
granted by his superior) or a parson in holy orders (unless 
permission of his ordinary has been obtained). 

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Spiritual relationship with the one baptized is con- 
tracted by the one baptizing validly. The sponsors like- 
wise contract relationship with the one for whom they 
act as sponsors. 

Following the spiritual relationship which they con- 
tract, the sponsors assume an obligation to provide 
Christian training for the person baptized, in the event 
that the parents or guardians do not or cannot assure such 
training. This responsibility is less in the case of an adult 
being baptized. 

THE CEREMONIES OF SOLEMN BAPTISM. As in the ritual 
of administration of all the sacraments, there are the essen- 
tials of matter and form which demonstrate outwardly the 
giving of grace, together with symbolic features. In the 
baptism of an infant, the child is brought to the font by 
the sponsors. There follows a brief series of questions and 
answers, at which time, in the name of the one to be 
baptized, the sponsors request both "faith and life ever- 
lasting." Then the priest, symbolizing the giving of the 
spirit to God, breathes on the face of the infant. After he 
has made the Sign of the Cross on the forehead and breast 
of the child, a bit of salt is put into the child's mouth, 
signifying the gift of wisdom, and an exorcism is pro- 
nounced. The priest then lays his stole upon the child, 
which signifies that the person is being welcomed into 
the Church of Christ* A profession of faith, the Apostles' 
Creed, is then said by the priest and sponsors, followed by 
the Our Father. 

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The next ceremony is called the Ephpheta^ after the 
account o the seventh chapter of St. Mark's Gospel. It 
consists of touching with saliva the ears and nostrils of 
the child. Then the renunciation of Satan, his works and 
temptation, is made (called the baptismal vows) and the 
child is anointed, on breast and back, in the form of a cross 
with the holy oil of the catechumens. There follows a 
second profession of faith, with questions by the priest 
and answers by the sponsors. 

Then the sacrament is given by pouring water on tjie 
head of the child while these words are said: "I baptize 
you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the 
Holy Spirit." During this action the sponsors hold the 
child (if it is the custom for the godmother to hold the 
child over the font, the godfather must touch the child 
with his right hand either on or under the child's right 
shoulder)* 

Immediately after this baptism the priest anoints the 
head of the child with Holy Chrism, and a white cloth 
is placed on the child's head symbolizing the gift of sanc- 
tifying grace. A lighted candle is presented to the child 
but held by the sponsors briefly. 

The ceremony of solemn baptism for adults is slightly 
different from the above and is more lengthy. 

PRIVATE BAPTISM. Consisting of the essential rite of 
pouring the water while pronouncing the words, primate 
baptisn may be given by any person who performs the 
rite and intends to do what the Church does* It is usually 

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given only when there is danger of death. Intra-uterine 
baptism, when necessary, should be given by the physician 
and is doubtfully valid, meaning it should later be repeated. 
When, because of necessity, only private baptism is given, 
the ceremonies of solemn baptism must be supplied later. 

SELECTING A BAPTISMAL NAME. It has been the practice 
from earliest times of the Church to choose the name of 
a saint, and to give this name to the person baptized. This 
Christian name should be selected by the parents, and 
should they fail, it is the right and obligation of the priest 
who administers the sacrament to confer a Christian 
name and enter that name in the record. 

The saint whose name is chosen becomes, by custom, 
the patron of the one baptized. 

It is permissible to have a name which is derived from 
the name of a saint, e.g., Helene, derived from Helen. 
It likewise is permitted to have combinations of names, 
e.g., Annamariej or a name which is derived from another 
or is a foreign language form of the name, e-g., Roberta. 
It is well to consult, in case of doubt, one of the books 
of Christian names which have been compiled, or ask the 
priest who is to perform the ceremony. 

THE RECORDING OF THE BAPTISM. It is the obligation of 
the pastor to record the baptism and the name of the 
person baptized. It is customary to give a "certificate" to 
the parents or guardians of the child, which certificate is 
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information. This becomes a legal and necessary document 
and should be carefully retained. It is also well for parents 
to make a separate record and keep this in a safe place. 

THE OFFERING. An offering, called properly a "stole- 
fee," but sometimes loosely referred to as a "stipend/' is 
presented to the priest who administers solemn baptism. 
This offering is made, not for the service, but in recogni- 
tion of the pastoral care of the priest over the people in his 
charge. Thus the offering is presented to the priest btp- 
tizing, who refers it to the pastor of the church where 
the baptism took place. (The stole-fee belongs to the 
pastor by right.) The amount of the offering may be 
determined by law or custom. When calling the parish 
rectory to arrange for the baptism, it is not amiss to ask 
what the customary amount of the offering is. In the 
case of poverty or inability to make an offering, the service 
is, of course, never denied; inability to make an offering 
is thus not an excuse for not seeking the baptism or 
delaying it. 

HELPFUL NOTES ON BAPTISM 

1 . Contact the church rectory to arrange for the ad- 
ministering of the sacrament of baptism as soon ms possible 
after birth. 

2. Since the role of sponsor is m serious c^bligitk^ 
choose sponsors who are irspoiislble and who are not too 
elderly to fulfill their duties* 

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before the time of ceremony. A definite time will in most 
instances be set for administering the sacrament, and this 
time should be kept, since other baptisms may be scheduled 
for the same day. If the hour of appointment cannot be 
kept, it is courteous to notify the rectory as soon as possible. 

4. In case of doubt about the amount of offering or 
the name chosen, consult the parish priest. 

5. It is recommended that the baby be dressed with 
a garment that is loose at the neck, so that the priest may 
make the anointings without undue discomfort to the child. 

6. At the time when arrangements are made for the 
baptism, it may be well to also arrange for the blessing of 
the mother, called "churching," if it is desired. 




Penance 

Reception of the sacrament of penance is prepared 
for by instruction, and is usually received for the first 
time shortly after a child has attained the use of reason. 
This is generally accepted to be about the age of seven 
years, 

The confession of all mortal sin after baptism is nec- 
essary by divine law. Thus the sacrament of penance may 
be received as often as necessary, and should be, so that 
the grace of the sacrament may aid in keeping one from 
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other sacraments by disposing one to pursue a more intense 
spiritual life and progress toward perfection. 

THE MINISTER OF THE SACRAMENT, The sacrament of 
penance may be validly administered only by a priest who 
has the jurisdiction, that is, has been given the delegated 
faculties by his bishop or by special grant. The priest 
administering the sacrament acts in the place of Christ 
and serves as a judge under the most serious obligation of 
secrecy, called the "seal of confession." Acting in this 
role, the priest minister is called the "confessor," 

THE RECIPIENT OF THE SACRAMENT, The one receiving 
the sacrament of penance is called the penitent. Having 
been instructed and having attained the required age ? the 
penitent approaches the sacrament with certain necessary 
actions. These are: 

1. Contrition: This disposition of mind and soul has 
two notable and essential requirements included in it, 
namely, sorrow for having offended or sinned against God, 
and a firm purpose of amendment, or the resolve not to 
sin again. 

2. Confession: This means that all mortal sins com- 
mitted and venial sins that may be recalled be confessed, 
with the number of times oommitted. The number is 
important in recalling mortal sins. The confession must 
be made audibly, that is, to be heard by the confessor, 

3. Satisfaction: This is the acceptance and fulfiHmmt 
of the penance which the confessor imposes 00 the 

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penitent. As a rule, the penance given is proportionate in 
degree to the gravity of the sins confessed, but no set 
rule as to amount has been declared and this is left to the 
discretion of the confessor. The penance may be a single 
prayer, a number of prayers, the recitation of five decades 
of the Rosary, the recitation of a litany, etc., according 
to the judgment of the confessor. It is also possible for 
the confessor to impose, prudently, more serious penances, 
as a fast, abstinence, hearing Mass, an alms, etc. 

When the sin confessed is of a nature which carries 
a censure of the Church, the confessor will explain the 
necessary steps required before absolution is given. 

THE TIME OF CONFESSION. One may seek the sacrament 
of penance at any time. It is customary that hours be 
appointed in parish churches for Saturday afternoons and 
evenings, on the days preceding holydays of obligation, and 
on the Thursdays before first Fridays. Some parishes have 
a time for confession before one or more of the daily 
Masses. 

THE PLACE OF CONFESSION. Any place which provides 
the secrecy necessary for the sacrament is suitable for the 
administration of penance. The most suitable and the 
proper place for receiving the sacrament is the confessional 
located in the church. This may be either a "double" 
confessional, providing an area for penitents on either 
side of the cubicle in which the confessor sits, or a "single** 
confessional, providing an area for one penitent. 



THE SACRAMENTS 

There is nothing strange or obscure about the con- 
fessional. It is merely a small area ? with a kneeling bench 
facing a screen (usually covered with a cloth on the inner, 
i.e. 3 the priest's side). Within the priest's cubicle there 
is a chair, a light, and sometimes a fan to circulate the air. 
Each area is now usually walled with acoustic material. 
Sometimes an earphone for the hard-of-hearing is 
provided. 

For the administration of the sacrament it is necessary 
that the penitent be present to speak and be heard. 

HELPFUL NOTES REGARDING PENAHCE 

1. It Is necessary for those wishing to receive the 
sacrament of penance to prepare themselves by an examina- 
tion of conscience and the recitation of an act of contrition. 
There is no need to rush to the confessional. 

2. Both courtesy and regard for the secrecy of the 
confessional should prompt those waiting to keep at a suf- 
ficient distance from the confessional to prevent hearing, 
even inadvertently, what is said* Should one overhear 
portions or words said in the confessional, it is wrong to 
repeat them. They should be promptly forgotten* 

3. The proper method of speaking in the confessional 
is in a very low voice or a whisper. 

4. The hard-of-hearing may give a message to the 
priest and provision will be made for a special e*mcbii* 
Today, in some confessionals, provision is made foe an 
electronic device which permits tsnttudwaa OTCT a special 
speaker and earpfaoiie jurimgaraoifc. 

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5. The penitent should say his penance as soon as 
possible after leaving the confessional. If the penance is 
not heard clearly, ask the priest to repeat it. 




The Holy Eucharist 

The sacrament of the Holy Eucharist is the presence 
of the body and blood of Jesus Christ under the appearances 
of bread and wine. Christ is truly, really and substantially 
present under both species and is whole and entirely pre- 
sent under each particle of either species. Thus the Holy 
Eucharist is the living Christ, 

The matter of the Eucharist is bread and wine, while 
the words of consecration spoken during the holy sacrifice 
of the Mass constitute the form of the sacrament, (We 
shall speak of the holy sacrifice of the Mass after speaking 
of the reception of the Holy Eucharist by lay people.) 

The Holy Eucharist, the Blessed Sacrament, gives us 
the presence of Christ in the tabernacles of our altars. 
The reception of this sacrament is commonly called Holy 
. (See also Viaiicum under TLxtreme Unction*) 



FIRST HOLY COMMUNION. The law of the Church de- 
mands that the child about to make his first confession 
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in the principles of Christian doctrine, especially those 
referring to the sacrament* The age for receiving Holy 
Communion is usually about seven for both boys and girls. 
The fitness of the child requires an individual judgment 
in each case, for it is apparent that some children are 
sufficiently prepared before that age, while others are not 
prepared for some more years. The judges are the child's 
confessor and parents or guardians. 

In danger of death. Viaticum may be given to a child 
before having received first Holy Communion instruction, 
provided the child can distinguish the Holy Communion 
from ordinary bread and can adore the Eucharist. This is 
a judgment for the attending priest to make. 

The objective in instructing children before first 
Holy Communion is to train them in the essentials of the 
faith and to instill a personal love of Christ. They also 
learn how to confess their sins and receive our Lord, 

The time of first Holy Communion is appointed by 
the pastor of the child. It is customary to set this time in 
the spring of the year, after Easter. 

NOTE: While it is the custom to make this occasion mem- 
orable by solemnity, it should be remembered that the 
essential is that the child know the great significance of 
the event. It is the practice to dress the little girls in white 
and the boys in white shirt and tie and trousers or a new 
suit* These preparations should not be lavish, nor such as 
to embarrass the poorer children, An inability on the pttt 
of the parents to provide new clothing is no excuse foe 
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CONDITIONS NECESSARY FOR RECEPTION OF HOLY 
COMMUNION, The one receiving Holy Communion 
should be in the state of grace y that is, free from all 
mortal sin. This condition can be assured by the confession 
of sins before receiving Holy Communion, but confession 
is not necessarily a preliminary preparation, provided one 
is in the state of grace. 

The second condition is that one observe theEucha- 
ristic fast. 

Taking effect on March 25, 1957, Pope Pius XII re- 
placed all previous rules concerning the Eucharistic fast. 
His new regulations, declared in the form of a Motu Pro- 
prio (i.e., a document issued by the Pope and signed by him 
personally), permits all of the faithful to receive Holy 
Communion after fasting from solid foods and alcoholic 
beverages for only three hours, and from other liquids for 
only one hour before receiving. Water, of course, may be 
taken at any time. This relaxing of the laws of the Euchar- 
istic fast was made with two recommendations, namely, 
that (a) priests and laymen who are able and so disposed 
continue to observe the "old and venerable form of the 
Eucharistic fast before Mass and Holy Communion ; ?> (b) 
all who use the new relaxed concessions "must compensate 
for the good received by becoming shining examples of a 
Christian life, and principally with works of penance 
and charity-" 

The specific rulings now in universal force throughout 
the Roman Catholic world arc: 

L The Eiiclmristic fast: the faithful must abstain from 

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solid foods and alcoholic drinks for three hours before 
receiving Holy Communion. Water does not break the 
fast and may be taken right up to the time of receiving. 
(The priest must begin his three hours fast three hours 
before he begins the celebration of Mass. In all other re- 
gards, the Eucharistic fast is the same for clergy and laity. 
Note that while the lay person need fast only three hours 
"before the time of receiving," it is practical for the lay- 
man also to figure three hours before the start of Mass to 
be certain of the time.) 

Liquids, even nourishing liquids such as eggnog, milk, 
broth, etc., may be taken by all lay persons up to one hour 
before receiving Holy Communion, by the priest up to one 
hour before he begins Mass. 

The water mentioned is interpreted as including plain 
water or ordinary water and also mineral water, carbonated 
water or chemically purified water. (Carbonated water , 
of course, does not mean carbonated beverages or soft 
drinks to which flavoring and sugar have been added.) 

The food is that which can be swallowed and digested 
and comes from outside the mouth. (Thus blood from an 
extracted tooth does not break the fast.) Sec above con- 
cerning liquids. 

2. The same rules apply for the reception of Holy 
Communion at a midnight Mass or at an evening Ma, 
that is, one celebrated after midday. One may IK* have 
received Holy Cbmmunion previously cm the same day , 
this being reckoned from midnight to midnight. 

3. The sick or tafirm, even if not bedridden, 

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take non-alcoholic beverages and that which is really and 
properly medicine, either in liquid or solid form, before 
Mass or Holy Communion without any time limit. This 
means that there is no longer any question of the ingredi- 
ents of a medicine, even if it contains some portion of alco- 
hol, so long as it is a true and proper medicine. No special 
dispensations are necessary. 

4. All the above rules apply also to children. 

NOTES; The brushing of teeth does not break the Eucha- 
ristic fast. Likewise, the smoking of cigarettes does not 
break the fast, but the practice is not commended. The 
taking of muff, the chewing of tobacco, the sucking of 
candy or lozenges does break the fast. 

The sick, those who are infirm, or weakened from 
old agCj arthritics, etc., even though they are not In danger 
of death (See Viaticum} , or those who must remain in 
bed or are confined to their homes for a month or more, 
with no immediate prospect of recovery, may receive Holy 
Communion upon the advice of their confessor. This is 
possible even if they have taken liquid nourishment or 
medicine. The right to bring Holy Communion to the 
sick belongs to the pastor of the sick person, but he may 
delegate this right to another priest. 

THE MINISTER OF HOLY COMMUNION. The priest is the 
ordinary minister of the sacrament of the Holy Eucharist. 
With permission of the local ordinary or the pastor, a 
deacon may be allowed to distribute Holy Communion. 

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PLACE AND TIME OF RECEIVING HOLY COMMUNION. 
The place of receiving Holy Communion is the church 
(exception: Viaticum and Holy Communion given to the 
sick as indicated above). Communion is given immediately 
before or after private Mass, but this is by exception. 
During the Mass is the proper time to receive Holy 
Communion. There should be preparation for reception 
and it should be followed by prayers of thanksgiving, ac- 
companied with the thought of the love and intimacy 
of Christ. 

THE FREQUENCY OF RECEIVING HOLY COMMUNION. 
The reception of Holy Communion on Sundays and even 
daily is recommended. The conditions are the same, that 
is, fasting and freedom from mortal sin, together with 
the right intention. The recommendation to receive fre- 
quently is backed by two reasons over and above the 
spiritual intimacy with Christ. These are that frequent 
Communion affords a great aid to perfection and helps 
to keep one from committing serious sins, 

THE "EASTER" COMMUNION. Under Church law (c. 
859) the faithful who are seven years of age are bound 
to receive Holy Communion once a year, at least during the 
Easter season. Most bishops by interpretation place this 
period as the time between the first Sunday of Lent md 
Trinity Simd&y. (See Precepts of the Chttrch.) 

HELPFUL NOTES OH RECEIVING HOLY COMMUNION. 
In recognition of the dignity of the tacrsmirat, 
manners should be observed. 

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1. Reception of the sacrament of Holy Communion 
is made by mouth under the one species of bread. It is 
most convenient for the priest to put the particle (called 
altar bread, host, or communion bread) on the recipient's 
tongue. It is proper thus for the recipient to extend the 
tongue, resting it lightly on the lower lip so that the 
tip of the tongue is just beyond the front edge of the 
lower lip. The mouth should be open sufficiently wide, 
so that the priest's fingers will not touch the upper lip or 
the teeth. If the tongue is extended lightly , it will not 
curl. It is also more easy to withdraw the tongue, with 
the host on it, from this position. Effort should be made 
to swallow the host as soon as possible after receiving it, 
even if this means moving the muscles or swallowing 
visibly. If the host should be so large or thick that it 
cannot be swallowed readily, it is permissible to break it 
against the teeth. 

2. Regardless of fashion, it is not proper for women 
to wear low-necked dresses or a dress with too loose a 
neckline. Likewise, it is recommended that full, loose 
collars on coats be thrown back from around the face. 

3. If there is a cloth on the Communion railing, it is 
proper to place one's hands under the front edge and hold 
it lightly against one's body. 

4. The approach to the Communion railing should be 
made with dignity, free from rushing. 

5. Entry and exit from the pews at Communion time 
should be made with a minimum of disturbance. Those 
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reverence the closeness of Christ in those about them who 
do receive Holy Communion. 

THE HOLY SACRIFICE OF THE MASS. The Holy Sacrifice 
of the Mass is a true sacrifice repeating in an unbloody 
manner the sacrifice of Christ on the Cross. This repe- 
tition is true in that the same chief priest, Christ, both 
offers and is offered. This offering is made in obedience, 
in adoration, in thanksgiving, in satisfaction to God the 
Father and in recognition of God's supreme dominion over 
all life. The Mass repeats the sacrifice of Christ on the 
cross by the offering of bread and wine, the matter, which 
is consecrated by the celebrating priest and consumed as 
a holocaust. 

THE CELEBRANT OF THE MASS. Only an ordained priest 
may offer the sacrifice of the Mass. 

THE TIME FOR THE CELEBRATION OF MASS. As a general 
rule, the sacrifice of the Mass may be celebrated not 
earlier than an hour before dawn, and not later than an 
hour after midday (noon). The exceptions to this general 
rule are the midnight Mass of Christmas and the Masses 
of Thursday and Saturday of Holy Work. The Supreme 
Pontiff has granted that Mass may be offered m the 
evening (not starting before 4 p.m.) with tlbe permission 
of the local ordinary and at the time and place designated 
by him. This grant has been made so tfamtj in this time of 
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conveniently attend Mass. The grant is exercised usually 
by bishops on first Fridays, holydays, etc. 

THE PLACE FOR THE CELEBRATION OF MASS. The sac- 
rifice of the Mass may be offered on a consecrated altar 
stone which is either fixed or portable. Properly, the Mass 
is offered in a church, in a public, semi-public, or private 
oratory which has been duly erected. Thus a chapel of a 
convent or institution would be by designation either a 
private or semi-public oratory, or may by special permission 
be designated as a public oratory. 

The bishop, by special grant for a sufficient cause, 
may permit Mass to be celebrated in any worthy place. 
Thus Mass may be celebrated out of doors (with a portable 
altar, i.e., a consecrated altar stone), in a public gathering 
place, such as a hall, or in a private home. The Mass may 
not be celebrated in a bedroom. Permission may be ob- 
tained by a priest from the Apostolic delegate together 
with the permission of his ordinary to celebrate Mass on 
an oceangoing vessel, 

ATTENDANCE AT MASS. It is a command of the Church, 
binding under the penalty of grave sin, that the faithful 
attend Mass on all Sundays and holydays of obligation. 
(See Commands of the Church,} 

This obligation may be observed validly by attending 
Mass in a church or public or semi-public oratory. 

The faithful, in satisfying their obligation to hear 
Mass, must fulfill certain minimum conditions: One must 
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of the attending congregation. (The latter is for presence 
when it would be some distance from the altar or where 
the celebrating priest might not be seen, as in a field 
Mass.) One must have a general intention of hearing Mass, 
or have a purpose of hearing and recognizing what is 
being celebrated. (This excludes mere presence in the 
church to look at the stained glass or listen to the sermon.) 
There should also be a general attention to the main parts 
of the Mass and external attention (which excludes 
reading a newspaper or sleeping during the Mass.) 

How TO ATTEND MASS. The sacrifice of the Mass is 
offered for and together with the celebrating priest by 
those, who attend. It is recommended that one attending 
Mass should attempt to understand or at least follow the 
Mass. 

The best method of attending Mass is to pray the 
missal, the prayers of the Mass as they are presented in 
their ordinary (i.e., the fixed prayers of the Mass) and 
their proper (i.e., the changeable parts of the Mass 
which vary with the feast being celebrated) sequences. 
By this means, the liturgy the worship of God is most 
fully observed. 

MISSING MASS. The obligation to hear Mass rests on mil 
the faithful* Exceptions are when it is impossible to 
attend because of some physical cause (sickness, great 
distance, unusually bad weather), moral cause (necessity 
to remain at home to care for the sick, dispensation, neces- 
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excuse, e.g., traveling on a train, etc. One may not con- 
sider distance to be excessive if the church is within 
walking distance, usually that of an hour's walk. One using 
an auto may not consider excessive a distance up to fif- 
teen miles. 

It is not permissible (except for serious reason) to 
deliberately leave a place where attendance is possible, 
and go a distance away, as on Saturday night, to a place 
where it would be impossible to attend Mass. 

It is also required that attendance at Mass be for the 
essential parts of the Mass, One would miss Mass and 
fail in satisfying his obligation by not being present at the 
Offertory, the Consecration, or the Communion. Persons 
attending Mass should be present before the priest ap- 
proaches the altar and remain until after the priest leaves 
the altar. Note that this discussion refers only to the 
obligation, binding under pain of mortal sin upon every 
Catholic, of hearing Mass on Sundays and holydays of 
obligation. Lesser sins are committed by those who are 
late for Mass deliberately or through carelessness. 

THE PARTS OF THE MASS. The sacrifice of the Mass is a 
unit consisting of prayers and the essential actions of 
sacrifice. It was evolved into its present form through 
many years. While changes have taken place in the 
sequence of prayers, there has never been a departure 
from the essentials of the sacrifice. Broadly, the Mass 
is divided into two parts: the Mass of the Catechumens , 
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Mass of the Faithful, which extends from the beginning 
of the Offertory to the end of the ceremony. 

In the structure of the Mass there is an interaction of 
prayer wherein we go to God and God in turn comes to 
us. This action, progressing through all parts of the Mass, 
is divided into a fourfold outline. (In the following, those 
parts which are in italics are the proper of the Mass or 
those which change each day according to the feast- The 
other parts are the ordinary of the Mass, and are the 
same for all Masses, although one prayer or the other may 
be omitted according to the season or feast.) 

THE MASS OF THE CATECHUMENS 

L We speak to God: we pray. 

Prayers at the foot of the altar; Introit; Kyricj Gloria 
(omitted on Sundays of Advent, Scptuagesima and Lent) j 
Collects (there may be more than one). 

2. God speaks to us: we are instructed. 
Epistle; Gradual; Alleluia; Tract; Sequence; Prayer 
before the Gospel; the Gospel (the sermon is usually 
preached after this, but is not a part of the Mass); the 
Nicene Creed (said only on Sundays and major feasts). 

THE MASS OF THE FAITHFUL 

L We give to God: our sacrificial offering. 
Offertory *erse; the offering of bread, wine and wiitcr; 
Lavabo; Prayer to the Holy Trinity; S&crete (there rnmj 
be more than one) ; Preface (15 variations said according 
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2, God gives to us: we receive the sacrificial banquet. 
The Our Father} the Agnus Dei; the pre-Communion 
prayers; the priest's Communion; the peoples' Commun- 
ion; the Ablutions; the Communion verse; the Post- 
communions (there may be more than one) ; the dismissal 
(or the Benedicamus in Masses without a Gloria; or Re- 
quiescant in requiem Masses); the Blessing (except in 
requiem Masses) ; then the Last Gospel (may be the 
Gospel of a feast falling on the same day). 

THE MASSES BY NAME. There are many types of Mass 
which differ not in their essential parts but only in the 
ceremonies which distinguish them or the purpose for 
which they are offered. 

1. A papal Mass is one in which the Holy Father is 
the celebrant. 

2. A pontifical Mass is a solemn high Mass celebrated 
by a bishop with the pontificals (e.g., crosier, mitre, etc). 
(A Mass which is offered in the presence of a bishop and 
in which he takes some part such as reading the prayers 
of the Mass of the Catechumens, is titled Mass coram 
episcopo a in the presence of the bishop.") 

3. A solemn Mass is one which is sung with the assis- 
tance of a deacon and subdeacon. 

4. High Mass is one sung by the celebrant without 
other ministers (also called a "sung" Mass or a "chanted" 
Mass). 

5. Low Mass is one celebrated by a priest which is 
neither ^ung nor solemn. This is also sometimes called a 

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"private" Mass, but the term private is applied variously, 
e.g., a Mass which is not public. 

6. A parochial Mass is: (a) the Mass celebrated for 
the people of a parish. (The pastor of a parish is obliged 
to celebrate Mass for the parishioners on specified days 
through the year.) (b) The high Mass said in public on 
Sundays or holydays of obligation. 

7. Votive Mass is one which is said by choice of the 
celebrant in place of the Mass of the minor feast of the 
day, e.g., Mass of the Sacred Heart celebrated on first 
Fridays, rather than the Mass of the day. 

8. A dialogue Mass (Missa recitata) is a low Mass at 
which the responses to prayers usually spoken by the 
acolyte are said aloud by all those present, 

9. The nuptial Mass is the votive Mass "for the 
bridegroom and bride," which contains certain special 
prayers of blessing and which is celebrated at weddings 
except at those times when it is forbidden (See Marriage). 

10. Requiem Mass y also called the Mass of the Dead, 
is celebrated in black vestments, and is said for the in- 
tention of the soul for whom it is offered. It may be a 
"sung" requiem Mass or a solemn requiem Mass. 

THE APPLICATION OF THE MASS. The holy sacrifice of 
the Mass is one in which there is worship, thanksgiving, 
petition and propitiation. It may be offered for the living 
and the dead j that is, its fruits or its merits may be applied, 
by intention, to the living, the dead, or any good mto&ticm. 
The merits of the Mass are infinite and tiirosfold: 

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(a) general, which are gained for all men but especially 
for those in attendance j (b) special, which are applied 
for the person or intention for which the Mass is celebra- 
ted} and (c) personal^ which are gained by the priest 
celebrating the Mass* The special benefits of the Mass 
may be applied by the priest freely, except when he must 
by law say the Mass for the people or when he is bound 
by a contract (stipend) or by a promise (justice). 

A lay person may request a priest to celebrate a Mass 
for a specific intention or for the repose of a deceased 
person's soul. It is not necessary to specify that a requiem 
Mass be said for a deceased person unless one wishes to 
have only a requiem Mass said. In other words, any per- 
mitted Mass may be said for a deceased person. (When 
persons are solicited to join "Mass leagues" or other 
multiple-intention offerings for Masses, they should 
consult their parish priest.) 

MASS STIPENDS. The priest celebrating Mass may accept 
an offering (a stipend) from a lay person. The lay person 
makes this offering in the following form, if written (it 
is best to write out intentions for Masses, even when 
addressing the request to a priest in person): 

"I request the celebration of a (specify low, high, 
solemn or requiem) Mass for the following intention 
...... (specify the person by name or the intention 

or simply %r my intention/ If the person is dead, 
write 'deceased* after the name). I wish to make the 
enclosed offering; (write amount offered)." 

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The amount of the offering is determined by the local 
ordinary or legitimate custom and may vary according to 
the Mass requested, e.g., two dollars for a low Massj five 
dollars for a high Mass. (The offering made for a funeral 
Mass is referred to rather as a stole-fee and may be greater 
by custom. It is proper to ask the priest what the cus- 
tomary offering is when making the arrangements for the 
funeral. A funeral Mass may be held in any church of 
the person's choice.) A larger offering than that estab- 
lished in a diocese may be made if one so wishes. 

The offering made is in no way to be looked upon as 
payment for services rendered or as a "charge** levied 
against the Mass. The amount is entirely voluntary and 
by custom, but the offering is a part of the layman's 
obligation to fulfill the command of the Church to support 
the priests (cf. I Cor. 9:13-14). However, it must be 
remembered that the poor may never be denied these 
services. 

When offerings for Masses are made by a fixed fund 
or a foundation, it is not proper for a lay person to request 
more Masses than the amount of the fund provides for 
under the customary fees established. 

Due to the increased demand for Masses on the part 
of the laity, it is sometimes impossible for the puribh 
priest to say all the Masses. It is proper for the priest to 
send such intentions and offerings to tfae office of the 
Society for the Propagation of the Faith in the diocese* 
The office will duly forward than to odbcr priests who 
are able to assume tlie obH^tibsL 

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SERVICES PERFORMED BY LAYMEN. There are three 
services which lay persons customarily are called upon to 
render to priests during the celebration of Mass. These are, 
first, that of acolyte or Mass server. This is usually an 
honor reserved for young boys of the parish. Parents should 
be most willing to have their sons, if called upon, respond. 
They should co-operate with the priest in the training 
and the scheduling of services for the boys. Secondly, a 
service which calls for both men and women is that of 
choir members. A choir is a necessary aid to the parish 
and membership in it is a distinct honor. Little initial 
knowledge of music is usually required, and in most in- 
stances it is not necessary to have exceptional voice 
qualities. The third service performed by laymen is the 
role of usher. Most churches require more than one man 
to fulfill this duty. Ushers are necessary and, while the 
demands upon them are slight, theirs is a position of 
honor in the parish. (In some parishes, but apart from 
any of the ritual of the Church, there are appointed 
trustees.) 




Confirmation 



The reception of the sacrament of confirmation is not 
necessary for salvation, but it should be received. By this 
sacrament, which is made available to all who meet the 
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are aided in seeking perfection, and are strengthened in 
the service of Christ. It is truly the sacrament of spiritual 
maturity. Through this sacrament a lasting seal or char- 
acter is placed upon the soul of the recipient, and this 
mark lasts forever. Because of the permanency of this 
spiritual mark, the sacrament is received only once. 

THE MINISTER OF CONFIRMATION. The ordinary minister 
of the sacrament of confirmation is the bishop. This may 
be either the ordinary of the diocese, the auxiliary or 
coadjutor bishop of the diocese, or a bishop invited or 
appointed to confirm within a particular place or territory- 
Under a special decree of the Sacred Congregation of the 
Sacraments, issued in 1946, certain priests may also con- 
firm. This is for administration to those in danger of 
death, or who because of old age cannot await the visit 
of the confirming bishop. 

THE RECIPIENT OF CONFIRMATION. The sacrament is 
administered to those who have been baptized and who 
have reached the age of seven years. Exception may be 
made regarding age in danger of death. The reception is 
today preceded by instruction, so that there may be a 
proper knowledge of the fruits of this sacrament. Such 
instruction is given to those to be confirmed before the 
scheduled visit of the confirming bishop, Under canon 
law the bishops of dioceses are requimi to provide for 
the administration of the sacrament of confirmatioiiy in 
every place in their dioceses, at lease once every five years* 

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THE SPONSOR IN CONFIRMATION. There should be for 
eaqh person confirmed a sponsor who is of the same sex 
as the one confirmed* One sponsor should not act for 
more than one confirmand, except for serious reason. 

Because of the large numbers of persons to be con- 
firmed, it is sometimes permitted that one man stand as 
sponsor for an entire group; but if so, he acts only as proxy 
for the others and is sponsor actually to only one of the 
group. Thus one man might stand as sponsor for all the 
boys or men being confirmed; if necessary, a woman might 
stand for the girls and women. This is an exception, and 
its necessity is determined by the ordinary. 

The sponsor must be a practicing Catholic, already 
confirmed. A sponsor may not be the father, mother or 
spouse of the one confirmed. He should be chosen by the 
one confirmed, or the parents, guardians, or the priest of 
the parish. The sponsor must physically touch the one 
confirmed (or do so by proxy) at the time of confirmation. 

The requirements for lawful sponsorship are the 
following: the sponsor must be other than the one acting 
as sponsor at baptism (unless confirmation is given right 
after baptism), must be of the same sex as the one con- 
firmed, should be at least fourteen years of age, and should 
be instructed in the fundamentals of Christian doctrine. 
He may not be a member of a religious community, unless 
permission of the religious superior is obtained for the 
sponsorship. 

The only duty of the sponsor toward the one con- 
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one confirmed while the sacrament is being administered. 
The sponsor of confirmation does not contract any 
spiritual relationship with the one confirmed. 

THE TAKING OF A PATRONAL NAME. Each person con- 
firmed chooses a saint's name, in addition to whatever 
first name he already has, and in this name he is confirmed. 
The saint becomes a special patron of the person. This 
name is chosen before the time of confirmation and usually 
written on a separate card and handed to the minister 
by the attending priest just before the sacrament is con- 
ferred on the individual. 

THE CEREMONIES OF CONFIRMATION. The sacrament of 
confirmation is generally administered in a parish at the 
convenience of the persons to be confirmed and according 
to the schedule of the bishop. The administration of the 
sacrament begins with the bishop, vested in a white cope 
and mitre, seated before the altar facing the people. After 
washing his hands, the bishop prays that the Holy Spirit 
may descend upon those to be confirmed, makes the Sign 
of the Cross and imposes his hands above all. Thereafter 
the bishop approaches those to be confined, who are 
generally lined up at the oHBmuokm railing, with their 
sponsors standing directly behind them. The bishop dips 
his right thumb into holy chrism and makes the Sign of 
the Crass 00 the forehead of each one to be confirmed 

and says, addresstag the person by name, a N , I saga 

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the chrism of salvation, in the name of the Father, and 
of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit." Thereafter he strikes 
lightly the cheek of the person confirmed, saying, "Peace 
be with you." This action is a symbol of the trials that 
each may be called upon to endure for Christ. 

Following the bishop, an assisting priest wipes off the 
chrism from the forehead of each confirmand. 

After performing the ceremony, the bishop prays for 
the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and concludes with a 
final blessing. The ceremony ends with all confirmands 
reciting the Apostles' Creed, the Our Father and the 
Hail Mary. 



HELPFUL NOTES ON RECEIVING CONFIRMATION. 

1. It is customary for the parents and the sponsor to 
give some gift to the person confirmed. This gift should 
be in keeping with the nature of the sacrament, and should 
be religious in character. 

2 Individual reception of the sacrament of confir- 
mation should be recalled on the feast of Pentecost. 

3. Some record of the reception of confirmation, be- 
sides that made at the parish church, should be kept by 
families. 

4. Either at the time of receiving first Holy Commun- 
ion or confirmation, it is customary to enroll those re- 
ceiving the sacrament in the brown scapular of the Blessed 
Virgin Mary of Mt CarmeL After one has been enrolled 

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in this scapular, no new act of enrollment is necessary 
when the scapular is worn out or is lost a person so 
enrolled may simply and at any time put on a new scapular. 
Only one who has been enrolled may substitute the 
wearing of the scapular with the scapular medal, A new 
medal, of course, must be blessed. 

The scapular medal may be worn about one's neck or 
on one's clothing. 

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Matrimony 



Because of the many legal and social aspects of 
marriage it will here be considered in its right order of 
reception, without going into detail as to the many ex- 
ceptions. We shall deal with the licit and valid marriage 
of baptized Catholics. Only incidentally will we refer to 
the so-called "mixed marriage/* 

It is very important that all who contemplate marriage 
consult their pastor or a priest in any doubtful matter. 



DEFINITION. The sacrament of matrimony is a 
in which a baptized man and woman who are fnee of any 
restriction of law, freely give each other the perpetual 
and exclusive right to mutual perfonnanae of the natural 
sexual acts whereby children are procreated. 

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Marriage has two prime objectives or purposes: the 
first and primary is the procreation, fostering, and ed- 
ucation of children; the second is the mutual overcoming 
of concupiscence of the flesh, the satisfaction of natural 
desire, and the mutual aid toward perfection of the in- 
dividuals. There may be any number of personal reasons 
which add to the married lives of the individuals, but 
these are not proper to the contract. 

Marriage has two distinct properties which make it 
singular in both its religious and natural significance. These 
properties are: 1. Unity y which means it is exclusive of 
polygamy, bigamy, and polyandry. It is between the one 
man and woman until the contract is done away with by 
the death of one of the contracting parties. 2. Indissolu- 
fnlity^ which follows from the first, and makes the con- 
tract one which no one may break while both parties live. 

Marriage in civil law is a natural contract; in the 
Church it is both a natural and sacramental contract. 
Through Christ, marriage was made a sacrament which 
brings sacramental graces. 

Because marriage is a sacrament, and one which is also 
of social consequence, it is regulated by natural and 
positive divine law, by law of the Church, and in some 
respects by the civil law. 

While marriage is sometimes spoken of broadly as a 
"vocation/* or calling, it is really a mutual binding to- 
gether of two in Christ, a way of life in love, the human 
love and the love of Christ. 

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RECOMMENDATIONS BEFORE MARRIAGE. Reception of 
the sacrament of matrimony calls for spiritual preparation 
as well as certain civil and social requirements. Because 
marriage is both a lifelong social and a spiritual relation- 
ship, it calls for special preliminaries. These may be not 
only of a religious character but also involve customs of 
society. We shall consider some of these, not as absolute 
requirements but as sound recommendations. 

L The engaged couple should consider seriously all 
aspects of their lives together. If there is any doubt about 
the requirements of the law, they should consult a priest 

Engagements may be made formal espousals by putting 
the promise to marry in writing, signed by the parties 
and the parish priest of the bride or of the place where 
the contract was made (or before the local ordinary), and 
before two witnesses. This is not binding in law. It is not 
generally a practice in the United States, 

2. In those dioceses where the Cana ConferaHX 
Movement is established, the engaged couple should attend 
a Pre-Cana conference, This is directed to the proximate 
preparation for marriage. It aiim to ptepare engaged 
couples for happy and holy marriage and family life by 
accurate information. It is an opportunity to tcqiiirc 
sufficient knowledge by direct question. It aids m the 
formation of proper ideals, wMdb laid to a marriage in 
accord with God's plan. 

3. The engaged couple should notify the bri4e*s fmrisfe 
priest six to eight weeks before die intended date the 
wedding to allow time for; (a) the priest to schedule the 

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wedding on a satisfactory date 5 (b) to seek the proper 
papers of delegation if another priest is to witness the 
ceremony; (c) to announce the banns (See The Banns of 
Marriage) ; (d) to schedule the preliminary instructions 
for the couple. (Such instructions are not supplanted by 
attending a Pre-Cana conference. Pastoral instructions are 
required.) 5 (e) and to provide the proper legal documents 
(See Requirements of Place for Lawful Marriage}. 

4. All the social graces and customs may be followed 
in the preparation for reception of the sacrament of 
marriage. It is essential that there be two witnesses to the 
marriage besides the attendant priest. These two witnesses 
must be Catholic; they are usually the bridesmaid and 
the best man. The number of attendants besides these is 
optional. Ushers and lesser attendants are not a part of 
the wedding group proper. 

(a) The wedding party usually comes to the church 
on the evening before the ceremony to practice the re- 
quired procedure. 

(b) It is recommended that the couple to be married 
and the attendants receive Holy Communion if the 
wedding is performed at a nuptial Mass. The priest who 
celebrates the nuptial Mass should be informed of the 
number to receive Holy Communion. 

(c) The marriage certificate should be signed by the 
witnesses immediately after the ceremony. 

(d) A practice well to be discouraged is that of 
throwing rice or other cereal as the marriage couple leaves 
the church* It is a repetition of a pagan custom and 

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there is danger that people may slip on the rice, especially 
when descending the church steps. 

(e) The requirements of civil law as to license, 
medical examination (where required), etc., should be 
taken care of in good time before the date set for the 
wedding, 

5. The pastor of the place where the marriage is per- 
formed is entitled to a stole-fee. This offering is his by 
right, even if he does not read the nuptial Mass or attend 
to the exchange of the couple's vows. This offering is 
usually of a determined amount, but may be larger if one 
wishes to make a greater offering. It is proper to ask the 
amount of the customary offering when arranging for the 
wedding. If another priest is delegated to assist at the 
wedding, especially at the request of the bride or groom, 
it is courteous to make an offering to both the pastor and 
the officiating priest. The amounts in this instance may 
be the same for both, or vary as one wishes, and should be 
presented to the priests individually in separate envelopes, 

6. It is proper to extend an invitation to the wedding 
breakfast to the officiating priest, although this is i*ot 
necessary. 

THE BANNS OF MARRIAGE. The banns of marriage arc 
announcements of the intent of marriage of two pcnon*. 
These are made three times. The purpose of their bong 
made public is to declare the intention of the persons to be 
married and to deteraaiiie if any impediments exist wtik!* 
would prohibit the marriage. 

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The banns are to be announced at the parochial Mass 
(i.e., the high Mass or principal Mass of the couple's 
church) on three successive Sundays or holy days of obli- 
gation preceding the date set for the wedding. The bishop 
may grant permission to have the names posted in the 
church vestibule for eight days, including two days of 
obligation, if there is serious necessity for an alternate 
procedure. If the bride and groom are from two different 
parishes, the banns are announced in both parishes. (As a 
rule, the banns are not published if it is a mixed marriage, 
unless the ordinary declares it necessary. No mention of 
the fact that it is a marriage of mixed religion is made if 
the announcement is required.) 

REQUIREMENTS OF THE CHURCH LAW FOR VALID 
MARRIAGE. Catholics are validly married, in the strict 
sense, only when they are free of all impediments, and have 
observed the solemn form of marriage demanded by the 
Church. (Exceptions are permitted under the Code of 
Canon Law.) 

The law of the Church requires a solemn form of 
marriage, that is, one contracted in the presence of the 
pastor (or an authorized priest) or in the presence of the 
local ordinary, and two witnesses. 

A pastor may not marry a couple validly outside of 
his own parish without permission of the pastor of the 
place or the bishop of that place. A bishop may not marry 
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permission of the ordinary of the diocese where the 
marriage is to be performed. 

WHO Is SUBJECT TO THE LAW OF THE CHURCH? Per- 
sons bound to observe the solemn form of marriage are the 
following: 

(a) Catholics by baptism or conversion when marrying 
Catholics. 

(b) Catholics when marrying non-Catholics, even 
after having obtained a mixed-religion dispensation. (See 
Hindering Impediments.) 

(c) Catholics of the Latin rite (Roman rite) when 
marrying a Catholic of an Oriental rite (Eastern rite). 

(d) One, though born of non-Catholics, who was bap- 
tized a Catholic but reared otherwise from infancy, who 
seeks to marry a non-Catholic. 

Thus the law demands that all Catholics observe the 
solemn form. A Catholic who attempts marriage before 
a civil authority does not contract valid marriage. A 
Catholic who attempts to contract marriage before a noa- 
Catholic minister incurs the censure of exa>mmumattion 
which is reserved to the bishop, i.e., for absolution from 
the censure, 



REQUIREMENTS OF PLACE FOR LAWFUL MARRIES* The 
pastor assists lawfully at a marriage when he fats feter- 
mined the freedom of the parties to marry. 

Either of the parties to be married must live in a ptri&h 
(Le,, have a dbmidle thane) or have a 

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there (i.e., live there the greater portion of a year), or 
must be resident in the parish for at least a month. (An 
itinerant, one having no fixed or quasi-domicile, can be 
married in the place he is at, providing permission of the 
ordinary is obtained.) 

The marriage should be celebrated in the parish of the 
bride unless there is a just reason for having it elsewhere. 

Any parish priest or bishop in his diocese may delegate 
another priest to assist at a marriage* 

REQUIRED AGE FOR MARRIAGE. In canon law the male 
must have completed his 16th year and the female her 
14th for a valid marriage. 

THE IMPEDIMENTS OF MARRIAGE. The impediments of 
marriage are those conditions which "stand in the way" 
and obstruct either the validity or the lawfulness of the 
contract. These impediments arise from the natural or 
divine law. Such impediments are binding on everyone, 
pagan or Christian, and not even the Church can dispense 
from these. Impediments also arise from Church law, and 
from some of these the Church grants dispensations, which 
dispensations do not take the impediment away but permit 
a marriage contract to be made while they exist. Civil law 
may also place a reasonable impediment to marriage, since 
the civil authority has control over the civil effects of 
marriage. 

Impediments are broadly of two kinds: the hindering 
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the validity of the contract} the diriment impediments 
make a marriage null and void. 

The hindering impediments are: 

1. A simple vow of virginity, or of perfect chastity, 
of not marrying, of receiving holy orders, or of entering 
the religious state, made by either of the parties. (This may 
be dispensed). 

2. The condition of mixed religion, wherein one of 
the parties is a Catholic and the other a baptized non- 
Catholic. (Dispensation may be granted upon the condi- 
tions that the non-Catholic person signs a promise not to 
hinder or obstruct the practice of religion of the Catholic 
and that the children of the union will be raised in the 
Catholic faith.) 

3. Legal relationship of the parties resulting from 
legal adoption, which is declared an impediment by the 
Church when the civil law of the place has declared such 
marriages unlawful. (This may be dispensed by the Church 
under particular conditions satisfying the law.) 

The diriment impediments are: 

1. Solemn vow of chastity (or a simple wow of 
chastity made in a religious community where permitted)* 

2. Sacred orders, that is, vows taken when receiving 
the sacrament of holy orders, (Only made when one takes 
the subdeaconate.) 

3. Consanguinity, which under the natural law fbr- 
bids all marriage in tfee dicect line of deseeittj tad from 
this there can be no dispeasatibti. Under the natural law 

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and Church law, this extends to all relatives of the col- 
lateral line of descent to the third degree inclusive (that 
is, second cousins inclusive). The Church can dispense, 
for serious reason, cousins of the second degree and second 
cousins who are of the third degree in this collateral line. 

4. Legal adoption, which is a diriment impediment 
only when the marriage is invalid in the civil law of the 
place. The Church can dispense from this impediment, 
with the law being satisfied. 

5. Spiritual relationship, resulting from the sponsor- 
ship at baptism, or the person baptizing privately and the 
person so baptized* The Church can dispense from this. 

6. Affinity of blood relationship of a person with a 
previous wife or husband. A man, for example, may not 
marry in the direct line of descent, and no dispensation 
may be given. The impediment extends to the second 
degree (first cousin, aunt, or niece) in the collateral line, 
and dispensation may be given. 

7. A previous valid marriage prevents either from 
marrying again as long as the second party lives. Even if 
civil divorce is obtained, no dispensation can be given. 

8. Difference of worship, where one being a bap- 
tized Catholic would seek to marry an unbaptizcd person. 
Dispensation may be given for serious reason. 

9. Defect of age or extreme youth (See Requirement 
of Age). 

10. Crime, where there would be an agreement to 
marry contingent upon the murder of the spouse of one 
of the parties* 

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11. Physical impotency, where it existed before at- 
tempting marriage and was an incurable physical inability 
to perform the marriage act. This is not sterility. (This 
impediment of impotency makes it impossible to fulfill 
the prime end of marriage, hence nullifies the contract,) 

12. Violence or grave fear. 

13. Public propriety, arising from an invalid marriage 
which forbids marriage between one of the parties with 
any of the other's relatives in the first and second degree 
of the direct line. 

THE CEREMONIES OF THE SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY. 
The contract of marriage made by the bride and groom is 
the sacrament, and not the blessing. Thus the ministers 
of the sacrament are the two who make the contract. 

The Church wishes her children to receive the sac- 
rament of matrimony at a nuptial Mass, which may be 
held at any time of the year. (The solemn nuptial blessing 
may not be given during Advent and Lent, or on Christmas 
day and Easter Sunday. The ordinary may, however, grant 
permission for this nuptial blessing even during these times 
or on these days.) It should be the plan of CmtfaoEcs in- 
tending to receive the sacrament of matrimony to have the 
ceremony take place in church with the nuptial Mass, 
the blessings, and the reapfioii of Holy Communion. 

The marriage cerrnioiiy begins before the Mass with 
the bride and groom approadaing the altar where both 
kneel. The priest prays briefly, asking the help of the 
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instruction which is intended to point out the serious 
character of the married state and better dispose the parties 
to receive the sacrament. Then follows the essential ex- 
pression of consent and the sealing of the marriage con- 
tract, in which the mutual consent of each, the groom, 
then the bride in turn, is stated. This is confirmed by 
the priest who declares: "I join you in matrimony: In the 
name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy 
Spirit." 

The expression of consent is followed by the blessing 
of the ring (or rings, if it is a double-ring ceremony). 

The priest then prays, asking the protection of God 
upon the union, and the nuptial Mass begins. 

After the Pater Noster of the Mass, the priest gives 
the solemn nuptial blessing. Brides (to whom this blessing 
is primarily directed) may receive it only oncej if the 
ceremony is for a widow, this blessing is omitted. 

SOME SUGGESTIONS. 

L When there is any question concerning the legal 
aspects of marriage or regarding the law of the Church, 
couples thinking of marriage should consult their parish 
priest* Those planning marriage should inform themselves 
regarding all the spiritual, physical, and social aspects 
of this sacrament. They should obtain a copy of the text 
of the marriage preparation course distributed by the 
Family Life director of the diocese. 

2. There should be no agreement which would limit 
or obstruct the essential ends of marriage. 

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3. There should be sufficient consideration given to 
the rearing of children in a knowledge of Catholic 
doctrine. Family prayer is a basic essential. 

4. While the procreating and rearing of children is 
a prime end of marriage, the spiritual progress of the 
individuals should not be overlooked. The home should 
be Catholic in every sense. 

5. The anniversaries of the reception of the sacrament 
of matrimony, which are usually remembered with gifts, 
etc., should also call for a renewal of the marriage 
promises. 




Holy Orders 

The reception of the sacrament of holy orders is 
permitted only to qualified male Catholics. These quali- 
fications are: Sufficient knowledge gained during a period 
of preparation required by the Church, an intention to 
fulfill the office and the demands of this state of life, 
and a degree of health which will enable erne to fulfill 
the office. (Sometimes dispensations regarding health arc 
given, but these are generally for minor physical defects.) 

The laity should be aware of the n^jiiiiieiiioEits and 

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the great dignity of this sacrament. Parents should foster 
and encourage vocations to the priesthood. 

It is proper to speak of an inclination to receive holy 
orders on the part of a young man as a "vocation." This is 
derived from a Latin word and broadly means a "calling" 
to a particular state of life. Actually, the person seeking 
the sacrament of holy orders is not the recipient of a 
genuine "vocation" until the ordaining bishop asks the 
candidate to step forward at the time of reception, for 
only the bishop can "call" young men to a participation 
in the jurisdiction of the Church which they may exercise. 

Parents should not for any improper reason induce 
their sons to seek the sacrament of holy orders. Nor should 
parents encourage a son to continue studying for the priest- 
hood should the son decide he no longer has the intention 
of receiving the sacrament. 

A long course of study is undertaken preliminary to 
the reception of the sacrament of holy orders. The re- 
quirements for joining different religious orders of men 
may vary. The candidate receives his training in semin- 
aries classified as "minor" and "major." The minor 
seminary is one for preparatory studies, consisting of four 
years of secondary schooling (high school) and the first 
two years of college. (Sometimes these two years are con- 
ducted in a <c major" institution.) The seminary proper is 
referred to as a major seminary, where students are further 
trained in philosophy and college courses, followed by 
four years of theological study. During major seminary 
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student is dressed in clerical habit (cassock and Roman 
collar or the habit of the particular religious order). The 
expense of the theological training is often borne by the 
diocese in which the priest will serve after his ordination, 
Seminaries of religious orders usually require one ad- 
ditional year of "novitiate" training. Some religious groups 
devoted to special works, e.g., teaching, may require 
added training. 

WHO RECEIVES HOLY ORDERS? Holy orders are bestowed 
by degrees and include the preliminary steps to the act of 
ordination, or consecration in the case of a bishop. In de- 
scending sequence from the highest, the degrees are: 

a) Consecration of a bishop (the fullness of holy 
orders). 

b) Priesthood ordination to the dignity of priest- 
hood and the power to offer the holy sacrifice of 
the Mass. This is a lasting mark which can never 
be taken away. 

c) Deacon assists the celebrant of solemn Mass. 
With permission he may preach, baptize solemnly, 
and distribute Holy Communion. 

(The following are not part of the sfcarajoooit bt 
preliminary degrees which distinguish the inedptait by 
certain rights being conferred upoa him. Tbe minor 
orders arc omferred when the minuter hands over to cadi 
recipient the iasfrumcnte pcrtminiag to tlie offkx mad 
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d) Subdeacon assists at solemn Mass, chants the 
epistle and may wash sacred linens. This is often 
classed with major orders. 

e) Lector 

f) Exorcist 

g) Doorkeeper 
h) Acolyte 

i) Tonsure neither a minor nor major order but a 
symbolical preliminary by which the aspirant 
enters the ranks of the clergy. 

Each candidate proceeds through the seven degrees, 
beginning with the preliminary of the reception of tonsure, 
then receiving the minor orders, the subdeaconship, the 
deaconship and finally the priesthood which is called or- 
dination. There is by law a period of time between the 
reception of the degrees. 

THE MINISTER OF HOLY ORDERS. Only a bishop can 
confer episcopal consecration (elevation of a priest to 
a bishop), and he can act lawfully only when he has re- 
ceived an apostolic mandate. 

Also, only a bishop can confer the priesthood or 
diaconate upon a candidate. 

THE TIME OF CONFERRING HOLY ORDERS. A bishop 
should be consecrated on a Sunday, the feast day of an 
apostle, or a holyday of obligation. 

In the United States, the bishops may confer holy 

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orders at Mass on the Saturdays of Ember weeks, the 
Saturday before Passion Sunday and on Holy Saturday j 
also by special indult on various major feasts which are 
not holydays of obligation and on some Saturdays at the 
end of the scholastic year, 

DOCUMENTS AND REQUIREMENTS FOR ORDINATION. The 
requirements for receiving the sacrament of holy orders 
are many. These include determination of intention, in- 
vestigation by the authorities, a statement of freedom of 
choice by the recipient, spiritual preparation, etc. Before 
receiving the subdiaconate, a profession of faith and an 
oath against the errors of modernism are required. 

It is required by law that a certificate of the last order 
received be presented. For the reception of tonsure, bap- 
tism and confirmation certificates must be presented} a 
testimonial of studies completed; the recommendation of 
the seminary superior as to fitness; letters from the bish- 
ops of dioceses in which the candidate ever resided longer 
than six months; and if the candidate belongs to a religious 
institute, he needs the testimonial letter of his chief 
superior. 

Before tonsure and each of the minor orders are con- 
ferred, the student must declare in writing to the seminary 
rector that the orders are sought with free will. Before 
receiving each major order, a candidate must sign an oath 
that he understands the rafwmiieiits of the office and 
that he is not under the influence of othem These records 
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Ordinations must be recorded, and upon the conferring 
of a subdiaconate a notice is sent to the candidate's place 
of baptism to be appended to the record of baptism. A 
certificate of ordination is given to each candidate 
ordained. 

THE CEREMONIES OF ORDINATION, The office of priest- 
hood (as for the diaconate and the consecration of a 
bishop) is conferred by the imposition of hands on the 
candidate. At the ordination Mass, after the Gradual, the 
ordaining bishop asks those present to declare any unworthy 
candidate. Thereafter the candidates lie prostrate on the 
sanctuary floor while the Litany of the Saints is sung. 
After this the bishop, and then all priests present, lay 
their hands on the head of each candidate in turn. Then 
a preface outlining the dignity of the priesthood is recited 
and the bishop places a chasuble on each candidate, fol- 
lowed by a prayer invoking the blessing of God. During 
the singing of Veni Creator the bishop anoints the hands 
of each candidate and gives to him a chalice and paten, 
saying the words, "Receive the power to offer sacrifice 
to God and to celebrate Mass both for the living and the 
dead in the name of the Lord." 

The Mass is resumed and at the Offertory each can- 
didate presents a lighted candle to the ordaining bishop 
and thereafter all speak aloud the prayers of the Mass 
with the celebrating bishop. Thus all celebrate the Mass 
together (concelebration). After the o>mmunion of the 
bishop, each candidate receives a drink of consecrated 

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wine. After recitation of the Apostles' Creed, the bishop 
again lays his hands on each candidate's head, saying, 
"Receive the Holy Spirit, etc." Each new priest then 
makes a solemn promise of obedience and finally all receive 
the bishop's blessing. 

SOME RECOMMENDATIONS. 

L It is proper to ask the newly ordained priest for 
his blessing, which is one of singular privilege. 

2. The customary practice in this country is to give 
gifts to newly ordained priests upon the occasion of either 
their ordination or their first Mass. These gifts need not 
be religious in character, but it is customary that they 
pertain to the newly acquired office of the priesthood. 
When one receives an invitation to commemorate an or- 
dination, it is proper to call the family of the one ordained 
to ask advice in selecting a gift, It is entirely fitting to 
make an offering of money, but such offerings should iK>t 
request that a Mass be offered by the newly ordained for 
an intention, because it then constitutes a Mass stipend. 

3. Because of the expenses of education and building 
maintenance, it is fitting that lay persons contribute to 
the support of the diocesan seminary, 

4. Because of the great dignity of the priesthood, lay 
persons should have high respect fbr the person dF etch 
priest* 

5* Parents should inform themselves about the loca- 
tion of the seminary and, in 8 far m they can da so freely, 
encourage tfadb* sons to collier nch tnimng. The 

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phcre of the home is very important in fostering vocations 
to the priesthood. The parish priest is the ordinary contact 
for making application for entrance into a seminary. 



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Extreme Unction 

The sacrament of extreme unction, instituted by 
Christ (cf* Epistle of St. James, ch. 5), has a twofold 
objective: to prepare the sick person, through grace, to 
effect the salvation of the soul in death; and to restore 
health to the body through the providence of God. 

THE MINISTER OF EXTREME UNCTION. The priest is the 
valid minister of the sacrament of extreme unction. The 
pastor is by right to give the sacrament, but any priest 
may administer it with the presumed permission of his 
pastor. 

WHO MAY RECEIVE EXTREME UNCTION? The sacrament 
of extreme unction is given validly to baptized persons 
who have reached the age of reason (six to seven years). 
The person should be in the proximate or probable danger 
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going Into danger could not receive the sacrament.) Aged 
persons who are greatly weakened may be administered 
the sacrament. 

The person receiving the sacrament should have the 
intention of receiving it and be in the state of grace (free 
from mortal sin). Thus this sacrament is preceded as a 
rule by the sacrament of penance. 

The sacrament of extreme unction should be received 
only once during an illness. If there is recovery and then 
a relapse, or a new illness, the sacrament may be received 
again. The sickness should not be too far advanced before 
the priest is called. 

THE CEREMONIES OF EXTREME UNCTION. The effects 
of the sacrament of extreme unction are to give spiritual 
strength, and to overcome temptations at the last* 

Even if the person is not conscious and there is ix> 
assurance of intention or possibility of confession, the 
sacrament is given conditionally and the infusion of grace 
follows. 

The matter of the sacrament is the holy oil of the 
sick (blessed olive oil.) The form of the sacrament is the 
anointing of the senses, saying the prescribed words. 

In the permitted short form (in a case of urgoncy), 
the anointing may be of only one sense, or on the fordbecL 
If the urgency ceases^ the anointing of the other senses 
may be glvea. When the sacrament f cflreme unction is 
given normally , the sequence is as follows: 

The priest enters the place whew the infirm person m 

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and says, "Peace to this house," to which is responded, 
"And to all who live here." He places the vessel of holy 
oil upon the prepared table and sprinkles the infirm person 
and the sickroom with holy water, prays and recites the 
Confiteor. Thereafter, all kneel. The priest gives his 
blessing and prays that the mercy of God be upon the sick 
person. The priest then anoints the eyes, saying, "By this 
holy anointing and His most loving mercy may the Lord 
forgive you whatever wrongs you have done by the use 
of your sight. Amen." Similarly, he anoints the ears, the 
nostrils, the mouth, the hands, and the feet. Praying, he 
asks God to pour the grace of His blessing into the body 
of the infirm and give restoration of health. He concludes 
the ceremony with a final blessing, saying, "May the 
blessing of almighty God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit 
descend upon you and remain forever. Amen." 

VIATICUM. The Viaticum is then given. The priest puts 
on the white stole and, praying, he asks the infirm to 
receive this food "... the body of our Lord Jesus Christ, 
that He may guard you from the malicious enemy and 
lead you into everlasting life. Amen." He concludes with 
two orations. (The consecrated host is given as in Com- 
munion, but if the sick person is not able to receive more 
than a little food, only a particle is given.) 

THE APOSTOLIC BENEDICTION. The priest, after admin- 
istering the sacrament of extreme unction, may give the 
apostolic blessing, which has a plenary indulgence at- 

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tached. The infirm, if possible, should pronounce the name 
of Jesus during the blessing. 

Following the apostolic blessing, the priest may say 
the prayers for the dying. 

PREPARATIONS FOR EXTREME UNCTION, Keeping in mind 
that the last rites of the Church usually consist of confes- 
sion, Holy Communion (Viaticum), extreme unction and 
the apostolic blessing, the priest should be called in ample 
time for the administration of these rites* 

The immediate preparations for the proper adminis- 
tration of the sacraments are as follows: 

Within the sickroom, or near to it, there should be 
a table with a white cloth covering. On this table should 
be a crucifix and two blessed^ lighted candles (one on etch 
side of the crucifix). To the left or right of the candles 
there should be a vessel of holy water, a spoon, a shallow 
dish of salt and/or a dish with bread fragments, a white 
cloth napkin, five or more pieces of cotton and, if possible, 
a few slices of lemon. 

When the priest carrying the Blessed Sacrament 
arrives, he should be met at the door with a lighted, blessed 
candle (this may be one of the candles from the prepared 
table mentioned above)* 

Those present, of the family or others, should join 
in the prayers and kneel during the administration f the 
sacraments. It is not necessary to assist the priest if the 
table is prepared properly as maatked j iBost priests would 
prefer to move about freely wit 

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SOME RECOMMENDATIONS. 

1. It is proper to make an offering to the minister of 
the sacrament of extreme unction. The amount may be 
set by diocesan regulation and it is proper to ask what the 
usual offering is. The sacrament is, of course, not with- 
held from anyone because of inability to make an offering. 

2. A priest should be called in time so that the sacra- 
ments may be given to the person while conscious. Ask 
the attending physician the degree of illness. Also it is 
well to keep handy the telephone number of the parish 
rectory. The distance from the rectory to the residence of 
the sick should also be considered when determining the 
urgency of the situation. 

3. It is well to carry on one's person a notification 
declaring one to be a Catholic, with a request that a priest 
be called in danger of death. 



Sacramentals 
of the Church 




Sacramentals 
of the Church 



SACRAMENTAL are objects or actions blessed by the 
Church for the use of all the faithful. These sacra- 
mentals are used to gain spiritual benefits such as 
remission of venial sins, remission of temporal punishment 
due to sin, and sometimes temporal effects, such as bodily 
health, 

Not all sacramentals have the same use. The effects 
are sometimes definitely declared by the Church, e.g., an 
indulgence attached to a prayer* 

Only the Holy See may establish a sacramental, desig- 
nate new sacramentals, or abolish those which are in 
existence. The Church alone through the Sacred Congre- 
gation of Rites interprets existing sacramentals, 

It is not proper to give sacramentals to non-Catholics 
at divine services, e.g., blessed palms on Palm Sunday. 
However, some saoramentals, e.g,, blessings, medals, relics, 
etc., may be given to iK>n-Catbolics to give them tlbe light 
of faith and the trust in prayer, for bodily health, eDc, 

The number aad variety of sacraoK^itals is great. 
Many are of ancient origin, some have been given by 
special revelation, and others are declared from time to 
time by the Qmidb to terre a particular purpose. An 

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example of the latter would be the medals struck for a 
Holy Year of Jubilee. Generally, sacramentals are con- 
cerned with the liturgy (vestments, incense, etc.), or with 
devotion (indulgenced prayers, medals, etc.). Some may 
have a restricted use, as do vestments, sacred vessels, or 
the pontificals of a bishop. Others may have a conditioned 
use, such as an indulgence attached to a particular good 
action, A sacramental, no matter to whom it may be re- 
stricted, or what conditions may be attached, is intended 
always to inspire a deeper understanding and devotion 
to the faith, 

It would be impossible to recount here all the sacra- 
mentals, but we shall list the general types, and comment 
on those most frequently used. Examples of sacramentals 
are: the Sign of the Cross (perhaps the most frequently 
used sacramental), blessings, prayers, scapulars, vestments, 
rosaries, sacred vessels, holy oils, blessed candles, incense, 
holy water, relics, blessed palms, some pictures, medals, 
crucifixes, and stations of the cross. 

Certain actions which people perform habitually when 
praying, or certain superstitious actions (as tossing coins 
into the fountains of shrines, or always opening church 
doors with the right hand), should not be looked upon 
as sacramentals. These are not sacramentals, no matter 
what "worthy" thoughts or intentions people may have 
while praying. 

SACRAMENTALS OF SPECIAL USE IN THE HOME. Although 
the majority of sacramentals may be used in the Catholic 

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home, some are more directly concerned with the pro- 
motion of family devotion than are others. A Catholic 
home should be provided with certain sacramentals such 
as a crucifix, holy water, blessed candles, rosary for each 
member of the family, blessed palm, and picture of the 
Sacred Heart of Jesus. Each member of the family should 
be provided with a blessed prayer book, preferably a missal, 
for attendance at Mass, 

To further devotion in the home, it is fitting to have 
a home shrine (this may be a crucifix or even only a 
statue of a favorite saint). It must be remembered thtt 
sacramentals should be handled and treated with respect. 
When a sacramental is worn out or broken, it should be 
destroyed in a suitable manner, preferably by burning. 

The Sign of the Cross 

The sacramental of the Sign of the Cross is both a 
symbolic action and an expression of our belief in the 
unity of God and the Trinity of Persons. The Sign of the 
Cross may be made at any time, It is made by touching 
the right hand to the forehead, with the left on the breast, 
and saying, a ln the name of the Father . . . /* then moving 
the right hand down to the breast and continuing with 
the words, "and of the Son . * , , w then OKmng ttie fetad 
to the left shoulder, touching it, and crcming orer t the 
right shoulder, concluding by saying, **mnd of the Holy 
Spirit. Amen*** 

The Sign of the Crass is also an ifwltilgcficed prayer* 

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As often as Catholics make the Sign of the Cross, with 
the invocation of the Most Holy Trinity, "In the name 
of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. 
Amen," they are granted an indulgence of three years. 
Whenever they make the holy sign with blessed water 
(that is, after dipping the finger tips of the right hand 
into holy water), they may gain an indulgence of seven 
years (Ap. Brief, July 28, 1863 and March 23, 1866; 
S.P. Ap., Feb. 10, 1935 and June 14, 1949). 

It is customary to begin each prayer or period of 
prayer with the Sign of the Cross and conclude with the 
same. The Sign of the Cross is often used during the 
liturgy of the Church, during the celebration of the holy 
sacrifice of the Mass, the recitation of the divine 
office, etc. 



Holy Water 



Historically, the Church has often made use of things 
which are naturally common to men. She has often given 
spiritual significance to simple means and adapted them 
to uses in her ritual. The Church surrounds the faithful 
with spiritual aids and reminders which help her members 
to live close to the Church and thus help themselves and 
also help the Church in achieving her purpose in their 
behalf. It is so with blessed water. Holy water, as it is 
commonly called no matter what its purpose, is water 
%lessed by the priest with solemn prayer, to beg of God 
a blessing on those who use it, and protection from the 
powers of darkness." 

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In the Church there are four kinds of holy water: 
1 . Baptismal water, the licit water used in solemn baptism^ 
is blessed on Holy Saturday. (In private baptism, or 
baptism given in an emergency, natural water suffices 
for the conferring of the sacrament.) 2. The holy water 
of consecration, also known as "Gregorian water," is 
blessed by the bishop and used in the ceremony of conse- 
crating a new church to sprinkle its walls, the altar, etc. 
3. Easter water is that which is blessed on Holy Saturday 
and given to the faithful for use in their homes, while the 
balance is placed in the baptismal font to be solemnly 
blessed with holy oils, 4, Common holy water is water 
blessed by the priest for use in holy water fonts at the 
doors of churches, etc. This holy water is usually made 
available to the faithful in the vestibules of Catholic 
churches. 



Religious Medals 



Religious medals used in the Church are of a wide 
variety, but in general they are representations of Mints 
or holy places. These are usually owibined with the words 
of an indulgenced aspiration or brief prayer, and picture 
and text are stamped or cast ia metal, plastic, m wood, 
or imprinted on dfotk Medals are tfao used to 



rate events in Church history , to recall mysteries of 
to honor the Penoas of the Slewed Tri0ity or the Blessed 
Mother- Some medals beie the iarignim of 

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In pious associations or commemorate events in the life 
of the wearer. 

Medals are blessed and some are indulgenced for 
simply wearing them. The short prayers imprinted upon 
them usually are indulgenced, e.g., "O Mary, conceived 
without sin, pray for us who have recourse to you 57 
(Miraculous Medal Indulgence of 300 days; plenary 
indulgence once a month on the usual conditions if devoutly 
repeated daily S.C. Ind. March 15, 1884; S.P. Ap. 
April 15, 1932). 

The most common medals used by Catholics are those 
of the Blessed Mother under her various titles, the 
scapular medal, the medal of St. Benedict, the Miraculous 
Medal, the St. Christopher Medal, and medals of the 
Blessed Trinity. 



Scapulars 



As a sacramental, the scapular worn by the laity is 
a source of rich graces conferred by the Church. Scapulars 
bring the wearers into closer association with the life of 
members of religious orders, and the wearers share in the 
works of merit and prayers of the religious orders of 
men and women. Actually, the scapular is a miniature 
replica of the garment which is worn as a part of the 
habit of some religious orders. It represents both the yoke 
of burden and sacrifice, and the acceptance of an obli- 
gation for the sake of Christ. 

There are sixteen small scapulars used by Catholics. 

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Each consists chiefly of two small squares of woolen cloth 
joined by two strings, the whole making a circlet so that, 
when placed over the head, one square rests on the breast 
and the other on the back between the shoulders. On 
the squares are symbols, representations or pictures* The 
strings or bands need not be of the same color as the 
woolen cloth except in the instance of the red scapular. 

The most used scapulars among Catholics are; the 
White scapular of the Most Blessed Trinity and derived 
from the Trinitarians; the Brown scapular of the Car- 
melites (in which it is customary to enroll children at 
the time of receiving first Holy Communion or confir- 
mation); the Red scapular which originated with the 
Lazarists; the Black scapular (the scapular of the Seven 
Dolors), which is that of the Servites; the Blue scapular 
(the scapular of the Immaculate Conception), which is 
derived from the Theatines. 

Once enrolled in a scapular, it is not necessary to be 
enrolled again. Likewise, it is possible simply to put on 
and wear a second scapular after one has worn out, with- 
out having the second blessed. 

The scapular medal may be worn in place of any or 
all of the cloth scapulars, providing the medal has been 
blessed for each of the scapulars in which one is carolled, 
which blessings may be given by a priest having ttie 
faculties for giving such blessings. Each scapular medal, 
replacing * former OIK: which was lost^ etc, must; be 
blessed anew. One must be first enrolled in the scapular, 
of course, in order to be able to siibstitiite the cloth scajmlar 

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by the medal. The scapular medal must have upon one 
side a representation of our Lord with His Sacred Heart 
and on the opposite side there must be an image of the 
Blessed Mother. It may be worn in any suitable and con- 
venient way on one's person, and it assures the spiritual 
benefits which would derive from wearing the scapular 
or scapulars for which it is a substitute. The scapular or 
scapular medal should be worn continuously to receive 
the spiritual benefits. 



Blessings 



The power of blessings (which are lesser exorcisms) 
is given to priests, and it is the right and the privilege of 
the priest to bless. It is not amiss for a Catholic to ask 
the priest for his personal blessing. It should not be sought 
in public places, but on the occasion of a priest's visit or 
upon visiting the priest. 

The ritual of the Church provides for many and 
diverse blessings which are alike in execution but are 
specially directed to a wide number of objects, persons 
and places. Blessings are set forth for rosaries, crucifixes, 
foods, houses, sick persons, expectant mothers and mothers 
after they have given birth to a child, for children, flags, 
airs, etc. 

It is proper, but often neglected by Catholics, to ask 
priests to bless the objects closest to them. Thus children 
should be blessed as often as one can conveniently request 
the blessing. Likewise, it is fitting for families to have 

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their homes blessed. (This is often done by custom and 
a provided ritual blessing on Holy Saturday or during the 
Easter season. Houses, however, may be blessed at 
any time.) 

Catholics should seek (whenever possible) the bless- 
ings which the Church grants during the liturgical year, 
e.g., the blessing of throats on the feast of St. Blaisc on 
February 3rd. 

THE BLESSING AFTER CHILDBIRTH. It is the prerogative 
and happy advantage of Catholics to be able to receive 
blessings on many occasions. 

The blessing after childbirth, generally referred to as 
the "churching" of women, is an act of thanksgiving after 
childbirth. It is not necessary that the mother receive 
this blessing. There is no obligation, There is no stigma 
attached to childbirth and the reception of this blessing 
does not imply any. Hence it is nonsense for anyone to 
say that a woman should not enter the church after child- 
birth until she has received this blessing, 

This blessing after childbirth may be given by any 
priest. It consists of the ritual blessing which begins with 
the woman kneeling at the church entrance with a lighted 
candle, (Sometimes this takes place at the 



rail rather than at the entrance, After being sfmiiWcd witfe 
holy water. Psalm 22 is recited and the woman is led 
to the altar rail where further prayers are said, cmidudmg 
with the HesdtBg ia the wottls: "May peace and the 
Messing of God Almighty, the Father and the Son 

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the Holy Spirit, descend upon you and remain forever. 
Amen." 

This blessing after childbirth should not be confused 
with, nor does it follow as a second blessing, the special 
blessing that is given to women before being delivered 
of a child. The blessing after childbirth is not given when 
the child born is illegitimate. 



Prayers 



The Church grants a variety of indulgences to prayers 
which are said either privately or in common with others. 
It is good for the person praying to make an intention of 
offering the indulgences attached to his prayers whether 
he is aware of them specifically or not. (This offering, 
or referring, is not necessary to assure receiving the graces, 
but their application may be directed by making the in- 
tention, e.g., placing all indulgences received at the dis- 
position of the Blessed Mother,) 

The Church permits to be published officially the 
prayers and devotions which it enriches with indulgences, 
giving the amount of each indulgence and the date of its 
official attachment to the prayer or devotion. This official 
publication in the United States is The Raccolta, published 
in an authorized edition by Benziger Bros., Inc., New 
YorL Revised editions appear from time to time. Included 
in the Raccolta is a list of the spiritual benefits to be 
gained by making pilgrimages to holy places and to 
certain churches and places in Rome. 

no 



Holy Mass, Devotions 
and Pious Practices 





Holy Mass, Devotions 
and Pious Practices 

The Mass 

E central and the most essential prayer of Cath- 
olics is directed to Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. 
This is chiefly the attendance and participation in 
the essential liturgy, the worship of God in the holy 
sacrifice of the Mass. While attendance at Mass is pre- 
scribed for all the faithful on Sundays and holydays of 
obligation, a Catholic should attend Mass as often as 
possible. (See The Holy Emeh&rut.} 

The proper method of attending Mass is to pray the 
prayers of the Mass with the celebrating priest by using 
a missal* 

This missal is the official prayer book of the Mmm 
In it are given the ordinary prayers and the proper praycts 
of the feasts of the Church calendar. Translations are 
sold by any Catholic book store. All who arc in the state 
of grace and have kept the Eucharistic fast should receive 
Holy Communion when they attend Mass. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

In attending Mass, there are certain basic rubrics 
which the laity should follow. Custom in certain places 
may change these, but in general they are the following: 

Low MASS. The general rule is to kneel during the Mass 
except during the reading of the Gospels. Most American 
parishes, however, observe a modification of this rule 
which, with certain variances, follows this pattern: Those 
attending stand when the celebrant enters the sanctuary 
and approaches the altar, and remain standing until the 
priest begins the prayers at the foot of the altar. The 
congregation stands when the Gospel is read, rising when 
the priest turns and walks to the missal stand on the left 
of the altar. (If the Gospel is read aloud in English to 
those present, it is proper to stand.) The people remain 
standing for the Creed, genuflecting during the Creed 
when the celebrant does. (If the Creed is not said, the 
people kneel when the celebrant turns to them.) The 
congregation sits during the Offertory until the Sanctus 
bell is sounded three times; then all kneel and remain 
kneeling until after those who receive Holy Communion 
have returned to their places, and the priest closes the 
tabernacle door. All kneel again when the Ite Missa est 
is said and receive the blessing, and then stand for the 
reading of the Last Gospel. When the priest descends the 
altar steps and kneels to say the prayers after Mass, all 
kneel and respond to the prayers. The congregation stands 
as the priest leaves the altar. No one should leave his 
pew until the priest has left the sanctuary. 

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HIGH MASS. Lay participation differs from the low Mass 
in this manner: All stand when the celebrant sings the 
Gloria, and sit while the priest sits as the choir sings. The 
people stand while the priest sings the Collects and sit 
while he reads the Epistle. (They sit during the sermon 
if there is one.) The people stand while the priest says 
the Credo and sit for the remainder of the singing of the 
Creed, except during the singing of the words Et inc&rn&tus 
est de Spiritu Sancto ex Maria Virgine^ et Homo foetus e$t 
when they kneel. They stand when the priest returns to 
the altar after the Creed and remain so until he intones 
the word Oremus. Then all sit until the priest begins the 
introductory prayer of the Preface, when all stand during 
the singing of the Preface. The congregation then kneels 
until the priest sings the Our Father. In the United States 
it is the general custom for the people to stand from the be- 
ginning of the Our Father until the priest sings Pax 
Domini sit semper wkiscum. The congregation kneels 
till the priest closes the tabernacle after Communion, and 
stands for the singing of the PostooiiHBuni0n prayer* The 
final blessing is received while kneeling. All stand for the 
Last Gospel, and remain standing until the celebrant has 
left the sanctuary. 

SOLEMN MASS. The rubrics are the same for High Mass 
except that those attending stand at the singing of the 
Gospel by the deacon and when the acolyte faces the con- 
gregation to incense them. 

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In attending Mass, it is courteous to kneel erect. When 
entering or leaving a pew, one should not disturb others. 
When entering an unoccupied pew, it is best to go in as 
far as possible, even though one is expecting to receive 
Holy Communion during the Mass. 




Holy Hour 



Sometimes weekly or at specified times, a Holy Hour 
is held in parish churches. This may be requested by the 
ordinary for a special intention, such as in reparation, or 
for peace, etc., and then it is held in all parishes. The 
Holy Hour, when public, is held in church and consists 
of exposition and benediction of the Blessed Sacrament, 
prayers and meditations on the passion and death of Christ 
and His love for us through His Sacred Heart. (Less 
frequently a Holy Hour may be held in a public arena or 
out of doors, with the same spiritual privileges granted.) 

The Holy Hour may be held in private, that is by 
visiting a church and spending an hour's time before the 
Blessed Sacrament in the tabernacle, or in the home. The 
intention should be made, the appropriate prayers said and 
proper time be given to meditation when the hour is spent 
in private. 

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The Holy Hour has been richly endowed by the 
Church. 

"The Faithful, who take part for an entire hour in 
the public exercise known as the 'Holy Hour/ in any 
church, public or semi-public oratory (if they may law- 
fully make use of the latter), in order to venerate the 
Passion and Death of Jesus Christ, and to worship and 
meditate upon the burning love whereby He was led to 
institute the Holy Eucharist, may gain a plenary indul- 
gence, provided that they atone for their sins in sacramental 
confession, receive Holy Communion and pray for the 
intentions of the Sovereign Pontiff. 

"Those, who being at least contrite, perform this pious 
exercise, whether publicly or privately, may gain an in- 
dulgence of ten years" (Seer. Mem., Feb. 14, 1815 and 
Apr, 6, 1916; S.C. Ind., June 18, 1876j S,P, Ap., 
March 21, 1933). 



Forty Hours * Dewtim 

This devotion which began in Milan, Italy, in 1534, 
and in Rome November 25, 1592, has for its purpose: 
reparation, and tbe asking of God for His graces, par- 
ticularly through petition to God In the Most Blessed 



Originally, the Forty Hours was a omtiiiiioiis adora- 
tion. The Bteied Sacrament was exposed on the church 

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altars for a period of approximately forty hours, and the 
faithful prayed in relays day and night. Because of the 
difficulty of having adorers for the duration, and because 
of other obstacles, the devotion is no longer continuous, 
but its ceremonies are held on three successive days as 
follows: 

The sacred host is exposed on the main altar for a 
number of hours. The adoration period begins with a 
Mass of exposition, followed by a procession of the Blessed 
Sacrament. On the second day the Mass for peace is cele- 
brated, and on the third and final day the Mass of 
reposition followed again by a procession after which 
the people are blessed with the sacred host. 

The only Masses that are allowed at the altar on which 
the Blessed Sacrament is exposed are those of exposition 
and reposition. The Mass for peace is celebrated on the 
second day at another altar, and a Mass of requiem is 
never allowed during the three-day period. At both the 
opening and closing of the adoration, the litany of the 
saints is chanted and the procession is held. 

By arrangement, the Forty Hours' Adoration (or the 
shorter, Thirteen Hours', one-day adoration) is being held 
at some church or chapel in the diocese on every day 
throughout the year in an uninterrupted cycle. The adora- 
tion, as a rule, is held once every year in each parish. Thus, 
in addition to the sacrifice of the Mass being celebrated 
continuously around the world in an unending cycle, there 
is continuous adoration around the world. 

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appointed hours of the day, it is a fruitful time for 
Catholics to visit the church either to make brief visits or 
to spend an hour and gain the Holy Hour (see above) 
indulgence. During the time of Forty Hours' Adoration 
the following indulgence may be gained: 

"During the course of this exposition, if a visit is made 
to the Blessed Sacrament (and one recites five times the 
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, and 
adds one Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the 
Father for the intention of the Sovereign Pontiff) there 
is granted an indulgence of 15 years plus a plenary in- 
dulgence on each of the days of the exposition, provided 
that the faithful make their confession and receive Holy 
Communion." 

Devotion to the Sacred Heart 

Devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus Christ is 
one of adoration of the whole Christ, God and Man, 
the Second Person of the Blessed Trinity. It is directed 
to the Heart as the center, the very core, of Christ's 
humanity, united with His divinity. In adoration we are 
grateful for His love and manifold blessings, especially 
our redemption through Christ. In particular through this 
devotion we make reparation for offenses against the in- 
finite goodness of Christ. 

The devotion is celebrated by a feast day, First Friday 
commeiBonitioii, enthronement ia the home, mad by a 
litany and imny prayers. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

FIRST FRiDAYS.This aspect of the devotion to the Sacred 
Heart is the reception of Holy Communion on nine con- 
secutive first Fridays of nine months. This honoring of 
the Sacred Heart is based upon one of the thirteen promises 
made by our Lord to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque in the 
17th century, in which He declared: "I will grant the 
grace of final penitence to those who communicate on the 
first Friday of nine consecutive months." This devotion 
has been endowed by the Church with the following 
benefits: 

"The faithful who devoutly assist at the public exer- 
cises in honor of the Sacred Heart of Jesus on the First 
Friday of the month may gain: A plenary indulgence, 
provided that they make their confession, receive Holy 
Communion and pray for the intentions of the Sovereign 
Pontiff, 

"If, however, on the First Friday they recite privately 
some prayers in reparation for the injuries offered to the 
Sacred Heart of Jesus they may gain: A plenary indul- 
gence on the usual conditions; if, however, a public service 
is held, this latter indulgence can be gained only by those 
who are lawfully prevented from assisting at such service. 

"The faithful who recite devout prayers of reparation 
on other Fridays of the year may gain: An indulgence of 
7 years once each Friday" (S.C. Ind., Sept. 7, 1897; &P. 
Ap., June 1, 1934 and May 15, 1949). 

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ENTHRONEMENT OF THE SACRED HEART OF JESUS. This 
enthronement takes place in the home. It is an acknow- 
ledgment of the sovereignty of Jesus over the family, 
His presence in the family circle, and consecration to His 
adorable Heart. This enthronement is begun with the 
solemn installation of an image, statue or picture of the 
Sacred Heart in a place of honor, and followed by a pre- 
scribed act of consecration of the members of the family. 
Accompanying this enthronement, but distinct from it, is 
the recommended practice of night adoration which con- 
sists of one hour's adoration of the Sacred Heart once a 
month, between the hours of 9 p.m. and 6 a.m. by one 
or more persons, or by all members of the family. 

OTHER DEVOTIONS TO THE SACRED HEART* The month 
of June is dedicated to the Sacred Heart* "Those who 
perform their devotions privately during such a month 
may gain: An indulgence of 7 years once on any day of the 
month j a plenary indulgence on the usual conditions, pro- 
vided that they perform these devotions daily through- 
out the month and are lawfully excused from taking part 
in public exercises where the latter are held 3 * (S.C. Ind., 
May 8, 1873 and May 30, 1902; S.P, Ap., March 1, 
1933.) 




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Devotion to the Blessed Virgin 

Devotion to the Immaculate Heart of the Blessed 
Virgin Mary has increased in recent years although it was 
first promoted by St. John Eudes in the 17th century. 
Following the apparitions of the Blessed Virgin at Fatima 
in Portugal, in 1917, the devotion has prompted the dedi- 
cation of the world to the Immaculate Heart of Mary 
by the Holy Father, and many individual dioceses and 
places have made a similar dedication. The Feast is 
celebrated on August 22. 

The devotion has for its intention the singular honor 
of the Blessed Mother, her compassion, and particularly, 
through her, reparation and petition to her divine Son. At 
Fatima, the Blessed Mother asked particularly for prayers 
and penance (acts of mortification and the recitation of 
the Rosary). She promised the graces necessary to salvation 
to those who on five consecutive first Saturdays of five 
months would confess their sins and receive Holy Com- 
munion, recite one third (five decades) of the Rosary, 
and spend fifteen minutes' meditation on the mysteries 
of the Rosary. The devotion recalls the motherhood of 
the Blessed Virgin, her purity, her assumption, her reign 
as cpieen of heaven, her role as mediatrix of all graces, 
and is a special veneration of her human heart as the scat 



HOLY MASS, DEVOTIONS AND PIOUS PRACTICES 

of her love for her divine Son and the center of the many 
virtues and graces which were hers as immaculately con- 
ceived "full of grace." It is intended that this devotion 
prompt an imitation of our Blessed Mothers manifold 
virtues. 

This veneration of the Blessed Virgin also gives rise 
to devotion to Jesus through Mary, especially by dedi- 
cation to her of all prayers and works of merit. Such a 
dedication may be made by making the consecration to 
Mary as outlined by St. Louis de Montfort 



The Rosary 



This is a singular form of prayer in honor of the 
Blessed Mother of God. It is made up of a series of 
prayers recited while following the sequence on a chain 
or string of beads. There are two elements in praying the 
Rosary vocal prayer and interior meditation. 

The Rosary itself consists of fifteen decades of ten 
Hail Marys each. The usual form of the beads is a group 
of five decades. A pendant of five beads with a crucifix 
at the end is joined to a center medal, usually triangular 
in shape. To this medal are joined also the ends of a con- 
tinuous chain on which are strung fifty beads in groups of 
ten, each group being separated by a single^ larger bead* 
These four larger beads are placed i>etweea the fiirc dec- 
ades. (The total itssary has fifteen decades on a antimon 
chain after the center medal It is not accessary that the 

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separating beads be larger, Often they are of the same 
size as the other beads,) 

The prayers of the Rosary are: the Sign of the Cross, 
the Apostles' Creed said on the crucifix, the Our Father 
said on the first bead following the crucifix, three Hail 
Marys said on the next three beads, then the Glory Be to 
the Father said before the last bead on the pendant, on 
which is said the Our Father. Then begins the first 
mystery of the Rosary. The Hail Mary is said on each of 
the beads of the decade, and each decade is concluded 
with a Glory Be to the Father. Then on each succeeding 
decade are said one Our Father, ten Hail Marys, and 
the concluding Glory Be to the Father. 

The Rosary may be said completely with the recitation 
of fifteen decades or may be said with the recitation of 
only five decades. It may be prayed in private or with 
others. It need not be said consecutively, but may be 
interrupted or said in parts. Indulgenced rosaries (those 
blessed with the Dominican, Crosier or Brigittine indul- 
gences) which are wholly (or in major part) destroyed 
or sold lose the indulgence. The loaning of one's rosary 
to another does not affect the indulgences granted, and 
the indulgences are gained by the one reciting the prayers, 
fiot by the one to whom the rosary belongs. To gain the 
Dominican indulgence, a general meditation on the mys- 
teries is necessary, unless the person is unable physically 
to make the meditations. Meditation on the mysteries is 
IK& required for gaining the other indulgences, but it is 
certainly recommended. 

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In praying the Rosary, a meditation should be made 
upon one of the mysteries of our faith during the prayers 
of a single decade, when each mystery is named before 
saying the Our Father of the decade. One should picture 
the event and think of the virtues and graces of the occa- 
sion, and should also make an intention to practice those 
virtues in one's life. (This is a simplified meditation and 
other approved forms may be used in thinking of the 
mysteries.) 

THE MYSTERIES OF THE ROSARY: 

The Fh)e Joyful Mysteries: 
L The Annunciation 

2. The Visitation 

3. The Birth of Our Lord 

4. The Presentation of Our Lord in the Temple 

5. The Finding of Our Lord in the Temple 

(When only five decades are prayed, these Joyful Mys- 
teries are said on Mondays and Thursdays- and on the 
Sundays from the first Sunday of Advent to Septomgpsioaa 
Sunday.) 

The Ffw Sorrowful Afy/terwi: 

1. The Agony of Our Lord in the Garden 

2. The Scmirging at the Pillar 

3. The Cro wiling with Thorns 

4. The Carry tag of the Cross 

5. The Cnidfixicwi mud Death of Ow 

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(The Sorrowful Mysteries are said on Tuesdays and Fri- 
days and on the Sundays from Septuagesima until Easter*) 

The Fhe Glorious Mysteries: 

1. The Resurrection of Our Lord 

2. The Ascension of Our Lord Into Heaven 

3. The Descent of the Holy Ghost Upon the 
Apostles 

4. The Assumption of Our Blessed Mother Into 
Heaven 

5. The Coronation of Our Blessed Mother in 
Heaven 

(The Glorious Mysteries art: said on Wednesdays and 
Saturdays and on the Sundays from Easter to the first 
Sunday of Advent.) 

As a prayer, the Rosary has been granted a variety of 
indulgences by the Church. L "The faithful, whenever 
they recite a third part of the Rosary with devotion, may 
gain: An indulgence of 5 years (S*P. Ap. y March 18, 
1932). 2. "If they recite a third part of the Rosary in 
company with others, whether in public or in private, 
they may gain: An indulgence of 10 years, once a day; 
a plenary indulgence on the last Sunday of each month, 
with the addition of confession, Communion and a visit to 
a church or public oratory, if they perform such a recitation 
at least three times in any of the preceding weeks. If how- 
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HOLY MASS, DEVOTIONS AND PIOUS PRACTICES 

the partial indulgence of 10 years, they are granted: A 
plenary indulgence twice a month, if they perform this 
recitation daily for a month, go to confession, receive Holy 
Communion, and visit some chureh or public oratory" 
(S.P. Ap., Mar. 18, 1932 and July 26, 1946). 3. "Those 
who piously recite a third part of the Rosary in the pres- 
ence of the Blessed Sacrament publicly exposed or even 
reserved in the tabernacle, as often as they do this, may 
gain: A plenary indulgence, on condition of confession and 
Communion" (Ap., Brief, Sept. 4, 1927). 

OCTOBER, THE MONTH OF THE HOLY ROSARY. During 
the month of October, which is dedicated to the Rosary, 
there are recited daily and publicly at least five decades of 
the Rosary in all parish churches. This should be either 
at Mass in the morning or it may be in the evening before 
the Blessed Sacrament exposed. Special effort should be 
made during this month for family recitation of the 
Rosary. 




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Other Devotions 

The Church is most generous In the many devotions 
through which she encourages the faithful to envision 
their love of God. 

Among these are: the Stations of the Cross (medita- 
tions on the episodes of the Way of the Cross together 
with prayers while pausing before each of the 14 stations 
erected according to the prescriptions of the Holy See.) 
The sick may also gain an indulgence by meditating upon 
a crucifix blessed for this purpose and who recite a prayer 
or short ejaculation in memory of the passion of our Lord. 
Devotion to the five wounds, the Mother of Sorrows, the 
Precious Blood, the Holy Spirit, etc., are other familiar 
devotions. Many are directed to the Blessed Virgin Mary 
under one of her many titles. 

In addition, there are numerous devotions for both 
private and common use which are directed to veneration 
of the Mints* Through these devotions, we may offer wor- 
ship and honor to God and obtain the saints' intercessory 
aid. Among these are devotions to 3t, Joseph, the patron 
of the universal Church j St. Anne; St. Jude; St Therese, 
the Little Flower; St, Anthony; etc. Also, various saints 
have been appointed by the Church as the patrons of 
special groups, including almost every type of profession 
or work, such as St. Luke, the patron of physicians (Oct. 
18); or St Isidor, the patron of farmers (Mar. 22). 
Special groups of individuals, because of special needs, have 

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particular patrons, like St. Dymphna, the patron of the 
mentally ill (May 15); or St. Raphael, the patron of 
lovers (Oct. 24). 

Daily Private Prayers 

The Catholic faith is intended to bring to each of 
the faithful an intimate day-in-and-day~out way of living 
in close union with God. This is best put into effect through 
the daily prayers and brief meditations which are the com- 
mon rule for Catholics. Not all of these daily prayers are 
required, but may be put into practice, even in the busiest 
life, by anyone. 

The only required prayers are the daily morning and 
evening prayer. The morning prayer should be said upon 
arising* The choice of prayer and its length as a devotion 
is arbitrary, but the morning prayer should include a 
"morning offering*' of all the actions and thoughts of the 
coming day, together with acts of faith, hope and contri- 
tion. The evening prayer, said before retiring, is also made 
up of prayers of one's choice. However, it is recommended 
that there be a brief examination of conscience followed 
by an act of contrition. Other prayers that may be said 
are the Apostles* Creed, acts of fmith, hope and charity, etc* 

It is always mDommended that the Rosary, that is, 
five decades of it, be mid daily. 

There should also be a brief prayer of thanks before 
meals and after- It is customary when saying tlie 
after meals to include a prayer for the poor souls: ^ 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of 
God, rest in peace. Amen. 5? When eating in a public place 
it is proper to say grace as at home; the Sign of the Cross 
may be made inconspicuously if one is in a crowded place. 

It is also recommended that at various times through- 
out the day (when doing habitual acts, for example, when 
opening a door), one say a brief aspiration. 

The prayer of the Angelus may be said at morning,, 
noon, and evening, 

For those who desire and have the time during the day 
to pray more, there are more extensive prayers which co- 
incide with the liturgical year. The first of these is the 
Little Office of the Blessed Virgin Mary (in English 
tramlation^ which may be said daily. The second is the 
Divine Office, which also may be said daily, and may be 
obtained in the English translation. The latter is the offi- 
cial prayer of the liturgy of the Church, the Breviary, 
which is prayed every day by priests as an obligation. 



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The Church Calendar 




The Church Calendar 



calendar of the Church is based upon a luni- 
1 solar cycle of computation by which are regulated 
JL the feasts of the Church. Thus the feast of Easter 
is the first Sunday after the full moon which occurs on or 
next after March 21 (the vernal equinox). Easter can 
only occur on a date between March 22 and April 25 
inclusive. The calendar differs from the civil calendar 
in that it begins on the first Sunday of Advent, which 
starts with the Sunday nearest to the feast of St. Andrew. 
In the Church calendar there is evidence of the con- 
tinuance, throughout the year, of the round of worship and 
disposition which marks the Catholic response to liturgy. 
The beginning of Advent is the preparation for the feast 
of the Incarnation of Jesus Christ Christmas, This 
season of Advent is one of penance and joy, of preparation 
and expectation. Following Advent there is the relatively 
short season of Epiphany, then the brief pre-Lenteii days* 
Lent itself, from Ash Wednesday until Easter, is a time 
of penance in which the Church recognises tlie guilt of 
man's sin which made necessary man's rtdbr0pdb% ef- 
fected by the suffering and death of the Son of God cm 
the cross* Easter is the * c feasf: of faith** and one of J$y for 
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the feast of the Ascension (forty days after Easter), and 
the feast of the Holy Spirit, Pentecost. The remainder 
of the Church calendar consists of the time after Pentecost, 
each Sunday being numbered from then until the 24th 
and last Sunday. The season after Pentecost is one of hap- 
piness and of enlightenment in the faith, of instruction 
through the Epistles and Gospels. (The feasts are indicated 
on the several liturgical calendars which are available to 
the faithful.) 

In following the Church calendar, we are aware that 
certain feasts are movable, that is, the date upon which 
they occur is dependent upon the feast of Easter, These 
are the major feasts (Ascension, Pentecost, Corpus Christi, 
etc.) which are reckoned from Easter. Besides these mov- 
able feasts there are fixed feasts, which remain constant 
on the date assigned. 

The Church ranks certain festivals as to their impor- 
tance. Thus in the missal, feasts are ranked in descending 
order doubles of the first class, doubles of the second 
class, greater doubles, doubles, and simples. 

Because of the mobility of certain feast days, two feasts 
may occur on the same calendar date; consequently, the 
more important feasts may supplant others in the liturgy. 
Ordinary Sundays may be supplanted by any double feast 
of the first or second class which falls on the same day* 
Sundays of the first class, which no feast may supersede, 
are the Sundays of Advent, Lent and Passioutide, Easter 
Sunday, Low Sunday, and Pentecost. Sundays of the sec- 
ond class, which may be supplanted only by fctKts 

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as doubles of the first class, arc: Septuagesima, Sexagesima 
and Quinquagesima. 

When using the missal, one should study the prelimi- 
nary notes in the front of the hook, to know the feast 
being celebrated. The above gives only the sequence and 
the rating of feasts. 



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The House of God 

The Church Building 

churches in which Catholics worship are all of 
one basic form, arising from the center of worship, 
the altar, where the presence of Christ in the Most 
Blessed Sacrament is reserved. Simply, a church is an edi- 
fice or building which is dedicated to divine worship and 
intended, principally, for the use of all the faithful. (It 
differs from an oratory in that the oratory is a place set 
aside for divine worship, sometimes as a part of another 
building or institution, but not intended primarily for 
public use. A public oratory differs only in the fact that it 
was built for the use by a limited group, such as a religious 
community, but in which the public is permitted to attend 
divine services.) 

The bishop alone may give permission for the erection 
of churches. After dedication, the church cmincit be used 
for purposes such as movies, plays, etc. A comeamted 
church enjoys special privileges. Only a church of brick r 
stone may be consecrated. Its use as a place of worship 
remains always- The consecrated church fa&& twdhre pen 



or sculptured crosses of stone which mne anouitedi by tbe 

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CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

main altar, one on each side of the main entrance, and 
four equidistant on each wall. Before or above each cross 
a candle is burned on the day of consecration and on the 
anniversary day of each year. 

As to style of architecture, construction, decoration 
and furnishings, there are no fixed rules for the church 
building. Only those things which are actually used in 
divine worship are governed by requirements. The general 
rule would indicate that the church, in style and designa- 
tion, should follow the dictates of Christian tradition and 
the rules of true art. The Holy Father has made several 
recent declarations warning against the use of materials 
and innovations in art execution which are untried and 
not in keeping with tradition. At the same time, the rec- 
ommendation has been made to establish boards of art 
and construction which would advise in the matter of 
architecture and decoration. In some dioceses a building 
commission is established as an advisory group. 

In spoking of a "liturgically" correct church, it is 
the interior, the altar, its designation, and the general dec- 
oration which are referred to, rather than the external 
structure of the church. 

la general use, the church building is the parish church 
of that territory which is defined in canon law as a parish. 
The members of that parish are those living within the 
defined parish boundaries. Such members are bound by the 
regulations and discipline of the Church as an organization, 
by the diocesan rules, and by the particular rules established 
for the orderly operation of the parish. 

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The parish is governed by the priest officially assigned 
by the bishop. This priest is appointed either as pastor or 
administrator. An administrator is the same as a pastor, 
except that certain canonical prerogatives define his tenure, 
etc. If the parish has a large congregation, there are one 
or more assistant priests assigned to serve as curates in 
aiding the pastor* These curates may be changed from 
time to time at the discretion of the ordinary, but usually 
the change is made to give the curate a more varied ex- 
perience in parish work, 

The church, since it is the place of public worship for 
the faithful, should be a familiar building to the members. 
They should know the general features of the church and 
be able to name its parts. 

Beginning just within the outside doors: one enters the 
vestibule, an enclosed entry-way. In churches of gothic 
style, this area is sometimes referred to as the n^rikex* 
The vestibule has a practical purpose, but in the early 
churches it was in this area that the catechumens waited 
and, because of this fact, the baptistry with the baptismal 
font is properly located in a part of the vestibule. 

From the vestibule, one or more doors lead into the 
nave of the church. Just within these doors^ usually to 
either side, are holy water fonts* These arc basins or opoa 
vessels in which holy water is plaeed. On entering the 
nave of a church, oae should dip the right-baiid fi&gortips 
into the holy water and then make the Sign of the Croit* 
Men and boys remove their lints cm enteriag the dbwch, 
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CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

rule is based upon St. Paul's first epistle to the Corinthians 
(chapter 11:5). 

The nave of the church is divided by a central aisle, 
with additional side aisles, depending upon the size of the 
church. On either side of this center aisle are the pews 
or seats, together with kneeling benches. (In some foreign 
countries it is customary to have no fixed pews in churches; 
instead they have portable chairs which one may use if 
he wishes.) 

The Communion rail separates the nave of the church 
from the sanctuary. This is a continuous railing which spans 
or encloses the sanctuary (the main altar area) and, gener- 
al ly ? the area occupied by the side altars (if any) which 
are to the right and left of the sanctuary proper. The Com- 
munion rail is usually not more than two and a half to three 
feet in height. At the center of the Communion rail is a 
double gate which is always closed, except when opened 
for the passage of the ministers, e.g., at the Asperges, 
or for processions, etc. Those wishing to receive Holy 
Communion kneel along this rail. 

Beyond the Communion rail is the sanctuary, usually 
ui aloove-like portion of the church. The front center is 
occupied by the main altar of the church. It is within 
the sanctuary that the priest celebrates the holy sacrifice 
of the Mass and conducts other divine services. Lay persons 
db not usually enter the sanctuary, except for special duties, 
as an acolyte^ or when ceremonies require their presence, 
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THE HOUSE OF GOD 

The Altar 

The altar is a table at which the holy sacrifice of the 
Mass is offered. The altar size, its cloths, etc., are governed 
by regulations of the Church. The visible parts of the 
altar are familiar, but those which are covered are not 
too well known to the layman. The top of the altar is 
called the mensa^ which has in the center of its surface 
a cavity, about a foot square, into which the altar stone is 
placed. When the entire altar top is of stone, the entire 
mensa itself may be the altar stone. 

The altar stone is an oblong piece of stone consecrated 
by a bishop. Its top area is large enough to hold the sacred 
host and the chalice and ciborium. Its top surface contains 
five carved crosses and a cavity on the inside holds relics 
of saints. The cavity is sealed with a cemented stone lid. 

The mensa is covered with three white cloths, the 
topmost reaching to the floor on either side. When the 
altar is not being used, it is covered with a heavy coverlet. 
In front of the altar, hanging from the front edge of the 
mensa, is the frontal or fmtependmm* 

On the top, in the center of the altar, either standing 
free or built into the structure, is the tabernacle. This is a 
closed and securely locked housing, of somewhat boxlikc 
proportions, in which the Most Blessed Stormmaai is 
reserved- Here is also kept the cH^rmm^ whidfa resembles 
a covered chalice, in which cximecfiited boats arc Moral. 
Today, the tabernacle is generally made of metal. On the 

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liturgically designed altar, the tabernacle is circular or 
oblong* If such be the case, the tabernacle is surrounded 
with a hanging cloth which is called the conopaeum. (If 
the tabernacle is built into the reredos or superstructure 
of an altar, there is only a veil hung before the door.) The 
hanging and frontal of the tabernacle change in color with 
the liturgical colors of the season. 

Removable but regular furnishings of the altar are 
the three altar cards (one at the center before the taber- 
nacle, and one each at the Epistle and Gospel side of the 
altar) on which arc printed portions of the ordinary of the 
Mass. On either side of the tabernacle stand candlesticks 
with candles- (The number of candles used in the liturgy 
is governed by the rubrics.) Above the tabernacle hangs 
or stands a crucifix which is a required fixture for the 
celebration of MESS. Built into the reredos^ and sometimes 
a part of the tabernacle, there is either a niche or platform, 
called the "throne," on which the monstrance is placed 
during exposition of the Blessed Sacrament. 

When their: is a free-standing structure built above 
the altar, it is a canopy. This canopy, when it is supported 
by one or more pillars, is also known as a ciborium. If this 
canopy is suspended from the ceiling or extends from the 
rear wall of the sanctuary, it is commonly called a balda- 
quin (also called bMacchin or tester). When a curtain 
hangs behind the altar, it is called a dossal. This curtain 
does ix>t hide anything, but is a vestige of historic altars 
aad is more decorative than essential. 

suspended from the center of the sanctuary 

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ceiling or from the side wall, or standing in a single upright 
standard apart from the altar, there is a sanctuary lamp. 
This lamp burns pure oil or beeswax and is lighted con- 
tinuously when the Blessed Sacrament is reserved in the 
tabernacle. 

Against the wall of the sanctuary, as a rule on the 
Epistle side of the altar, there are three seats. When these 
seats are combined into one bench, it is called a sedilw* 
Also at this side of the altar stands a small table, known as 
the credence table, on which the cruets holding wine and 
water and the lavabo plate are placed. Usually attached 
to the sanctuary wall is a small locked cabinet, known as the 
ambry, in which the holy oils are kept. 

Sacred vessels should not be touched by the laity. These 
vessels, used in divine worship, are: chalice, ciborium (and 
their covers), paten, monstrance, luna and lunette. The 
linens, corporal and pall covering, which are used during 
Mass, are not to be handled by the laity until they have 
been washed by a cleric, 

On both sides or behind the sanctuary is a room or 
rooms called the sacristy. One is used for the storage of 
vestments and other furnishings. Here the celebrant vests 
before approaching the altar. In the other sacristy, the 
acolytes (Mass servers) dress in cassock and surplice before 
assisting the priest. The servers 1 clothing, candle^ etc 
may be stored here. 

Either built into the wall, in an mlcwe f or temporarily 
erected, arc the confessionals. (See P&mm&) They 
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The church is a place of great reverence, yet it is not 
a forbidding place. Because of the real presence of Christ 
in the Blessed Sacrament, the church should be respected, 
held in dignified regard, and a place of frequent visits. 

Genuflection 

On entering a pew one should genuflect, that is, bend 
the right knee, touching the floor with it. This is an act 
of reverence made in honor of our Lord in the Blessed 
Sacrament. When the Blessed Sacrament is on the altar, 
but not within the tabernacle, e.g., exposition or reserva- 
tion on a side altar as at Holy Thursday, genuflection 
should be made on both knees, that is, kneeling down 
briefly, at the same time bowing the head slightly, 

GENUFLECTION INDULGENCE, (a) "The faithful who pay 
the homage of a due genuflection before the Blessed Sac- 
rament reserved in the tabernacle, at the same time reciting 
the following or similar ejaculation: Jesus, my God, I 
adore Thee here present in the Sacrament of Thy Love! ' 
may gain an indulgence of 300 days, (b) "If they duly 
genuflect on both knees before the Blessed Sacrament 
solemnly exposed to the adoration of the faithful, reciting 
the above-mentioned prayer, or one like it, an indulgence 
of 500 days, (c) "If they make some outward sign of 
reverence when passing a church or oratory where the 
Blessed Sacrament is reserved, an indulgence of 300 days" 
(S.P. Ap., Feb. 25, 1933). 

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The Choir and Church Music 

Members of a parish, especially those who have ability 
or a talent for music or singing, should feel encouraged 
to seek membership in the parish choir. The singers at 
high Mass participate in a singular manner in the liturgy, 
not only in the aid they give in carrying out the liturgical 
office, but also because they at times replace the clergy 
in singing the music of the liturgy. Choir singers, because 
of their intimate participation in the liturgy and because 
of the exalted nature of the "prayer set to music" which 
they offer to God, enjoy a special fruit of the Mass in 
accord with their co-operation and intention. 

It is common practice, due to the lack of male singers 
and conditions of training, to make use of mixed choirs of 
men and women in many of our Catholic churches* How- 
ever, this is only a "condition of necessity," and one which 
is permitted by special dispensation. The traditional rule 
of the Church excludes women and girls from the choir. 
They may sing as members of the congregation. Only malt 
singers are permitted to sing in the sanctuary choir. Where 
it is feasible, churches should establish choirs of male 
voices. 

The regulations governing Church music tad the role 
of the choir in the liturgy of the Church are set forth in 
the Motu Proprh on sacred music. This letter of instruc~ 
tion was written by Pope St. Piu$ X to instruct in the 
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rules which have become the norms for Church music. We 
can do no better than to present here excerpts of essential 
points from the Motu Proprio pertaining to the choir 
and Church music: 

"Sacred music, being an integral part of the liturgy, 
shares in the general object of this liturgy, namely, the 
glory of God and the sanctification and edification of the 
faithful, . * . 

"Sacred music must, therefore, possess in the highest 
degree the qualities which characterize the liturgy, and 
in particular holiness and goodness of form, from which 
two qualities will spontaneously arise its third quality, 
namely, universality. , . . " 

THREE KINDS OF SACRED Music. "These qualities are 
found most perfectly in Gregorian Chant^ which is there- 
fore the proper chant of the Roman Church, the only 
chant which she has inherited from the ancient Fathers, 
which she has jealously guarded for so many centuries in 
the liturgical books, which she directly proposes to the 
faithful as her own music, which she prescribes exclusively 
for some parts of the liturgy, and which recent studies 
have so happily restored to its original integrity, , . * 

"The qualities described above are also possessed in 
an excelling degree by classical polyphony , especially that 
of the Roman school, which reached its greatest perfection 
in the sixteenth century under Pierluigi of Palestrina, and 
which kter continued to produce excellent musical and 
liturgical amptmtiom. . . . 

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"The Church has always recognized and encouraged 
all progress in the arts, and has always admitted to the 
services of her functions whatever genius has discovered 
of the good and beautiful during the course of ages; pro- 
vided, however, there be no infringement of the laws of 
liturgy. Hence modern music is also admitted to the 
Church since it too furnishes compositions of such ex- 
cellence, sobriety, and dignity, that they arc in no way 
unworthy of the liturgical functions. . . . Nevertheless, 
since modern music arose mainly in response to secular 
purposes, greater care must be taken with regard to it, in 
order that those compositions in modern style which are 
admitted to the Church may contain nothing of a secular 
character, be free from echoes of theatrical motifs, and 
be not, even in their external form, based on the move- 
ment of secular pieces, , . . n 

THE ORGAN, "Although the proper music of the Church 
is purely vocal, nevertheless the accompaniment of an 
organ is allowed. In some special cases, within due limits 
and with proper safeguards, other instruments may be 
allowed, but never without the special permission of the 
ordinary, according to the prescriptions of the C#ar&- 
monwle Episcop&rum. . . . 

"The use of the pianoforte is forbidden in the Church, 
as also that of all the more or less noisy mstnmietit& > s^ch 
as drums of any kind, cymbals, bells, and on . . B*udb 
are strictly forbidden to play in the church ... A band mtf 
be allowed by the ordinary in pimes&kwis outside the dmreh 

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provided it docs not in any way play secular music. . . . " 
Considering the dignity of the liturgy, the solemn and 
intimate part that music has in that liturgy, it must be 
remembered that: (a) non-Catholics may not chant the 
Office In choir, nor be employed as singers of liturgical 
music; (b) a non-Catholic organist may only be tem- 
porarily employed. 



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Catholic Reading 
and Education 




8 

Catholic Reading 
and Education 

Reading 

Catholic Church has always been aware of the 
I importance of education, and it has recognized the 
JL influence, both good and bad, of reading. The 
Church, throughout the ages, since its founding by Christ, 
has been a leader in the field of education. This is true 
not only because the apostles used the written word to 
spread the truth of Christ's teaching. It was also true in 
the first centuries of the Church when the first great 
schools of the Scriptures were established at Aleacaadria 
and Antioch. As the Church grew, there were more mad 
more writings poured out by her scholars. This great con- 
tinuity of teaching has been retained in the writings of 
the Fathers of the Church, both of the Ernst and the West, 
Great schools were established later in all the ceatm of 
the world. Early orders of mzmk& tatighi at their monas- 
teries, fostering learning^ trmnmcribiag the great books, ami 
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CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

have ever been eager to learn more about the teachings of 
Christ, that they might put into practice the virtues they 
came to know. 

While the Church was a leader, a promoter of edu- 
cation, and foremost in the arts, it also knew that the 
spread of learning would carry with it many dangers, and 
that teaching was a responsible undertaking. First of these 
dangers was the possibility of error creeping into the true 
teaching. There was constant vigilance to maintain the 
clear waters of truth. 

And with the advent of printing and the greater use 
of reading, the dangers increased. There was a growing 
necessity for setting up a system of guarantees that would 
point out to the faithful those books which, written on 
the subjects of faith or morals, could be considered to 
contain the true teaching. 

This protection was established, not to limit, or fence 
in, the learning of Catholics, but to assure them of what 
was true. This protection took on gradually a twofold form: 
approval of books which contain the truth, and condem- 
nation of books which are harmful* 

Today this prohibition of books and censorship has 
taken on a formal procedure, which is governed by the 
law of the Church. We shall consider first the censorship 
of books. This censorship carried on by the Church is the 
elimination by a competent authority of the Church, ap- 
pointed by the bishop of each diocese, to see whether or 
not there is anything contrary to faith or morals in the 
writing, (Under this law, this censorship extends not only 

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to books but to all writings for publication, such as maga- 
zines, booklets, newspapers, etc,) 

As a result of this examination there appear in books 
which pass judgment, usually on the first left-hand page, 
the word Imprimatur^ which is followed by the name of 
a bishop, and the words Nihil obsiat followed by the 
name of the examining censor. (Books written by mem- 
bers of religious orders also have the words Imprimi potest 
followed by the name of the religious superior giving 
approval.) This is the guarantee of the book's content 
so far as faith and morals arc concerned. It docs not mean 
an approval or commendation of the author, the publisher, 
the printing, the general contents of the book or of any 
other problems not concerning faith and morals which 
may be discussed therein. 

What books must be admitted to the censorship of the 
Church? There are several, which are listed according to 
the nature of the subjects: L All editions of the Sacred 
Scriptures, whether in part or full, together with all notes 
or commentaries written as discussion of or explanation of 
the Scripture. 2. All books which deal to any extent with 
the Sacred Scriptures, with theology or any phase of It* 
Church history, canon law and c0m0ientaries on it, natural 
theology, ethics or writings on any phase of religicms w 
moral subjects (e.g., books on birth control, sociology, 
etc,). 3. All books or booklets cxmtainiag prayers or de- 
votions, as well as all books giving guidance or dyiftjetkwa 
in moral, ascetical, or mystical life. Tkh includes til 
writing on apparitions, visions, etc* 4. All religious cmrcb, 

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pictures, or paintings, whether or not a prayer is printed 
on them. 

The law of censorship applies to all lay persons, as 
well as to clerics, (Clerics and religious, writing any sub- 
ject for publication, must have the permission of their 
ordinary or religious superior.) The permission to publish, 
which is given after examination, may be obtained either 
from the ordinary of the place where the author or artist 
resides, or from the ordinary of the place where the article 
is published or printed. If permission to publish is refused 
in one place (for example, where the author lives), ap- 
plication for permission cannot be made to another bishop 
unless he is informed of the previous withholding of per- 
mission* The permission to publish is generally obtained 
by the publisher. The lay person may submit his writing 
to the publisher and, after acceptance of the writing, the 
publisher will seek the imprimatur. If a lay person wishes 
to obtain the imprimatur himself, he writes a letter, en- 
closing the script or picture, to the chancery office of 
his own diocese, 

THE PROHIBITION OF BOOKS, This is the prohibition to 
mil Catholics to read a particular book judged to be harm- 
ful. It differs from censorship in that prohibition to read a 
book is made after the publication of said book. Common 
seme forbids the reading of books which bring danger to 
one's faith or morals, since no one may put himself in a 
position which would cause harm to mind and soul 

The Church, in forbidding Catholics to read books 

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judged to be harmful, acts as an interpreter of the natural 
law. 

Books which are forbidden to Catholics may be pro- 
hibited in several ways: 

L By being listed on the official Index of Prohibited 
Books. This Index lists books by title and author which 
have been judged by the Church to contain thoughts, prop- 
ositions, or teachings contrary to faith or morals. The 
Index is brought up to date and published from time to 
time. 

2. By being forbidden by general law or by a special 
decree of the ordinary, of the Holy Office, or of the pope, 

3. By the natural law, which means that all books 
are forbidden which oppose faith and morals according 
to prudent judgment of other qualified persons or one's 
own conscience. 

Books which are prohibited may not be read, retained, 
sold, translated into another language, or loaned to someone 
else, without permission. The ordinary may grant per- 
mission for reading of a certain prohibited book for m 
grave reason, such as graduate study, refutation, etc. Priests 
may not give permission to the laity. Permission to read 
books which are downright obscene, and those which trc 
forbidden by the natural law, is never given. 

Forbidden by general law are books of the following 
classifications: L Editions of the original test and of the 
ancient Catholic versions of the Sacred Scriptures which 
are published by non-Catholics; also txtaslmtlom of the 
Sacred Scriptures into any language nude by mm-C 

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or published by non-Catholics. 2. Books or writings of any 
author which defend heresy or schism, by argument, or 
which in any manner seek to undermine or overthrow the 
basis of religion. 3. Books which systematically and 
deliberately attack religion or morals. This includes divine 
worship, morality, right living, and especially purity. 
4. Books by non-Catholics, whether or not they are 
baptized, which concern religion or religious discipline 
unless it is certain that no error is contained in them. 
Included are newspapers and booklets. 5. Texts of Scrip- 
tures, notes or commentaries on Scriptures, which are 
published without censorship (those which lack an 
imprimatur). 6. Books or pamphlets or writings, telling 
of new apparitions, revelations, etc., which have not been 
given an imprimatur. 7. Books which attack Catholic 
teachings of faith, defend errors condemned by the Holy 
See, or attack the hierarchy or the religious life. 8. Books 
which teach, promote or detail superstitions, sorcery, 
magic, fortune-telling, etc. 9. Books which defend duel- 
ling, suicide and divorce, or which maintain the use- 
fulness to religious and to society of condemned organiza- 
tions. 10. Pornographic literature, books, pamphlets and 
pictures, and publications which narrate or show obscene 
things for the purpose of arousing passions. 1 1 . Editions 
of liturgical books approved by the Holy See, which due 
to alterations, etc., do not coincide with the official 
editions. (This includes all missals, rituals, etc.) 12. Books 
which propagate false indulgences or those indulgences 
withdrawn by the Church. 1 3. Printed images of our Lord, 

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the Blessed Virgin Mary, the angels, saints and other ser- 
vants of God which are not in keeping with the decrees 
of the Church. 

The reading of a book forbidden by general decree or 
by special decree of the Holy Office is sinful as to the 
extent of reading and the nature of the book's content. 
It is more seriously sinful if the forbidden book is read 
entirely, or if the content is especially bad in prudent 
judgment. The penalty of excommunication, especially 
reserved to the Holy See, is incurred by (a) the publishers; 
(b) those knowingly reading; (c) those who defend or 
retain books written by apostates, heretics, schismatics 
(in which their errors are defended), or books prohibited 
under pain of excommunication (by a given statement of 
the penalty when the book is prohibited). 

The prohibition of books is not a limitation upon study; 
it is a protection. While it is negative, the prohibition of 
books has a positive aspect in that it encourages the writing 
and publication of good books. 



Education 

The Church recognizes that the primary aid of true 
education is to teach men the purpose of life and to prepare 
them for eternal happiness with God. This means that 
there must be religious training, and the Church, because 
of her divine mission, has the right and obligation to awtre 

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a religious education to all the faithful. The duty of ed- 
ucating children rests primarily with the parents who are 
responsible for their religious, moral, physical and civil 
education as well as providing temporal welfare. The 
Church merely directs and aids parents in the fulfillment 
of this obligation; it does not supplant them. 

Concerning education, Church law declares: "Parents 
are bound by a most grave obligation to provide to the 
best of their ability for the religious and moral as well as 
for the physical and civil education of their children, and 
for the temporal well-being" (c. 1113). 

"From childhood all the faithful must be so educated 
that not only are they taught nothing contrary to faith 
and morals, but that religious and moral training takes the 
chief place" (c. 1372). 

"In every elementary school, religious instruction 
adapted to the age of the children must be given" (c. 
1373). 

"Catholic children must not attend non-Catholic, neu- 
tral or mixed schools. ... It is for the bishop of the place 
alone to decide, according to the instructions of the- Apos- 
tolic See, in what circumstances and with what precautions 
attendance at such schools may be tolerated without danger 
of perversion to the pupils" (c. 1374). 

"The Church has the right to establish schools of 
every grade, not only elementary schools, but also high 
schools and colleges" (c. 1375), 

By direct legislation, the Church in the United States 
has prescribed the means that the faithful shall employ 

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in keeping with the broad objectives of the Church in 
carrying out the obligation of parents. The Third Plenary 
Council of Baltimore, held in 1884, declared: "Near every 
church where there is no parochial school one shall be 
established within two years after the promulgation of 
this Council, and shall be perpetually maintained, unless 
the bishop for serious reasons sees fit to allow delay. 

"All parents shall be bound to send their children to 
a parochial school, unless it is evident that such children 
obtain a sufficient Christian education at home, or unless 
they attend some other Catholic school, or unless, for 
sufficient cause approved by the bishop, with proper cau- 
tions and remedies duly applied, they attend aiK>thcr 
school. It is left to the ordinary to decide what constitutes 
a Catholic school." 

In a pastoral letter, prepared by the bishop of the 
United States in 1919, the declaration was clearly set forth 
again; "The Church in our country is obliged, for the 
sake of principle, to maintain a system of education distinct 
and separate from other systems. It is supported by the 
voluntary contributions of Catholics who, at the same time, 
contribute as required by law to the maintenance of public 
schools. It engages in the service of education a body of 
teachers who consecrate their lives to this high calling; 
and it prepares, without expense to the State, a considerable 
number of Americans to live worthily as dtlzcm of the 
republic.** 

The Catholic school system is now eirteasivc mud em- 
braces five classes of imtitiiticMis; tjhc parochial or ekrooa- 

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tary school, the secondary or high school, the normal school 
(for the training of teachers), the seminary (for the 
training of priests and religious, all of whom are teachers), 
and the colleges and universities. 

In every diocese there is established a department of 
education. It is through this that the regulations govern- 
ing Catholic education are set up, not only as regards the 
diocese, but in accord with the highest national standards. 
In general, entry into the Catholic elementary or grade 
school is permitted for the child who is six years of age 
or whose sixth birthday occurs before December 1 of the 
year the child enters school. Children are advanced ac- 
cording to the standards established. As a general rule, each 
parish having a parochial school supports and staffs its 
own school. Secondary schools (with some exceptions), 
colleges and universities are separate from parish affilia- 
tion. They are maintained by tuition charges, and staffed 
by diocesan appointments or by the religious orders which 
established them. 

Besides the formal means of Catholic education there 
are many ways in which Catholics may inform themselves 
of their religion, (See: Confraternity of Christian Doc- 
trim; mid Home and School Association under Church 
Organizations* The various educational means include cor- 
respondence courses (carried on for a prescribed time for 
both the instruction of Catholics and of those interested 
in learning about the Church), study clubs, discussion 
centers, school and parish libraries, books, magazines, 
pamphlets, newspapers, radio and television programs. 

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Publications 

Every Catholic home should subscribe to a Catholic 
newspaper. Most dioceses in the United States have their 
own Catholic weeklies, which carry announcements of 
the diocese, current Catholic news comment, and news of 
the Catholic world. The reasons for having a Catholic 
paper in the home are many; it serves to inform Catholics 
of recent pronouncements of the Holy See, of diocesan 
regulations, as well as instructing Catholics in the inter- 
pretation of the news in keeping with Catholic truth. Also 
the newspaper is a useful index to Catholic thinking on 
important world and local affairs, besides being a ready 
source of Catholic information for the home. 

There are many Catholic magazines, both weekly and 
monthly, which are instructive and supply the home with 
wholesome reading. These magazines vary from the com- 
mentator type of weekly to the digest form. Many parishes 
have bulletins, carrying a religious message, along with 
the parish announcements of the week. Parish members 
should become accustomed to taking home and using these 
parish bulletins, so they may know the hours of Masses, 
the dates and times of parish functionSj etc. Catholics be- 
come more aware of the parish as a unit 01 Catholic life 
when they participate in its spiritual and social life* 

Another aspect of Catholic living, which hm social 
as well as instructional importance, is the use of Catholic 
Christmas cards* In times past there have been many axn~ 

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mcrcial forms of Christmas cards which ignored the all- 
important fact that Christmas is the celebration of the 
Incarnation of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, In recog- 
nition of this, Catholics, if they send out Christmas cards, 
should be concerned to send only those cards which recall 
and portray the essential truth of the feast. Movements 
as those aimed at "putting Christ back into Christmas" can 
only succeed if Catholics follow through on the use of 
suitable cards. 

The Catholic has rich sources of instruction and in- 
formation in libraries, study clubs, book clubs, etc. Since 
membership in the mystical body of Christ is its very 
purpose, the life of the Catholic should be directed to be- 
coming closely united with Christ through understanding. 
Because of this, we recommend that as a minimum the 
Catholic home have the following aids to the instruction 
of all its members: 

1. An approved Catholic version of the Bible. 

2. Missals or prayer books for the several members of 
the family. 

3. A source book explaining the essential truths of the 
Catholic faith. 

4% A Catholic newspaper, 

5. One or more Catholic magazines. 

6. A weekly parish bulletin (if available). 

7. A book or books of inspiration, such as the "Imita- 
tion of Christ," "Bread of Life," "Lives of the 
Saints," etc. 

8* Where there are children, Catholic juvenile books. 

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The Parish Library 

There are libraries established in many parishes for 
use by their members. These libraries not only provide 
instructive reading for the Catholic home, they also arc 
a source of basic knowledge which will help in making 
converts. The library may be housed in the school build- 
ing, or in a parish hall or in the basement. It does not 
supplant the public library, but the parish library is a means 
of giving additional reading which public libraries often 
do not supply. The parish library may provide books of 
general interest as well as inspirational and spiritual read- 
ing j it may loan books free of charge or at a small rental 
fee. 




Catholic Organizations 



Catholic Organizations 



In General 

BELONGING to the Catholic Church not only means 
a well-rounded participation in the divine worship 
of God but also in the social life of her members. 
For this reason there are within the Church a number 
of organizations in which the laity may participate to 
strengthen their spiritual lives and better their lives as 
social beings, particularly in carrying out Catholic Action. 
There is not a Catholic, be he youth, home-maker, 
professional, worker or farmer, who cannot find an organi- 
zation to which he may belong. The person seeking to 
join one or more of such societies will find rascoafeership 
available either on the parish or national level. If a group 
is organized in the parish, one may seek membership 
through the parish priest or one of the parish members* 
If a group be a professional 0r trmde organization, one 
may seek membership through the national office, a local 
associate member, or through the parish priest. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 
Church organizations arc broadly divided as follows: 

Spiritual Groups: 

Third orders (Franciscan, Dominican, etc.) 
Confraternities (some Archconfraternities) 
Holy Name Society 
Confraternity of Christian Mothers 
Confraternity of the Blessed Sacrament 
Confraternity of Christian Doctrine 

Spiritual Youth Groups: 

The Sodality of the Blessed Virgin Mary 
Catholic Youth Movement 
National Council of Catholic Youth 
Legion of Mary (also adult) 

Special Groups: 
Opus Dei 

Young Christian Workers 
Young Christian Students 
Young Christian Farmers 
Christ Child Society 
Apostolate of the Suffering 
(Some of the above may have social aspects.) 

Youth Groups: 

Catholic Boy Scouts 
Catholic Girl Scouts 

Catholic Central Verein of America, Youth 
Movement 

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Junior Catholic Daughters of America 

Junior Daughters of Isabella 

Newman Club 

National Federation of Catholic College Students 

Pax Romana 

Catholic Students' Mission Crusade 

Legion of Mary 

For graduates of high school or college*. 
National Catholic Alumni Federation 
International Federation of Catholic Alumnae 

Adult Groups: 

National Council of Catholic Men 

National Council of Catholic Women 

National Catholic Conference on Family Life 

Daughters of Isabella 

Catholic Daughters of America 

Christ Child Society 

Rosary Society 

Altar Society 

Home and School Association 

Retreat League Movement 

Ushers' Society 

The Choir 



Professional tmd 

Catfaolk Philosophical Society 
Catholic Historical Society 

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National Council of Catholic Nurses 
The Catholic Press Association 
Society of St. Vincent de Paul 
Catholic Laymen's Association 
Catholic Committee of the South 
Christopher Movement 
Narberth Movement 
Catholic Lay Apostle Guild 
Catholic Interracial Movement 
National Catholic Rural Life Movement 
Catholic Theater Conference 
Catholic Actors* Guild of America 
Association of Catholic Trade Unionists 
Catholic War Veterans 
Apostleship of the Sea 
Serra Clubs 

Fraternal Groups: 

Knights of Columbus 

Catholic Order of Foresters 

Catholic Central Verein 

Catholic Fraternities and Sororities 

Alpha Delta Gamma; Kappa Gamma Pi; 
Phi Kappa; Sigma Beta Kappa; Thcta Kappa 
Phi; Theta Phi Alma. 

This list is by no means exhaustive of the many dif- 
ferent societies and associations which are open to Cath- 
slics. Some of the Church organizations are more closely 
illied with Catholic Action than others for example, 



CATHOLIC ORGANIZATIONS 

the departments of the National Catholic Welfare Con- 
ference, organized by direction of the bishops of the 
United States. In some dioceses, emphasis is placed on 
societies to meet a particular need. 

Membership in Church organizations, be they parish 
or national, means that one's participation should be in 
keeping with the objectives of the group. On an indi- 
vidual basis, an effort should be made to be active. This 
requires attendance at meetings, co-operative work with 
the officers, acceptance of office and committee ap- 
pointments, regular payment of dues when required^ and 
aid in recruiting new members. 



Confraternities 



A confraternity of the Church is an association of 
the faithful, erected by Church authority. Its objectives 
are works of piety or charity, the increase of public 
worship, and the increase of spirituality in the lives of 
members and the Church, (It differs from other pious 
associations in that it demands a formal decree of ercctkm 
while others require only the approval of the ordinary of 
the diocese.) 

An archconfratemity is a grouping of like confra- 
ternities, granted certain indulgences and privileges fey 
the Church, 

In the following we give a brief description ol the 
work and objectives of some of the more notable Church 
groups. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

The Holy Name Society 

The Holy Name Society is an archconfraternlty with 
its purpose directed to the spiritual well-being of Catholic 
men living in the world, It has for particular objectives; 
the honor of the Most Holy Name of Jesus, the curbing 
of cursing and swearing and sinful speech, the increase 
of reception of Holy Communion (at least monthly, but 
more frequently, if possible) and the increase of charity 
in family living. 

In some particular places, the society may have other 
objectives, such as the promotion of retreats, family Holy 
Communion, youth programs, study clubs, lecture bureaus, 
etc. 

The Holy Name Society has been granted a great 
number of spiritual favors. Masses are offered for deceased 
members. A plenary indulgence is granted to a new mem- 
ber on the day of his admission, and other indulgences are 
granted for wearing the emblem, marching in processions, 
etc* 

The Society is canonically erected in the individual 
parishes 5 it has minimum dues and meets usually at a 
broJdmst meeting once a month. In some dioceses, the 
parish societies are united into a diocesan union for greater 
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Confraternity of Christian Doctrine 

Impetus to this great work of instruction was given by 
St. Pius X, who proclaimed its objective in his encyc!ical 3 
Acerbo Nimis y issued in 1905. In the direct promotion of 
the teaching of the principles and truths of Christian 
doctrine, he declared: "In each parish the Confraternity 
of Christian Doctrine is to be canonically instituted," 

The objective of this confraternity is to spread the 
knowledge and practice of the faith by the following 
means: 

"Religious training of Catholic elementary school 
children not attending Catholic schools, by instruction 
classes during the school year and in vacation schools; 
religious instruction of Catholic youth of high school age 
not attending Catholic schools,, in study clubs and by other 
methods; in religious discussion clubs for adult groups; 
religious education of children by parents in the home, 
and instruction of non-Catholics in the teachings and prac- 
tices of the Catholic faith." 

The members of the Confraternity are lay perwras, 
and their success in attaining objectives is marked by the 
quality and the number of the moaafeership* There are both 
personal and spiritual rewards for raembcrB who mrc en- 
rolled tinder the following divisions: ^Teachers who 
priests and sisters in catechetical work, etjpecimlly in re- 
ligious vacation schools and in instruction classes j fishers 
(home visitors) > who make systowitic surreys of pariah, 

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encourage children to attend instruction classes and adults 
to join discussion clubs, and promote subscription to the 
diocesan paper j helpers, who provide facilities for classes 
and clubs, transport teachers and pupils, assist with prepa- 
ration of material for religious vacation schools and in- 
struction classes; discussion club leaders who conduct or 
attend religious discussion clubs for adults and secular high 
school students; parent-educators who co-operate with 
Parent-Educator programs of the Confraternity; and 
apostles of good will who assist in the program for non- 
Catholics." 

In most dioceses, any apostolic-minded layman who 
wishes to spread the kingdom of God and increase his own 
knowledge may join a training program of the Confrater- 
nity, The Confraternity's membership is not limited to 
teachers, but is open to everyone of high-school education 
and over. 

The purpose of discussion clubs (small, informal 
groups, eight to twelve persons) is to increase the religious 
knowledge of the members and to train leaders not only in 
the field of education but also in youth-guidance and other 
aspects of Catholic Action. 

The program of the Confraternity of Christian Doc- 
trine is one of the highest-developed in the field of Catho- 
lic Action. It is under the supervision of the chairman 
of the Episcopal Committee of the Confraternity of 
Christian Doctrine* In each diocese there is a priest ap- 
pointed by the ordinary as the spiritual director of the 
Confraternity. Information may be obtained from him, 

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from the pastor of the parish or directly from the Center 
of Confraternity Publications, 508 Marshall^ Paterson 3, 
New Jersey. 

Secular Institutions 

These are groups particularly dedicated to personal 
spiritual perfection. They were established by Pope Pius 
XII, providing for groups of men and women who live 
and work in the world but wish to live a consecrated life 
approaching the religious life, As such, as long as they 
conform to the established rules, they enjoy recognition 
in canon law. 

A group which is gradually growing in the United 
States, is known as Opus D^i, or the Sacerdotal Society of 
the Holy Cross and the Work of God, Its members are of 
both sexes, of all walks of life, who consecrate their lives 
to God through the taking of private vows of poverty, 
chastity, and obedience. These vows are to be kept aocord- 
ing to their state of life, whether married or not, in keeping 
with their position. Thus, chastity for the married it the 
chastity which characterizes the marriage in Christ as it 
would be practiced ideally, yet it docs IK* deny marital 
relations* Poverty is not total denial, but one of a perfection 
of almsgiving. The specific purpose is the scnctificttioii 
of the members^ the spread of the kingdom 0f God among 
their contacts in profi^sioiial mud private life* The gen- 
eral objectives are the perfection of all dbaaes of sudkty 
and private work of the aportolate in 

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National Catholic Welfare Conference 

The National Catholic Welfare Conference (abbre- 
viated N.C.W.C.) is a central agency for organizing and 
co-ordinating the efforts of Catholics in the United States 
for social work and the national activities of Catholics. 
It was originally established in September, 1919, under 
the title of "National Catholic War Council," and as such 
was one of the seven welfare agencies recognized by the 
United States government during the first World War. 
Its title was changed to National Catholic Welfare Con- 
ference in 1 922, 

The N.C.W.C. is an organization of the Catholic hier- 
archy of the United States, founded upon the intentions as 
set forth in the papal brief, Communes, issued by His 
Holiness, Pope Benedict XV in April, 1919, and those 
later declared in a letter of Pope Pius XI in August, 1927. 
As an association of Catholic bishops it is voluntary, and 
as such it is primarily an advisory body, having no juris- 
dictional powers. As an advisory group, it proposes recom- 
mendations through its various departments while main- 
taining its headquarters as a service center. 

The purpose of the National Catholic Welfare Con- 
ference is to unite, co-ordinate, and nationally organize 
the efforts of all Catholic faithful of the United States 
in the fields of education, the press, immigration, social 
action, legislation, youth, and organizations of the laity. 
The Conference functions through the immediate leader- 

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ship of an administrative board. This board is made up of 
ten archbishops and bishops elected at the annual meeting 
of the hierarchy (usually held each year in Washington, 
D.C,, during November), All cardinals of the United 
States are ex officio members of the board. Each elected 
member of the administrative board is given specific duties 
as head of one of the departments: the chairman of the 
board is head of the executive department j one bishop 
becomes treasurer and another secretary; the other seven 
head the departments of: education, the press, immigration, 
social action, legal, youth, and lay organizations. Each of 
the heads of departments has final responsibility for actions 
of his department, while all official actions of the Con- 
ference are dependent upon the joint approval of the 
administrative board. 

Besides these eight departments, the Conference, 
under the administrative beard, operates through the 
Catholic Relief Services N.CW.C, the National Catho- 
lic Community Service and, at present, fourteen special 
episcopal ccwnainittees. These conamittees ane: 

American Board of Catholic Missions 
Committee on the Propagation of the Faith 
Committee on the Confraternity of Christian Baettiiie 
Governing Committee for Catholic Relief Semees 
Committee to Complete the Shrine of the Immaculate 

Conception 

Ccminittee for Polish Relief 
Committee for the Spani$lpealdbg 
Welfare and ReEef Committee 

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CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 
Committee for the Montczuma Seminary 
Committee on Motion Pictures 
Committee on the National Organization for Decent 

Literature 
Pontifical Committee for the North American College 

in Rome 

Special Committee to Promote the Pope's Peace Plan 
Committee for Catholic Migrants 

In each diocese, organizations, by permission of and 
authorized by the ordinary of the diocese, may affiliate 
with the National Catholic Welfare Conference, and as 
such arc serviced by the Conference. However, these so 
affiliated remain subject to the direction of the bishop of 
the diocese. 

It is the purpose of each department of the Conference 
to be of special service within the limits of its function. 
Thus, for example, the press department provides the 
Catholic press, radio and television in the United States 
and other countries with news, editorial, feature and picture 
services, all of which services are released under the ab- 
breviated designation: NC. 

While all departments, committees, and services of the 
National Catholic Welfare Conference are directly or in- 
directly of concern to the laity, the following, briefly 
indicated here, perhaps touch them in greater numbers. 
(More detailed information may be obtained from the 
headquarters of the Conference; 1312 Massachusetts Ave., 
N.W., Washington, 5, D.C) 

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1. The N.C.C.Y. i.e., National Council of Catholic 
Youth is the general organization under the Youth Depart- 
ment which promotes diocesan, collegiate and national 
youth organizations. It functions in the diocese under the 
appointed diocesan youth director. Its purpose in general 
is: to consolidate all Catholic youth groups under the direc- 
tion of the hierarchy 5 to gather- information on youth 
activities and problems j to help Catholic youth groups 
with problems of national importance} to train Catholic 
youth leaders j and to represent such youth groups both 
in the United States and internationally. 

2. The N.C.C.M., i.e., National Council of CatJbolk 
Men is made up of affiliated lay organizations of Catholic 
men, whether these be spiritual, fraternal or social groups, 
Chiefly, its purposes are: to federate all groups of Catholic 
men in a common agency; to serve as an information tad 
service link between the N.C.W.C and such groups; to 
bring central information to such groups; to promote co- 
operation in activities for the welfare of the Church; to 
aid such groups to function more effectively in their 
particular localities; to co-operate m pitOTKteig the aims 
of all approved movements in the interest of the Church 
and society in general; to participate in national and inter* 
national movements involving moral questions; to briny 
about a better appreciation of Catholic principles tnd idbils 
in the educational, social and civic life of the 

3. The N.C.CW,, Le., National Council 
Women is a feieraticm of Catbolk women's OTgaa 



of the United States. It fuBCtk^s thunigfe t nwribar of 

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national committees which are program committees on the 
diocesan or parish levels. These interests extend to Catholic 
charities; civil defense; the Confraternity of Christian 
Doctrine; family and parent education} home and school 
associations; immigration; international relations; Inter- 
American relations; legislation; libraries; literature; or- 
ganization and development; rural life; social action; 
spiritual development; study clubs; war relief and youth. 
It has international affiliations with the World Union of 
Catholic Women's Organizations and the Inter-American 
Social Action Confederation. 

4. The N.C.CN., i.e., National Council of Catholic 
Nurses was organized under the direction of the depart- 
ment of lay organizations of the N.C.W.C. It is affiliated 
with the Conference on the diocesan level. Its professional 
activities are directed by the Bureau of Health and Hos- 
pitals, N.C.W.C 

5. The Catholic Family Life Movement was organ- 
ized under the Social Action department of the N.CW.C. 
as a unit called the "Family Life Bureau." Its purpose is 
the promotion of the welfare of the family, to encourage 
by every means possible the building of wholesome and 
successful homes. It functions in the diocese under the 
appointed Diocesan Family Life Director. Its purpose is 
practical and spiritual, natural and supernatural* In scope, 
it embraces the work of instruction before marriage and 
of cmimelmg after marriage. (The emphasis in many dio- 
ceses 00 the Cana Conference movement has been ab- 
sorbed in the Family Life Movement.) 



CATHOLIC ORGANIZATIONS 

The Family Life Movement has a diversified program 
directed to the apostolate of the family. Broadly, it intends 
the renewal of family consciousness in keeping with the 
teachings of the encyclical of Pope Pius XI on "Christian 
Marriage." The apostolate of the family has varied ac- 
tivities but they may be grouped under these four heads: 
L The encouragement of religious family practices. 2. The 
dissemination of correct ideas and ideals regarding mar- 
riage and family. 3, The promotion of inspirational 
activities in the family field. 4. The urging of the cor- 
rection of economic and moral evils harmful to family life. 

Under each of these, a great number of special activi- 
ties is promoted for the advance of the family, not only 
as the basic social unit but as the spiritual center of the 
lives of Catholics. Those persons contemplating marriage 
or interested in making their marriage a spiritual success 
should follow the program established in their diocese 
under the Family Life Director. 



Other Organizations and Societies 

THE SOCIETY OF ST. VINCENT DE PAUU This is a pious 
association of men. It is independent of Church authority 
regarding its existence, constitution, statutes, orgimizatloii^ 
activity and internal government. 

The work of the society is primarily that of social 
charity, but this is based upon a spiritual program for the 
individual member. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

The society was founded by Frederick Ozanam in 
France, in 1833. St. Vincent de Paul, the apostle of char- 
ity, was chosen as its patron. Active membership is limited 
to practical Catholic men over 18 years of age. Each 
member must attend at least three weekly meetings of the 
Conference (a unit of the society) each month, and make 
a weekly visit to the poor family or families assigned to 
him. This visit is usually made by two men working to- 
gether. Honorary membership may be held by men who 
do not actively take part in the works of the society but 
contribute a fixed sum of money each year. 

The purposes of the society are chiefly the corporal 
and spiritual works of mercy, including spiritual and ma- 
terial comfort for inmates of hospitals and institutions, 
care of poor and neglected children, religious instruction 
of public school children, arranging vacations in the 
country for the underprivileged, purchase of school books 
for poor children who attend parochial schools, provid- 
ing Christian burial for the poor and friendless, supply- 
ing food and shelter for homeless transients, giving legal 
tdvice to the poor, and conducting homos for the aged. 

The Conference, a unit of the St, Vincent de Paul 
Society, is based upon parish lines. In places where there 
are three or more conferences, a particular Council is 
formed (which is t representative group) and it co- 
ordinates the activities of til conferences. 

THE NATIONAL CATHOLIC RURAL LIFE MOVEMENT, 
Membership in this movement is not limited to farmers 

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or those living in the country. Any interested Catholic 
may join. 

Founded in 1922, this movement has for its purpose 
the strengthening of Catholicism in rural areas and pro- 
moting the welfare of rural populations. It seeks to care 
for underprivileged Catholics who live on farms, to help 
Catholics retain their farm lands, to settle Catholics who 
wish to live on the land, and to spread Catholic Action 
to non-Catholics living in rural areas. It is active in pro- 
moting agriculture, homestead living, subsistence acreage, 
the development of strong family life upon the land, soil 
reforms, conservation measures, and the co-operative move- 
ment. Its patron is St. Isidore, the patron of farmers. 
In many dioceses the movement operates under a priest- 
director, appointed by the diocese. 

THE ASSOCIATION OF CATHOLIC TRADE UNIONISTS, 
Known familiarly as ACTU, this group was founded in 
1937 by laymen in New York. It aims to spread the 
knowledge and practice of Christian principles ift indus- 
trial and business life. It is based on the principles of labor 
as outlined in the papal social encyclicals. Stress is placed 
upon the application of these principles to effect o-0jper- 
ation between labor and management- ACTU also pro- 
motes the extoa^icm of trade iiaioatsm, fafcn ediictitiaml 
programs for labor rae% ooadiiets study |pxmp mud pro- 
vides legal aid for workers. The tsicciaticwi is ttpnsMxtocA 
in industrial coiDm in nine State* In the United States. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

THE SERRA CLUBS. These are luncheon clubs made up of 
Catholic professional and business men, who hear a lecture 
at each weekly club meeting. The aim of the groups is to 
foster vocations to the Catholic priesthood and to support 



seminaries. 



THE KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS, The Knights of Columbus 
form a fraternal benefit society which is chartered by the 
State of Connecticut, Membership is for Catholic men, 
cleric and lay. The purpose of the society is to give finan- 
cial aid to its members and their beneficiaries, to aid sick 
and disabled members, to promote social and intellectual 
pursuits among members, and promote and conduct educa- 
tional, charitable, religious, social and relief work. The 
society seeks to foster the religious life of the members 
under the bonds of unity, fraternity, charity and patriotism. 
It works for youth guidance, scholarships, education for 
conversion through the press, study clubs, retreats, religious 
lectures, public Good Friday observance, Catholic charity 
drives, the Legion of Decency, the Organization for De- 
cent Literature, and the Catholic Press. In America, the 
Knights have been active in establishing programs against 
subversive activities and in support of the foundations of 
true democracy. 

CATHOLIC ACTIVITIES m GENERAL, The Catholic Church 
necognizes that man is a social being and she contributes 
to unite all of the faithful in spiritual and soda! activities. 
This provides not only for the mteraificatiofi of the social 

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life in an atmosphere of true religion, but gives to every* 
one the opportunity individually to carry out the mandate 
of Christ to bring the gospel to everyone. The Church 
leaves to the individual the expression of his finest capa- 
bilities and his highest goals. It encourages each one to 
perfect himself, and to achieve the betterment of all 
society, that each may enjoy the personal fulfillment 
which God intended in his creation. 




IS? 



Miscellany 



Symbols 



WHILE we have covered the general aspects of 
Catholic living, there are added areas which, 
though common to many, are of special interest. 

The Church has been traditionally interested in art 
and the expression of profound Catholic truths in a simple 
way, One of the first instances of this was the development 
of the use of symbols in the Church. Symbols are objects 
or designs, actual or imagined, which both hide and make 
apparent truths. Originally, Church symbols were used 
only to convey to the early Christian truths which they 
could not outwardly portray. Outward expression would 
bring ridicule of the truths and possible death to them- 
selves. Later, the symbols were continued as simple 
and direct ways of presenting Christian truths. These con- 
tinue in the Church to the present day; they are decorative 
and instructive presentations of truths, and rich in meaning. 

The symbols of the Church are concerned with a wide 
variety of truths. Symbols use objects of nature (e.g., 
vine, flowers, animals, etc.), words or initial letters (e.g., 
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the Church (e.g., the sea shell as a symbol of baptism 
since it was first used to pour the water; also the use of 
fire, candles, etc.), and any combination of these (e.g., the 
fish symbol which is a natural object, and also the Greek 
letters for the word fish, the initials of the Greek words 
for "Jesus Christ, Son of God, Savior"). 

While the Church recognizes symbols as aids in 
teaching, she insists that they be proper, executed with 
reverence, and bring no departure from the essential truths 
of faith. 

Symbols commonly used and frequently seen in Catho- 
lic churches are the shell and dish for baptism, the flaming 
sword for confirmation, the double lamps or rings for 
matrimony, the wheat and grapes for the Holy Eucharist, 
the chalice and stole for holy orders, the keys for penance, 
a vial of oil for extreme unction. (There are many other 
variations in the symbolic representation of the seven 
sacraments.) 

Besides the truths of religion, symbols represent per- 
sons, as Christ, the Blessed Virgin Mary, or the saints. 
The Church herself is often portrayed in the symbol of 
a ship. 

It is not proper to design or display symbols in a man- 
ner that would bring ridicule upon what they represent. 




CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

Relics 

Relics arc portions of the bodies of saints, personal 
items, or something connected with the life of the saint. 
Relics are venerated, not because of the items themselves 
but because of the saint's body being a temple of the Holy 
Spirit. Veneration is directed to the saint represented to 
seek his intercession. 

Relics are classified according to their source and are 
ranked accordingly. Thus a portion of a saints body, as 
a bit of bone, etc., would be a relic of the first class. 
An object closely associated with the saint, as a part of 
his clothing, habit, etc., would be of the second class. Other 
relics would be bits of ground from the grave or things 
less closely associated with the saint. Some also classify as 
relics various objects which have been touched to the dead 
body of a saint or to the tomb, etc. The genuineness of 
first and second class relics should be authenticated by 
document. It is doubtful whether documents could be ob- 
tained that would wholly authenticate other types of relics. 

The cult of relics is quite legitimate. However, relics 
may not be exposed for public veneration without approval 
of the local ordinary. Relics should be kept in some con- 
tainer which encloses them completely. This is known as 
a reliquary* A first class relic, if it is a notable portion of 
the saint's body, should not be kept in a private home. 

It is forbidden to buy or sell relics, for it is an act of 
simony. The making of false relics, and the selling or dis- 

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tributing of them is punishable by excommunication. It is 
forbidden by the Council of Trent for any of the faithful 
to say that veneration may not be given to relics, 

The Christmas Crib 

A representation of the stable of Bethlehem with 
statues of the Christ Child, the Blessed Mother, and St. 
Joseph, has become a familiar part of Christmas decora- 
tions in Catholic churches and homes. It is a means of 
giving evidence of the truth of the Incarnation. 

The commendable practice of setting up Christmas 
cribs, which dates back to the thirteenth century, is be- 
coming a mark of devotion in the Catholic home during 
the Christmas season. These representations should be 
characterized by dignity, if not true artistic excellence. 

Catholic Reverence and Courtesy 

The faithful, recognizing the divine presence of 
Christ in the Blessed Sacrament, seek to offer reverence 
by their conduct in the church. It is thus that Catholics 
passing a church which they know as a place of Catholic 
worship, tip their hats, bow their heads, or make the Sign 
of the Cross. When doing so, some brief aspiration may 
be said in honor of the Blessed Sacrament* In respect and 
reverence, within the church one should no* talk unless 
necessary. This will avoid disturbing others it their 
prayers. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

This same reverence shown toward the Blessed Sac- 
rament is due also to the bishops, priests and others who 
serve Christ more intimately (See Terms of Address). 
This regard is one given to all members of the clergy. 

1 . The Holy Father is held in highest esteem. He is 
spoken of as His Holiness, the Bishop of Rome, the Holy 
Father, the Sovereign Pontiff, the Vicar of Christ. In this 
connection it may be well to note that visitors to Rome, 
who wish to be in an audience with the Holy Father, 
should consult their parish priest before embarking, so 
that he may procure the necessary commendation and the 
required instructions for the proper attire, etc. This is 
done in recognition of the busy schedule of the Sovereign 
Pontiff, and also because formality demands the consider- 
ation given in making a court appearance. 

2. All who meet a bishop, be he cardinal or archbishop, 
may kiss the episcopal ring (worn on the right hand). The 
proper practice is as follows: when meeting the ordinary 
(the bishop of the diocese but not auxiliary or coadjutor 
bishop) within one's own diocese, one genuflects, touching 
the lejt knee to the ground while kissing the episcopal 
ring. 

While the left-knee genuflection is by custom and by 
formal acceptance the proper manner for this salutation, 
it is practical for one to touch the right knee to the floor, 
lest one feel awkward and ui>easy because of being off 
balance. The reason for the use of 4he left knee in making 
the act of obeisance is that the right is used in genuflection 
before our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament, 

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When meeting outside one's diocese, or within one's 
diocese, a bishop other than one's own ordinary, one merely 
bows and kisses the ring. It is thus an act of reverence to 
Christ whom the bishop serves and an act showing one's 
filial obedience to the bishop. The following indulgences 
are granted: 

a) "The faithful who devoutly kiss the ring of the 
Sovereign Pontiff are granted: An indulgence of 300 days. 

b) "Of a cardinal: An indulgence of 100 days. 

c) "Of a patriarch, archbishop, bishop, or prefect 
apostolic: An indulgence of 50 days." (S.P. Ap., Dec. 29, 
1934 and Nov. 21, 1945) 

3. Catholics who meet a priest on the street should tip 
their hats. This they do, not to the person, but to the Son of 
God whom the priest serves. 

A Catholic should speak with regard of all priests, 
religious, and clerics, also of all nuns and sisters, lest they 
detract from the office of the person. It is gravely sinful 
to strike, physically, the person of a priest, sister, or bishop. 
(This is "sinful striking" out of anger, malice, etc., and 
is under censure of excommunication reserved to the or- 
dinary. Such an offense against a bishop is under the same 
penalty, but reserved to Rome. This censure, however, does 
not include the just criticism of priests or others, if their 
actions are in serious error.) 




CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

The Catholic Funeral 

The term "ecclesiastical burial" includes the transfer 
of the body of a deceased member of the faithful from 
the house (or funeral parlor) to the church, the cere- 
monies in the church, and interment in blessed ground. The 
parish pastor will determine those to whom Christian 
burial is to be forbidden* 

Funeral fees are determined by the local ordinary. The 
offering properly belongs to the pastor of the deceased 
person, even if the person is buried from another church, 
but this is usually a matter of local legislation. 

When the faithful visit a funeral parlor, it is proper 
to place at the bier (usually a place is designated) or give 
to one of the survivors, a card stating a Mass intention 
(or intentions) for the repose of the soul of the deceased. 
This card should be made out expressing the number of 
Masses, the name of the donor, and if possible the name 
of the priest who will offer the Mass. It is not proper 
simply to place money in the envelope. 




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In Conclusion 



FROM these pages, presenting an outline of the 
Church's teachings and functions, and indicating 
some of the areas of co-operation, it may be learned 
that the Church is a kind and loving director of souls. Her 
only interest is the sanctification of the faithful. Her 
love of order in functioning, in carrying out the command 
of her divine Founder, is not one of tyranny over souls. 
Rather, the Church strives to operate in a benign atmos- 
phere. She seeks to give each member a complete oppor- 
tunity to function in one or many waysj but she holds 
her ministry of sacraments, her concern for teaching, and 
her governing of all as a sacred trust. 

At the same time, on the part of the faithful, there 
is witnessed a new possibility of co-operation. This is not 
alone in accepting the teaching of the Church, receiving 
her ministry? but is to be found in filial obedience a 
loving participation in what the Church was divinely es- 
tablished to fulfill. In addition, there is the charity of 
membership not a charity of giving, but of receiving. If is 
this charity which prompts each of the faithful to take 
special joy in the life of the Church and in accepting 
what the Church offers as their personal aid in accom- 
plishing their own salvation* 

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IN CONCLUSION 

In learning of the Church, in knowing and under- 
standing her singular objective among her many necessary 
operations^ we each come to an appreciation of the depth 
of faith and its glory. We learn the important lesson of 
why the Church is "all things to all men." We learn that 
the Churches "all" is intended for each and everyone 
individually. We learn to be of the Church, and in the 
Church, and through the Church in our progress toward 
sanctity. We learn to think with the Church, and in so 
thinking our thoughts and actions are directed to God as 
our eternal end. 




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DICTIONARY IN BRIEF 

The following brief definitions and pronunciations of 
words frequently used by Catholics are intended to form a 
basis of understanding. Knowing the right words and their 
meaning is an aid to assurance in expressing one's faith. It 
is hoped that this abridged Dictionary* will prove an in- 
troduction to the vast treasure of knowledge which is open 
to all the Catholic faithful and everyone. 



Ablution (obJu'shtra), n.; L. Fr. 
The wine and water with which 
the celebrating priest washes re- 
maining particles of the com- 
munion host from his thumb and 
index finger after the Commun- 
ion in the Mass. In the Mass, the 
washing and consuming by the 
priest of this wine and water. 
Also the process of purifying the 
chalice during Mass. 

Absolution (ab'so-lu'shtin), n.; L 
(1) The remission of sin by an 
authorized priest in the sacra- 
ment of penance; the judicial act 
of forgiving; sacramental forgive- 

o o o 

ness. Conditional absolution is 
that given when the sacrament is 
in danger of nullity or when, if 
it is not given or is defiled, the 
penitent might suffer spiritual 
loss. General absolution is that 



given to a group 

when private coafessaoa is 



possible. Those so absolved are 
obliged to mention their sins 
when they next have an oppor- 
tunity to go to confession. (2) Ab- 
solution from censures is the re- 
moval of penalties imposed by 
the Church; it grants reconcilia- 
tion with the Church. (3) Abso- 
lution for the dead is that cere- 
mony performed over the body 
of tbe dead after a requiem Mass, 
and in which tibe priest implores 
the remission, indirectly, of the 
penalties of sin* If the body is not 
present, the service is held over 
the catafalque. (4) Absolutions 
in the breviary are those short 
petition prayers said before the 
lessons in matins* 

Abstinence (ab'sti-nens), a.; L*, 
S^ Fast and Abstinence, p. 34 ff . 

Acolyte (ak*64it), a; Gr n L, An 
escort; an attendant. His office fa 
that of assisting tibe priest at 



*Frocn CONCISE CATHOLIC picnoMAny by Retort C Brodorkk, 
1944 by Catechetical Guild Educational Society. 

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Mass, erf performing the duties 
of Mass-server. (1) The name 
given to the highest of the four 
minor orders; a sacramental, (2) 
A Mass-server or assistant of a 
priest at any ritualistic ceremony. 

Acts (ate), n. pi.; L-> Fr. (1) The 
proceedings and their recording 
in a court of justice. (2) *Aets 
of the Martyrs, accounts of their 
confessions of faith and death. 
(3) The "Acts of the Apostles'" 
which is the section of Sacred 
Scripture wherein their activities 
are recorded. (4) Prayers by 
which one declares his faith in 
God, hope in Him, charity or love 
of Him, and sorrow for sin be- 
cause of offending Him. 

Adoration (H'6*a r shi*n), n.; L. 
( 1 ) Acts of divine worship di- 
rected to God; (2) Perpetual 
Continuous exposition of the 
Blessed Sacrament, day and 
night, during which time adorers 
take turns in off ering prayers and 
devotion, (3) Adoration of the 
Cross: the ceremony of Good 
Friday, so called by long use, 
which is an act of venerating the 
crucifix. 

Advent (icfv^at), &.; L. The time 
of preparation for the Feast erf 
the Incarnation, which in the 
Church caleixlar consists of three 
or four weeks between Advent 
Sunday, the Sunday nearest the 
Fe^st of St Andrew, and Christ- 
mas Eve. The first liturgical sea* 
son of the Church calendar. The 



riod of spiritual preparation 
'or Christmas. 

Agnus Dei (ag f nus de'i), n.; L. (1) 
The prayer in the Mass, shortly 
before the Communion, begin- 
ning with these words, in Eng- 
lish, "Lamb of God." (2) Name 
given to disks of wax on which 
is impressed the figure of a 
lamb and which are blessed at 
regular seasons by the pope; they 
may be oblong, round or oval in 
shape and vary in size; the fig- 
ure of the lamb usually has a 
banner or cross accompanying it. 

Alb (Mb), n.; L. The white, full 
length, linen vestment with 
sleeves worn over the amice by 
the priest in celebrating Mass, It 
is bound close to the body by the 
cincture. 

Alleluia (il'4-lu'ya), n,, inter].; 
Gr. ? L, Word used in the liturgy 
of the Church as a joyful prayer 
of praise, meaning "praise the 
Lord." 

Allocation (il'6-ku'shim), n.; L, A 
pronouncement on an important 
matter of the moment, made by 
the pope to the cardinals gath- 
ered m secret consistory; a 
p&pal annouacement of policy 
either of ecclesiastical or civil af- 
fairs. 

AB Salute A*S. L. The feast cele- 
brated OQ the first of November 
commemorating aH the saints erf 
the Church, whether canonized 
or 



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All Souls A.S. The feast cele- 
brated on the second of Novem- 
ber in solemn commemoration of 
and as prayer for the souls in 
Purgatory. The priest is permit- 
ted to celebrate three Masses on 
this day. 

Altar (61'ter), n.; L., A.S. See The 
House of God. p. 143 ff. 

Altar breads (61'ter bredz), n. pi; 
L., A. S. Round wafers baked of 
fine, wheaten, unleavened flour 
and used in the Consecration at 
Mass. There are two sizes, the 
smaller for the Communion of 
the faithful, the larger for the 
priest's Communion of the Mass 
and for exposition. Also called 
hosts. 

Altar cards (61'tgr kardz), n. pi.; 
L., Fr. The three cards placed at 
the center and two sides of the 
altar table and on which are 
printed some parts of the Mass 
which are constant, or contained 
in the ordinary of tibe Mass. 

Altar cloths (61'tgr Moths), n. pi; 
L., A, S. Three cloths, always of 
linen, required by the rubrics of 
Mass, which are spread over the 
top of the altar and are specially 
blessed for use on the altar. 

Acoeo (a'mea'), interj.; Heb. A 
word meaning "truly," ^certain- 
ly," "so be it* When said at the 
end of a Creed, it means assent; 
at the eixl of a prayer, it signi- 
fies desire to obtain the petition. 
Otherwise, the word is raetrely to 
mark tibe ending of a statement. 



Amice (amis), n.; O.E. An ob- 
long white linen cloth worn on 
the shoulders of the priest and 
fastened around the waist by 
ribbons attached to two corners. 
The first garment in the vesting 
of a priest for celebrating Mass, 
worn beneath the alb. 

Angel (an'fel), n.; G., L. A spirit- 
ual being created by God supe- 
rior in nature to man. Literally 
means "messenger,** one sent. A 
pure spirit, a being that cannot 
be perceived by the senses be- 
cause it has no body but which 
is a person since it possesses in- 
tellect and free will. Angels are 
innumerable in number. There 
are nine orders, or classifications, 
three in each hierarchy: (1) 
Seraphim, Cherubim, Thrones; 
(2) DomiBatioBS, Principalities, 
Powers; (3) Virtues, Archangels, 
Angels. This enumeration is not 
an article of faith. 



Angelas (an f j#4s), n.; L. Tne de- 
votion honoring the Incarnation 
and venerating the Blessed Vir- 
gin at morning (6 o'clock), noon, 
and evening (6 o'clock) by flie 
recitation of three Hail Marys, 
with words spoken by the Bless- 
ed Virgin at the Annunciation, 
ami a final prayer. Ate refers to 
the angekis bell which is rung at 
the three times of the day. 

Amuknent (o-nuTment), n.; L. 
(I) Declaration of the invaHdity 
of a marriage by ci^l or ecclesi- 
astical courts. See Matrixnony, 
p. 75 ff . (2^-<rf a TOW, lii wtfc- 



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drawal or suspension of the ob- 
ligation by a lawful superior. 

Ante pendi urn (in^&pOT'di-tmi), 
n.; L. The cloth hanging down 
in front of the altar from the 
front edge of the table to the 
floor, varying in color with the 
liturgical season or the particu- 
lar Mass being celebrated. Re- 
quired by rubrics when the altar 
is not of stone, A frontal. 



(&a't!.fd*i), n.; Gr.; L, 
(1) Words or verses prefixed to 
and following a psalm or psalms 
containing thoughts on the mys- 
tery considered by the Church 
in the divine office. (2) In the 
Mass, the prayers of the Introit, 
Offertory, and Communion are 
called antiphons. 

Apocalypse (dp6k'a4lps}, n,; Gr., 
L, The name applied to the last 
book of the New Testament writ- 
ten by St. John the Evangelist 
and containing his revelation 
concerning the future of the 
Churdhu 

Apocrypha (4-pdk f ri*ffl), n, pL; 
Gr. f L- (1) Spurious scriptural 
bodb denoted by the Fathers of 
the Church as forgeries of here- 
tics, {) Bodb declared by St. 
Jerome to be writings not in the 
recognized canon of Scripture. 
(3) Writings held by seme to be 
inspired, bat rejected by the 
ChmtAi, The Protestant Apocry- 
pha differs from that of the 
Cfaurck 



Apologetics (o-pdrd-jet'lks}, n. pi.; 
Gr. The science of defending 
and explaining the Christian re- 
ligion and in particular Catholic 
doctrine. 

Apostasy (d-pds'ta-si), n.; Gr., L. 
Defection from God through en- 
tire rejection of either one or 
more of the following after it had 
been previously accepted: (1) 
the Christian faith; (2) ecclesi- 
astical obedience; (3) the re- 
ligious or clerical state. 

Apostle (d-nds"!), n.; Gr., L. (1) 
One "sent or "commissioned." 
Primarily one of the twelve apos- 
tles of Christ, namely, Saints 
Peter, John, James the son of 
Zebedee, Matthew, Jude, Thom- 
as, Philip, Bartholomew, James 
the son of Alpheus, Andrew, Sim- 
on the Cananean, Mathias, later 
chosen to replace Judas, and 
later St Paul. (2) The name 
often given to the first mission- 
ary to a country, 

Apasdes* Greed (fared), n.; Gr., L. 
A prayer embodying the funda- 
mental Christian teachings and 
a profession of belief in them; 
a liturgical prayer of the Catho- 
lic beliefs of faith. It is called 
Apostles* because it embodies a 
summary of apostolic teachings. 

Apostolicity (apos't6-Ks'-M3), EU, 
Gr., L. That one of the four marks 
of the Catholic Church by which 
it &fcems from thse apostles in its 
doctrine, authority, and organi- 
zation. 



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Archbishop (archTsish'wp), n.; 
Gr., L. The bishop of an arch- 
diocese who has limited author- 
ity over the other bishops of his 
province. As head of an eccles- 
iastical province the archbishop 
is called the metropolitan, the 
other bishops are called suffra- 
gans. The title archbishop is 
sometimes given honoris causa to 
the bishop of an archdiocese 
which has no suffragan sees, 

Archconfratemity (archTcon'fra- 
tur'nf-tl), n.; Gr., L. See Catholic 
Organizations, p. 173 ff. 

Archdiocese (arch'dl'6-ses), B.; 
Gr., L. A diocese or jurisdiction 
of an archbishop; usually it is the 
metropolitan see of an ecclesias- 
tical province, (cf. Archbishop.) 

Ascension (Feast of) (a-sen'sMn), 
n.; L. The commemoration of our 
Lord's rising into heaven forty 
days after His Resurrection on 
Easter. It falls upon a Thursday. 

Ash Wednesday (ash), a,; 1*, 
Ger., A. S. The first day of the 
Lenten fast. It derives its name 
from the custom of placing bless- 
ed ashes of burnt palms on the 
foreheads of the faithful in the 



form of a cross to remind them 
of death and the necessity of 
penance. 

Asperges (as-pur'jez), n.; Gr., L. 
(1) The ceremony of sprinkling 
the altar, clergy, and people with 
holy water, performed by the 
celebrant before the principal 
Mass. This is permitted only on 
Sundays. (2) The first word of 
the psalm verse recited by the 
celebrant and choir at this cere- 
mony. 

Aspargfll (&j'per-jH), BU; L. Latin: 
aspergtilum. An instrument for 
sprinkling holy water; usually a 
rod with a perforated metal bulb 
at the end from which holy water 
is shaken. 

Aspersory (as'p&r-so'ri), B-; L, 
Latin: a&persorium. A portable 
vessel to hold holy water aad 
into which the aspergill is dipped, 

Assumption (a-sump'shtin), n.; L. 
The taking up of the body of 
the Blessed Virgin into heaves. 
She was thereby preserved from 
bodily corruption after hear death. 
The feast is celebrated on Au- 
gust IS and is a hofyday of obli- 
gation. (Dogma: No. 1, 1950) 




CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 



B 



Banns (him), n. pi.; L, See Mat- 
rimony, p. 79, 

Baptism {bap'tiz'mX a.; Gr., L. 

(1) See The Sacraments, p. 43 f. 

(2) Ceremonies of blessing church 
bells or ships were formerly 
called ""baptisms.** 

Baptistery '{bap'tist-gr-I), n.; Gr. 
L. A small separate building or 
part of the church containing the 
font and set apart as the place 
for the administration of baptism. 

Beatific (vmw) (be'm-tiflk), adj.; 
L. The act of seeing God face to 
face which forms the essential 
happiness of angels and men in 
heaven. This "seeing of God** is 
thitnigh direct knowledge where- 
as the knowledge of Goa on earth 
is merely by reflection through 
created things and revealed im- 
agt-s. 

Beatification (bMtl-fi^a'shtta), 
n,; L. The declaration made by 
Ae Church after due process of 
determining the sanctity of a de- 
ceased person; the process neces- 
sary to tibe declaration by the 
Church that ooe may be publidy 
venerated; a preliminary action 
to actual canonization. It be- 
stows the tide of T>ksssed** on 
the one beatified. 

Beatitudes (the eight) (-tudz), a 
pi; L, The eight blessings spoken 
by our Lord in the Sermon 011 the 



Mount. (Matt. 5:3-10.) They 
are: Blessed are the poor in spir- 
it, for theirs is the kingdom of 
heaven; blessed are the meek, 
for they shall possess the earth; 
blessed are they who mourn, for 
they shall be comforted; blessed 
are they who hunger and thirst 
for justice, for they shall be sat- 
isfied; blessed are the merciful, 
for they shall obtain mercy; bless- 
ed are the pure of heart, for they 
shall see God; blessed are the 
peacemakers, for they shall be 
called the children of God; bless- 
ed are they who suffer persecu- 
tion for justice' sake, for theirs is 
the kingdom of heaven. 

Benediction (of the Blessed Sac- 
rament) (ben'&'dik'shtin), n.; L. 
The service during which the 
sacred host is adored while it is 
exposed in the monstrance or en- 
closed in the ciborium. During 
the service the hyuin O Salutaris 
Hastia or some other hymn is 
sung and the consecrated host is 
iuceosed; a litaay and other 
prayers may foDow; finally the 
Tmtum ergo with its prayer is 
sung and tfcs blessing given with 
the Bkssed Sacrament. The act 
01 Beiiedictioa is the blessing of 
the people with the sacred host 
in tine form of a cross by the 
priest. The host is then removed 
from the mtotistraxjce and re- 
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Bible (bit)!), n.; Gr. Sacred 
Scriptures which have been pro- 
nounced authentic by the infal- 
lible authority of the Church. 
The writings are both of Jewish 
and Christian origin. The Bible 
records the revelation of God to 
man. There are 72 books con- 
tained in the Bible; 45 in the 
Old Testament; 27 in the New 
Testament, The name is taken 
from the Greek and literally 
means "the Book." 

Biretta (bi-ret'a), n,, L., It Also 
berretta. A square cap of cloth 
with three or four leaves or pro- 
jecting corners rising from the 
top. In the center of the crown 
there is a pom-pom or tassel. It 
is worn by priests or other clerics, 
and is found in the following 
colors: navy blue, black, red, or 
purple. 

Bishop (bisk'up), n.; Gr., L. A 
member of the hierarchy of the 
Church. An ecclesiastic who has 
received the highest of the sa- 
cred orders and who has jurisdic- 
tion over a diocese; the ordinary. 
(1) Auxiliary one raised to the 
dignity of the hierarchy and 
named a titular bishop, and 
placed as an assistant to another 
ruling bishop. He does not eajoy 
jurisdiction by reason of his con- 
secration, but receives it from the 
bishop whom he assists in the 
duties of the episcopal office. (2) 
Coadjutor one raised to tbe dig* 
nity of a bishop aad give juris- 
diction in part to gwom the dio- 



cese of a bishop who is partly 
incapacitated. He usually has the 
right of succession. (3) An Ad- 
ministrator--^ bishop given com- 
plete jurisdiction to govern the 
diocese of a bishop who is wholly 
incapacitated. (4) Suffragan a 
diocesan bishop in an ecclesiast- 
ical province of a metropolitan 
who is subject to an archbishop. 
(5) Titular one consecrated to 
a diocese or see which existed at 
one time but which now, because 
the faith has died out in that 
place, no longer exists. 

Blessing (blSslng), n.; AS. A 
prayer asking God's favor upon 
a person or thing. The person 
giving tibe blessing acts in God's 
name. Besides the blessing of 
persons, any place or thing used 
for the good of man may be 
blessed. Blessing does not per- 
manently set aside tfae object 
blessed for religious purposes as 
does a consecration. 

Breviary (bre'vi-^l), n.; L. The 
collection of prescribed prayers 
and readings contained in the di- 
vine office recited by those m 
rnafor orders. It is a solemn form- 
ula of public prayer composed 
of psalms, k$s0B$*from the Old 
and New Testaments, passages 
from doctrinal writings and tibe 
lives of the saints, hymns, and 
special prayers. It is divided in- 
to four parts corimpoiidiiig lo tbe 
seasons of die year. Each day 
has as to office eight parts caBed 
"hours," namely, matins, lauds, 



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prime, tierce, sext, none, vespers, 
and compline. 

BdU (bool), n.; L, An official 
papal document or writing re- 
ceiving its name from the lead 
or gold seat called the bulla, 
bearing a representation of SS. 
Peter and Paul and the name of 
the reigning pontiff, Bulls are of 
strong parchment and are signed 
by the pope and the chief 
members of the papal chancery. 
The bull is more formal than the 
brief and is used for more 
weighty pronouncements of the 



papal chancery. Today they are 
used only for very important 
and solemn occasions. Sometimes 
called a bulla. 



Burse (Mrs), n -; L -> Fr * 
bursa or pera. (1) The square 
case in which the corporal used 
in Mass is carried. It is of the 
same color as the vestments. 
( 2 ) The leather packet in which 
the pyx is carried. (3) An en- 
dowment given to an ecclesias- 
tical institution for the support 
and education of one studying 
for the priesthood. 



Calendar (ecdbsiastical) (kal'fa- 
d$r), n.; L. See The Church 
Calendar, p. 131 ff. 

Calvary (kftl'va-ri), n.; L, (1) The 
small hill to the west of Jerusa- 
lem where Christ was crucified. 
(2) A cross mounted on three 
steps. 

Candlemas (kan'dl-iMs), n.; L., 
A.S. Common name attached to 
the Feast of the Purification of 
tibe Blessed Virgin, Feb. 2, md 
derived from the blessing of 
candles which takes place upon 
this feastday. 



Law (Id), n.; Gr., L,, A.S. 
Tbe name atfedbed to that body 
of rules or laws for the directiofi 
trf all faithful in matters erf faith 
and conduct It is that group erf 
laws prescribed to ChrisriaBS, ie. 



baptized persons, by the au- 
thority of the Church regarding 
faith, morals, and discipline. To- 
day we follow the New Code 
(Codex Juris Canonici) promul- 
gated by Pope Benedict XV on 
May 27, 1917; its binding force 
began in fuU on May 19, 1918. 

Canon (of the Mass), n.; Gr., L. 
The portion of the Mass proper 
beginning after the Sanctus and 
ending just before the Pater 
Nosier, The sacrificial action of 
the Mass. 

Canonization (kan'tm*i-za f shan), 
a.; Gr., L. The decree of judg- 
meot and the declaration ot that 
judgment by the Church, given 
in a papal bull, that a particular 
poraou lived a life of virtue in 
the heroic degree, that the pre- 
scribed number of miracles have 



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been attested and proven, and 
that the person may be univer- 
sally venerated and honored by 
the faithful as a saint. 

Canticle (kan'frkl), n.; L. A 
sacred song or poem found in 
the Bible; e.g., one from the Old 
Testament as recorded in Daniel 
3:52-57; or one from the New 
Testament as found in Luke 1: 
46-55. 

Capital (sins) (kap'Mtfl), n.; L. 
The so-called "deadly sins," sev- 
en in number, called "capital" 
because they are the source of 
most other sins; called "deadly" 
because they easily lead to mor- 
tal sins. They need not be sep- 
arate acts but can exist as habits 
or vices. The seven capital sins 
are: pride, covetousness, lust, an- 
ger, gluttony, envy ? and sloth. 

Cappa Magna (kap'd mag'iMi), n.; 
L. A long vestment with a hood 
lined with silk or fur, according 
to the season, worn by cardinals 
and bishops as a cape. The cap- 
pa magna is of scarlet silk when 
worn by cardinals and of purple 
wool when worn by a bishop. In 
procession the train of the cap- 
pa magna is usually carried by 
pages. 

Cardinal (ka/di-nol), n.; L., It 
See The Church and Her Author- 
ity, p. 9 ff. 

Cardinal (virtues), n. (pi); L., It 
The four great moral virtues of 
prudence, justice, fortitude, and 
temperance, so named because 



of their importance, since all 
other moral virtues are connected 
with one or other of these. 

Cassock (ka/k), n.; It, Fr. A 
tunic-shaped garment reaching 
from the neck to the heels worn 
as an outside garment by priests 
or clerics. In French, a soutane. 

Catacomb (kat'd-kom), n.; L., It. 
An underground place of burial 
of the early Christians which be- 
came a place of refuge during 
the persecutions, and where pub- 
lic services might be held. Cata- 
combs were dug in the tufa 
granolare, a soft stratum of 
earth adaptable to excavation. 
When used in the plural, they 
usually refer to those outside of 
Rome, but there are also cata- 
combs at Syracuse and Palermo, 
and in Tuscany and Etruria. 

Catechetics {kaf&kefiks}, n. pi; 
Gr., L. The science and art of 
instructing the young in Chris- 
tian doctrine; the teaching of 
catechism; instructions given to 
converts. 

Catechetical (kat^-kefl-kil), adj.; 
Gr., L. Pertaining to catecbetks 
or the instruction in Christian 
doctrine; pertaining to the cat- 
echism or tbe work of the cate- 
chist 

Catechumen (kafe-ku'm^n), n.; 
Gr., L. One who is preparing fco 
receive baptism. In the early ages 
of tibe Qiuardh a period of two 
years or more was usually re- 
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considered complete and the sin- 
cerity of the person was proven. 

Cathedral (ka-the'difl), n.; Gr., 
L, The home church of the bishop 
in his diocese; the church in 
which the chair of the bishop is 
located and from which it de- 
rives its name. 



Gatbolk (kath'&llk), adj. and n,; 
Gr,, L. (1) Universal; the word 
was applied from very early ages 
to the true Church and today is 
recognized as the name of the 
Church. (2) A member of the 
Roman Catholic Church. 



Action, n.; Gr., L. The 
acts of the kity in the liturgy, 
prayer* conversion, and work of 
the Catholic hierarchy upon ap- 
proval and under the direction 
of the bishop. Work to advance 
the cause of Christ in temporal 
and spiritual matters: first, in 
ourselves; second, in our families; 
and third, in the associations of 
our social life. 



(sfe r ii4cl), a.; L., Fr. The 
upper room where Christ and 
Has apostles site the Last Sup- 
per, Also a religious order of sis- 
ters devoted to tbe giving of re- 
treats to lay woraea; Sisters of 
tt*e w Caaade, or Ceaacie Nuns, 
w the Institute erf Our Lady of 
the Betreat In tibe Ceatde. 

Ccwer (sfe'sfe), EL; L. Q.Fr. Hie 
vessel in which incense is burned 
at certain liturgical functions. Al- 
so called thurible, (df. Thurible.) 



Ceremony (sr'e-md'ni), n.; L., O. 
Fr. (1) An external act per- 
formed in the worship of God. 

(2) The action {attitude, ges- 
ture, etc.) of external worship. 

(3) The actual performance of 
a rite. 

Chalice (chills), n.; L., O.Fr. 
The cup-shaped vessel used in 
the Mass in which the wine is 
consecrated. It should be of gold 
or silver, or of silver lined with 

fold; it is consecrated by the 
ishop with chrism and may not 
be touched except by those in 
holy orders or those to whom 
permission has been given. 

Chancery (chan'ser-I), n.; O.Fr. 
(1) Episcopal the business of- 
fice from which all documents 
pertaining to the exercise of the 
bishops jurisdiction proceed; a 
place of retaining all legal pa- 
pers in all matters pertaining to 
the five-fold jurisdiction of the 
bishop. (2) Apostolic an office 
of tibe Roman Curia which ex- 
pedites letters providing for the 
erection of new provinces and 
dioceses, and for other matters 
of greater importance. 

Charity (chirlMi), B.; L., Fr. A 
divinely infused virtue by which 
we prefer God as the sovereign 
good before all else and by which 
we do His will and are united 
with Him. The virtue that dis- 
poses us to krve God, ourselves, 
and our neighbors for the sake 
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Chastity (chas't>ta), n.; L., O.Fr. 
( 1 ) The virtue excluding all vol- 
untary pleasure or indulgence in 
acts arising from the sexual im- 
pulse in unmarried persons, and 
moderating within the bounds of 
right reason any deliberate pleas- 
ure arising from acts pertaining 
to sexual relations in the mar- 
ried. (2) The evangelical coun- 
sel which prompts one to vow 
permanently not to indulge in 
the natural sexual appetite. Such 
a vow is voluntarily made by 
those ordained subdeacons in the 
western Church and by monks 
and nuns and other religious at 
their professions. A vow of vol- 
untary chastity may be made by 
a person privately. 

Chasuble (chaz'u-bl), n. ; L, FT. 
The external garment or vest- 
ment worn by the priest in cele- 
brating Mass, worn as a mantle 
over his shoulders and covering 
the body, front and rear, and 
descending to the knees. The 
Roman style of chasuble is more 
squarely shaped, while the Greek 
style is more circular in shape 
and hangs down on the upper 
parts of the arms. 

Chrism (fcrizftn), n.; Gr., L., A.S. 
A mixture of olive oil and balsam 
blessed by the bishop and used 
in the administration of the sac- 
raments of baptism and confir- 
mation, but not in ordination of 
priests. Chrism is used in tibe 
consecration of bishops, the con- 
secration of churches, altar staaes* 



chalices, patens, and in the sol- 
emn blessing of bells and bap- 
tismal water. Chrism is blessed 
on Maundy Thursday, (cf. Oik, 
holy.) 

Christogram (kns't6-j^&m), n.; 
Gr., L. A symbol of Const; chief- 
ly that made up of the first two 
Greek letters in the name of 
Christ, namely, Chi and Rho, 
which is formed thus, 



Church of Chiist, n. The Catho- 
lic Church. The body of Chris- 
tians who profess the faith of 
Chiist and believe in all the 
teachings of Jesus Christ, use the 
same means of grace, the sacra- 
ments, and obey the same author- 
ities, their pastors, united under 
one visible head, the pope, who 
is the representative erf Christ cm 
earth; that Church instituted by 
Christ with infallible authority 
under the visible head, the po|>e; 
the Church which has as its mark 
oneness, apostolicity, holiness, 
and universality. 

Ciborium (si-bo'ri-tOT), BU; Gr*, 3L 
The vessel, chalicelike in shape 
and having a cover, in which 
communion hosts ajne kept is tibe 
tabernacle. The early meaning 
was that erf a canopy over the 
altar. 



Clergy (Hfi/ft), a,; ]U QJPr, 
SQH$ who have reodwed toasure 
or holy orders; those elevated to 
a higher nude than the laity- and 
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CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 



vine service or in administering 
to the Church, Sometimes the 
use of the word includes all re- 
ligious, even sisters and lay bro- 
thers. 

Cloister (klois'ter), n.; L,, Q.Fr. 
( 1 ) The canonically enclosed 
living quarters of a convent or 
monastery. ( 2 } The close. An en- 
closed space, square or oblong 
in shape, with covered passages 
around the outer wall and pillars 
on the inner side; the covered 
passageway around the inner 
square or garden often found in 
monasteries. 

Color (liturgical) (fcul'fe), n.; L. 
The colors which may be used 
in the vestments of the Church. 
They are: white, red, green, pur- 
pie, black, and old rose for use 
on the third Sunday of Advent 
and the fourth Sunday of Lent. 
Sonnetimes sky blue is permitted. 
Cloth of gold may be substituted 
for white, red, or green; silver for 
white only. 
Commands (of the Church), n. pi. 



Commemoration (ko-mem'6-ra'- 
sfawn), a.; L. Act erf remem- 
brance; a prayer of the Mass. All 
conimeirvorations of the Mass are 
made up of Collect, Secret, and 
Postcommimkm. There are four 
kinds of added prayers: (a) 
those of feasts occurring cm the 
same day; (b) prescribed anni- 
versary prayers or prayers pre- 
scribed for ddRaite occasions, 



during exposition, etc.; (c) 
prayers added to fill up a re- 
quired number demanded by the 
rubrics (orationes de tempore or 
orathnes votivae); (d) a prayer 
or prayers added to the Mass by 
local episcopal direction (ora- 
tianes imperatae). 
Communion (k0*mun r ytra), n.; L. 
See The Holy Eucharist, p. 54 ff. 

Communion of Saints, n,; L. The 

sharing of spiritual goods be- 
tween the faithful on earth, the 
Church Triumphant in heaven, 
and the Church Suffering in purg- 
atory; the three states of the 
faithful. 



Concordance 

L. s O. Fr. An alphabetical index 
to the Bible, arranged according 
to the principal words in each 
text 

Confession (Sacramental) (kdn- 
f&sh'un), n; L. See Penance, p. 
50 ff. 



Confirmation 

n.; L. See The Sacraments, p. 

70 ff. 



Confraternity 

n.; L., Fr. See Catholic Organi- 
zations, p, 173. 

Consecration (kon'se-kra'shtm), 
n; L, (1) The solemn blessing 
dedkating a person, a place, or 
a tfiing to the service erf God. 
(2)~<rf Mass. The action of the 
Mass; that part of the canon of 
tiie Mass at which the 



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changes the bread and wine into 
the body and blood of Christ. 
This occurs when he takes the 
bread and says, "This is My body, 
etc./* and the wine, saying, "This 
is the chalice of My blood, etc." 
(3) of altars. The consecrating 
or blessing by the bishop of altars 
and altar stones by an anointing 
with chrism and the placing 
of relics within the altar stone. 
Such consecration lasts until the 
altar stone is broken or the seal 
of the relics is broken. Chalices 
and churches are also conse- 
crated. 

Contemplation (kdn'tem-pla'- 
shwn), n.; L. A high state of in- 
terior union with God. A term 
applied to the manner of Me of 
religious who devote themselves 
to prayer and meditation rather 
than to active works, such as 
teaching, etc. 

Contrition (kontr!sh'tm), n.; L., 
O. Fr. Sorrow and detestation of 
sin which has been committed 
together with the purpose of sin- 
ning no more. It is perfect con- 
trition if it is based on love of 
God, imperfect contrition (attri- 
tion ) if based on a lower motive. 

Cape (kop), n*, L. A capdike 
vestment, usually of silk, reach- 
ing from the shoulders to the 
feet It is fastened with a clasp 
in front called the morse and 
usually has a smaller cape resting 
oa the shoulders. It is the ex- 
ternal vestment wora for such 



liturgical services as exposition, 
processions and the absolution of 
the dead; it is not limited to the 
use of priests alone but may be 
worn by a cantor, even if a lay- 
man. 

Corpus Christi (kor'pus kristf), 
n.; L. Literally, "the body of 
Christ." The name of the Feast 
of the Blessed Sacrament cele- 
brated on the Thursday follow- 
ing the first Sunday after Pente- 
cost 

Council (koun'sil}, n,; L. An as- 
sembly of higher ecclesiastics and 
rulers in the Church to discuss 
and decide upon ecclesiastical 
matters, either of legislation or 
doctrine. Councils may be either 
for the Church in general or for 
a particular country or for an 
ecclesiastical province or a par- 
ticular diocese. A diocesan coun- 
cil is called a synod. 

Creed (fared), n.; L. A listing df 
the principal articles of faith; a 
prayer in which the articles of 
faith are contained and which 
may be said as a profession of 
faith. The creeds in the Catholic 
Church are four: The Apostles* 
Creed, the Nicene Creed, the 
Athanasian, and the Creed of 
Pius the Fourth. 

Crosier (kro'zfa&r), a.; 1^ O.Fr. 
Cnozier. A staff with a curved 
top or a crook at tte top and 
pointed at tbe fewer end, about 
Ae height dF a man (5ft. 10 in.), 
which is a symbol erf atitiboiity 



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for the bishop; sometimes called 
pastoral staff. It is presented to 
a bishop at his consecration, 

Crucifix (kroo'si-fiks), n.; L., O. 
Fr. A representation of the cross 
of crucifixion together with the 
figure of Christ. The crucifix dif- 
fers from the cross in that it has 
affixed to it the body or corpus 
or a representation of Christ. 

Cultus (kuTts), n.; L. The term 
which means either veneration or 



worship; it embraces all the acts 
of adoration, direct or indirect, 
by which honor is given to God. 
The Church distinguishes three 
kinds of cultus: (a) Latria, the 
worship which is due to God 
alone and which cannot be given 
to any creature without sinning 
by idolatry, (b) Dulia, that ven- 
eration given to saints and angels. 
(c) Hyperdulia, that veneration 
given to the Blessed Virgin be- 
cause of her exalted nature. 



D 



Dalmatic (dilmartk) 8 n.; L>, Fr. 
A vestment open at the sides, 
with wide open sleeves with an 
opening for the head, and hav- 
ing two stripes running from hem 
to hem; tne external garment 
worn by a deacon in solemn func- 
tions* or worn by bishops under- 
neath the chasuble during the 
celebration of pontifical Mass. 

Deacon (delete), n-; Gr*, L. (1) 
Tbe word in early ages for a 
minister or servant. One who has 
received subdeaconsfaip and dea- 
cornhip. The duties of the dea- 
con art; to assist tibe priest in 
cdtebrstiiig solemn Mass and 
sometimes to preach and bap- 
tize. (2) Deaeotis of Hcmor; the 
two clerics in the vestments of a 
who assist tibe bishop at 
Mass and Vespers or 
who sit beside Mm when be at- 
tends a solemn Mass in cope. 



Dean (den), n.; L., O.Fr. (1) The 
head of a cathedral or collegiate 
chapter; (2) rural dean, a senior 
priest entrusted with vigilance 
over Church discipline in the 
several parishes which constitute 
the deanery; he has the power 
of summoning and presiding at 
meetings of the clergy of this 
district. 

Decalogue (dfck'fl-ldg), n.; Gr.; 
Bib. A familiar name applied to 
the Ten Commandments of God. 

Deporit of Faith (d&po/It), n.; 
L, The sum total of revealed 
truths given by Christ to His 
Church; truths guarded by the 
Church and taught infallibly. The 
truth of Christ said by the Coun- 
cil of Trent to exist in both writ- 
ten books (S.S.) and in un- 
written traditions. 

Deuterocancmical Books (du'ter- 
adj.; Gr. Books 



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of the Bible which are not found 
in the Hebrew Bible but which 
are found in the Septuagint 
Greek translation; later their 
canonicity was established by the 
Church. 

Devotion (de-vd'shtm), n.; L. (1) 
A manner of reverence and piety; 
devoutness. (2) A formula of 
prayer or a pious exercise. (3) 
Feasts offeasts which formerly 
were holydays of obligation, but 
which no longer bear the precept 
of hearing Mass but are merely 
days to be observed according 
to the spiritual intention of the 
faithful 

Diocese (di'6-ses), n.; Gr., L. 
That portion of a country to- 
gether with its population which 
is under the pastoral jurisdic- 
tion of a Christian bishop. The 
territory ruled over by a bishop. 

Diriment (impediment) (diri- 
ment), adj.; L. See Matrimony, p. 
82 ff. 

Discipline (dls'l*plln), n,; L. (1) 
In its first meaning it is instruc- 
tion; or also that which is taught; 
it ordinarily means the rules or 
order observed in a community 
or by a group of persons. In 
Church legislation it is used to 
refer to the kws which govern 
the faithful in their actions. (2) 
It has also come to be applied 
to acts of BKHtificaliQii, sucJi as 
scourging, which one voluntarily 
inflicts upon hiimdtf ; used in the 
sense "to take the dfeiplSose/* (3) 



In recent years it is being sub- 
stituted in Roman usage for the 
term "rite" as applied, for ex- 
ample, to the terms The Ro- 
man discipline" "The Oriental 
discipline/' 

Dispensation (dis'pen-sa'shun), 
n.; L, The loosening or freeing 
from a law in a particular case; 
the relaxing of the binding force 
of a law for a certain purpose or 
for certain persons; release from 
an obligation; it must be granted 
by someone in authority and may 
be recalled. 

Dogma (ddg'md), n.; Gr, L* In 
religion a truth found in the 
word of God, either written or 
unwritten, and proclaimed by 
the Church for the belief of the 
faithful; a revealed truth. 

Dogmatic Theology (ddg*mafik), 
adj,; Gr., L. The scieiice of 
Christian dogma; the system of 
teaching or propounding the doc- 
trines of the Church as a whole 
or individually as tibey stand in 
relation to one another. The sys- 
tematic teaching of tibe doctrines 
of faith; the application of phi- 
losophy to religious tenets, The 
scientific treatment erf the re- 
lationship between f aitfa and rea- 
son. 

Donay Bible (dro'I 1 ), n.; Fr* 
The most common and wdi- 
known complete translation of 
the Sacred Scriptures In use by 
Eaglsli-speaiai^ Catholics. The 
translation was began at Douay, 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 

France, and a part of it was pub- doxology is the Gloria in Excelsis 

lished there, hence its name. A!- which is recited during the Mass, 

so, Douai (2) The lesser doxology is the 

Doxology (daks-dl'd-ji), n.; Gr. A prayer beginning "Glory be to 

prayer erf glory: (D the greater the Father.** 



E 



Easter (es't&r), n.; A.S. The feast 
commemorating the Resurrection 
of our Lord, 

Ecumenical (ek f u-men f !'lcil), adj.; 
Gr., L. Ako Oecumenical. A 
coumril for the universal Church 
to which all bishops and others 
entitled to vote are called from 
the entire world to gather under 
the pope or his legates to de- 
termine the interpretation of doc- 
trines or laws for the Church. 
The decrees of such a council, 
after papal sanction, apply to the 
universal Church and bind in 



Ejaculation (e-jak'u-la'shtin), n.; 
L. A short prayer; a few prayer- 
Eke words or pious aspirations 
which one can make at any time 
or in any place, 

Ember Days (&m'bir), n, (adj.) 
pL; A.S. Days of fast aod partial 
abstinence which are tibe Wed- 
nesdays, Fridays aad Saturdays 
wfaidi fcdfow Dec. 13, the first 
Sunday erf Lent, Pentecost aixi 
Sept 14. 

Eracycfical (te^HM), n, ; Gr^ 
L, A fetter addressed by the Holy 
Father to all bishops in commun- 



ion with the Holy See to inform 
them of certain measures or for 
the general instruction of the 
faithful under their care. 

Epiphany (e-pifa-m), n.; Gr., L. 
Literally, a manifestation; the 
feast celebrated on January 6; 
the feast commemorating the 
manifestations of our Lord, first, 
to the Magi, or wise men; second, 
of His divinity made at His bap- 
tism in the Jordan; third, of His 
power by His miracle at Cana. 

Episcopate (e-pisTto-pat), n,; L. 
Fr. (1) Collectively, the body of 
ruling bishops. (2) The active 
term of office of a bishop, 

Epistle (e-plsl), n,; Gr., L. The 
ksson from Scripture read dur- 
ing the Mass between the Col- 
lects and tibe Gospel. These are 
usually taken from epistles or 
letters of the apostles which are 
writings of Scripture addressed 
to the early Church as instruc- 
tions. 

Escfaatdbgy {&Tcfl4dl'<>jI}, n.; Gr. 
Science of the last things; study 
of death, judgment, hell, purga- 
tory, the renovation of the world 
by fire, eternal Mfe. 



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Eucharist (uTcc-nst), n.; Gr. L. 
See The Holy Eucharist, p. 54 f. 

Evangelical Counsels (e'vanjeT- 
i-kal), adj.; Gr., L. The holy ad- 
monitions of Christ to poverty, 
chastity, and obedience in the 
Gospel; they are not absolutely 
necessary for salvation, but lead 
to a more perfect life. 

Examination of conscience, n.; L. 

The recalling to mind of past sins 
so that they may be confessed, 
repented of, and forgiven. The 
practice of making a daily check- 
up of the faults and sins com- 
mitted during the day. 

Excommunication (eksTco-mu'nt 
ka'shwn), n.; L. A censure im- 
posed by the authority of the 



Church depriving one of the sac- 
raments, excluding one from di- 
vine services, prayers of the 
Church, Christian burial, and 
canonical rights. There are two 
classes of excommunicates: (1) 
Tolerati, or those whom the faith- 
ful are not obliged to avoid; (2) 
Vitandi, or those with whom the 
faithful are forbidden to com- 
mune either in religious or civil 
matters. 

Exegesis (ek's&je'sis), n.; Gr. The 
study and expounding of the 
meaning of the Scriptures; the 
scientific interpretation of the 
sense of Sacred Scripture. 

Extreme Unction (eks*trem'ungk'- 
shthi), n.; L. See The Sacra- 
ments, p. 94 ff . 



Faculty (fak'Sl-fi), n.; L., Fr. (1) 
The group of professors, lectur- 
ers, and teachers educating stu- 
dents. (2) The grant of authority 
from an ecclesiastical superior to 
perform legally some act of juris- 
diction or ceremony. The juris- 
diction granted to a duly or- 
dained priest by the bishop of 
the diocese validly to hear con- 
fessions. 

Faith (fath), n.; L, O.Fr. The act 
of spiritual and intellectual as- 
sent to a revealed truth of God 
with the assistance of divine 
grace. The theological virtue of 



faith. The assent is of the intel- 
lect and is based upon the au- 
thority of God, and has for its 
object every truth revealed by 
Him. 

Fasting (fas'ting), n.; A.S. See 
Fast and Abstineiice, p, 34 ff. 

Fathers (of the Oararfi}, n. pi; 
L., A,S. The name by which 
Christian writers of the fkst 
seven centuries are designated. 
It is ccmiroorfy agreed tlmt ooty 
tibey can be caBbd TFaiber of 
the Church** who have the three 
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ness, (c) learning as displayed in 
teaching or writing in defense of 
the Church and its doctrines with 
the approval of the Church. St. 
John Damascene (died 749) is 
usually called the last of the 
Fathers. 

Feasts (of the Church) (fests), n. 
pl. ; L., G.Fr. The days of the 
Church calendar which are set 
aside to commemorate a partic- 
ular mystery of the faith, or days 
selected for giving glory to par- 
ticular saints. These feasts may 
be holydays with the obligation 
of hearing Mass imposed on the 
faithful. Feasts are also divided, 
in accordance with their rank, in- 
to doubles, semidoubles, or sim- 
ples. The double feasts may be 
again divided into doubles of the 
first class (the most solemn) or 
second class (some of the feast 
days of the saints) or greater or 
ordinary doubles. 

Feria (fe'ri**), n.; L. The days of 
tibe week, excepting Sunday and 
Saturday, are so named in the 



ecclesiastical calendar; the litur- 
gical name for a weekday, 

Flag (Papal) (flag), n.; L. The of- 
ficial cloth emblem of Vatican 
State. It is formed of two pieces 
of cloth sewn together, one yel- 
low which is next to the flag- 
staff, and the other white on 
which is a design formed of the 
pontifical tiara and two crossed 
golden keys. 

Forty Hours (Devotioo) (ffir'tl 
ourz), n. pL, Gr^ JU See p. 117 ff. 

Freedom (of the will) (fre'dtkn), 
n.; AJJ. The power or faculty of 
the soul by which the mind of 
man is able to make a choice in 
view of the end; the power to 
act or not to act, to do this or 
that, in view of the end. 

Fruits (erf the Holy Ghost) 
(froots) n. pL; L. Qualities found 
in the just and bestowed by the 
Holy Ghost They are: charity, 
faith, joy, peace, goodness, pa- 
tience, benignity, longanimity, 
mildness, modesty, continence, 
and chastity. 



G 



Gaudete Sunday (gd*de't), n.; L. 
Ttie third Sunday of Advent, so 
named because of the first word 
of the Introit which is the Latin 
imperative of the verb "rejoice.** 



Geoirflectioat 

L. See p. 146. 



n.; 



Ghost, Holy (6st), n.; A.S. The 
third Person of the Blessed Trin- 
ity proceeding from the Father 

General Confession, n,; L,, O.Fr. and the Son, truly God; the Holy 

See Penance, p. 50 ff . Spirit. 



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Gifts (of the Holy Ghost) (gifts), 
n. pi.; O.E. The gifts, seven In 
number, bestowed upon the just 
by the Holy Ghost. They are: 
wisdom, understanding, counsel, 
fortitude, knowledge, piety, and 
fear of the lord. 

God (god), n.; A.S. The Supreme 
Being who owes His existence 
to no other, who is absolutely 
and infinitely perfect and who 
has created all things; the eter- 
nal Spirit who created and rules 
the universe and in whom is 
every perfection, and who is sim- 
ple and immutable in His spirit- 
ual substance. The three Persons 
of the Blessed Trinity: God the 
Father, God the Son, God the 
Holy Ghost three Persons in one 
God. 

Good Friday (good fri'di), n.; 
A.S. The Friday of Holy Week 
on which the Church commem- 
orates the Passion and death of 
Christ. 

Gospel (gos'pel), n.; A.S. (1) lat- 
erally "good news." A recording 
of the life and works of Jesus 
written by an evangelist (2) 
Collectively, the writings of the 
four evangelists, Matthew, Mark, 
Luke, and John, contained in 
Sacred Scripture* (3) The read- 
ing of an extract from Sacred 
Scripture, taken from tibe gospel 
narrative, which takes place in 
the ceremonies of the Mass just 



before the Offertory. There is 
a second Gospel right after the 
final blessing of the Mass which 
is usually the first fourteen ver- 
ses of the Gospel of St. John, first 
chapter. 

Grace (gras), n.; L. Specifically, 
grace is a supernatural gift freely 
given by God to rational crea- 
tures to enable them to obtain 
eternal life. Generally, however, 
all that one receives as free gifts 
from God may be termed graces 
or favors. Grace may be sancti- 
fying or actual; sanctifying grace 
is permanent in the soul and 
elevates the soul by its very 
presence there and is called ha- 
bitual grace; all infused virtues 
accompany habitual grace. Act- 
ual grace may be either exciting 
or helping; that of exciting stim- 
ulates the mind to act and that 
of helping assists in performing 
the act which already has been 
begun. Each person is granted 
sufficient grace to enable him to 
save his soul. 

Gradual (grld'u-ol), n.; L. (1) The 
antiphon sung after the Epistle; 
it is also called responsory. These 
antiphons were called "gradual" 
because they were sung while 
people marched, (2) The book 
(Latin: Grodfurfe Romamtm) 
contaiaiag the ordinary and afl 
the proper ports of the Mass 
which are 10 be sung by A dbotr 
tibe oatfre Bta^fctl jam. 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 



H 



Heart of Jesus (hart), a.; A.S. The 
physical heart of Jesus in itself, 
which as a symbol of His love for 
us is an object of adoration and 
devotion, Devotion to the Sacred 
Heart in its present form dates 
from the revelations made to St. 
Margaret Mary Alacoque in 1673- 
75. 

Heart (of Mary Immaculate), n.; 
A.S, The heart of Mary, the 
Blessed Virgin, which is vener- 
ated as a symbol of Mary's great 
love and purity. Devotion to the 
Heart of Mary was begun by St 
John Eudes in the seventeenth 
century. 

Heretic (M/^tflc), .; Gr., L. 
One who professes a false doc- 
trine; one who seeks the end of 
Christian truth but fails in the 
means because be refuses belief 
in one or more of the Articles of 
Faith; one who originates a sect 
based upon fake doctrine, 



n.; Gr. 

Colfedively it means officials ac- 
cording to their rank and with 
each rank subordinate to the one 
above it in order; in the Catholic 
Church it means collectively the 
organization erf clerics into rank 
and order of position. In popu- 
lar usage the bishops of a country 
as a iprwip. See p. 14 ff. 



Holiness (holi-nes), n.; A.S, (1) 
State of being holy; having grace. 
(2) A mark of the Church. The 
Church is essentially holy because 
of its Founder, its doctrine, and 
its end in the direction and sal- 
vation of mankind and because 
it teaches and cultivates the 
Christian virtues. (3) A title 
given to the Holy Father; the 
title of the pope demoting his 
holiness as Vicar of Christ 

Holydays, A,S. Days in the calen- 
dar erf feasts in the Church when 
the faithful are obliged to cease 
from servile works and hear 
Mass; days of obligation. See p. 
32. 



Gbcwt (gost), adj.; A.S. The 
third Person of the Blessed Trin- 
ity, proceeding from the Father 
and the Son and co-equal with 
Them; the Spirit of Wisdom; God 
the Holy Ghost. 

Holy Office, n.; L, The most im- 
portant of the Roman congrega- 
tions whose function it is to de- 
fend Catholic teaching of faith 
and morals. Its members are 
bound to the strictest secrecy, 
called the secret of the Holy Of- 
fice. Formerly, the Holy Office 
was called the Congregation of 
the Holy Roman and Universal 
Inquisition. 

Holy See, A.S. The Sovereign 
Pontiff together with the Roman 



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congregations, tribunals, and of- 
fices through which he transacts 
the affairs of the universal 
Church. 

Holy Week, A.S. The last week 
of Lent; the week properly be- 
gins with Palm Sunday and con- 
tinues through Holy Saturday. It 
is the time in which the death 
and burial of Christ are com- 
memorated; a time of particular 
devotion to the crucified Savior. 
The liturgy of this period re-en- 
acts the events of Christ's Passion 
and Resurrection. 

Host (host), n.; L. A word used 
to denote: (1) the presence of 
Christ under the appearances of 
both bread and wine; (2) the 
presence of Christ under the 
form of bread before consecra- 
tion. In its present usage it seems 
most popular as the bread be- 
fore consecration; notably, in the 
Latin Church, the small circular 
particle which is the usual form 
under which the Eucharist is re- 
ceived by the faithful. 



Humeral Veil (hu'm&xzl), n.; L, 
An oblong scarf of the same ma- 
terial and color as the vestment 
which is worn over the shoulders 
by the deacon at High Mass 
when holding the paten, and al- 
so worn over the shoulders of the 
priest when he elevates the host 
at Benediction of the Blessed 
Sacrament, or when he carries 
the monstrance and Blessed Sac- 
rament in procession. Also called 
by its Latin name, the oe&im. 

Humility (hu-mil't-ti), n.; L. The 
moral virtue which promotes us 
to recognize that of ourselves we 
are nothing and can do nothing 
without divine assistance; the 
reasonable evaluation of ourselves 
and recognition of our depend- 
ence upon God* It is a virtue 
which is joined to the virtue of 
temperance in that it moderate 
the desire for honor, setf-glorifi- 
cation, and the esteem of others. 



Hypostatic Union 

adj.; Gr. L. The union of the 
divine and human natures in the 
divine Person of Christ. 



I 



Iconodbist (i-kdn'o-ldast), n.; Gr., 
L. laterally, T>reaker erf images"; 
a follower of the heresy erf ioon- 
odasm which in the eighth or 
ninth centuries protested against 
statues and pictures in tibe 
Church. The heresy refected both 
tibe use and veneration <rf images 



as unlawful. The seamd Council 
of Nice declared the true temMmg 
on veneration and refuted the 
heresy. 

Imitation (of Christ) {Imm'- 
sbun), n.; L, The title of a book, 
the greater part gl which 



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most probably written by Thom- 
as & Kempis of Windesheim, 
Netherlands, and which contains 
exhortations and admonitions for 
living a good or spiritual life. It 
was first published in 1418, and 
then under the autograph of 
Thomas & Kempis in 1441. Also 
known as *The Following of 
Christ" 

Immaculate Conception (I-mak'- 
u-llt kdttp'shifo), n.; L. The 
privilege under which the Bless- 
ed Virgin was conceived free 
from the stain of original sin; the 
gift erf God whereby the soul of 
the Blessed Virgin, because she 
was to be the Mother of God, 
was preserved at the time of her 
ecwaeeption from the stain of orig- 
inal sin* The feast is celebrated 
in the Church calendar on the 
of December. Under the 



title of the Immaculate Concep- 
tion the Blessed Virgin is the 
patroness of the United States of 
America. 

Ipapcdkaent (of marriage) (Im 
pdd%n^0t), n.; L. Se# Matri- 
mony, p. 82 ff , 

Imprimatur (lm*prl*ma'ter) n.; L. 
See Catholic Reading and Edu- 
cation, p. 155. 

Index (of prohibited books) (m f - 
cfeks), n., L. Sire p. 157. 

Indulgence (m-duTjfes), n,; L. 
The remission in full or in part 
of the temporal punishment due 
to sin which already has been 
forgiven. 



Infallibility (In-faTl-ba't-tf), n.; L. 
The prerogative of the Church 
as a teacher by which, being 
guided by the Holy Ghost, when 
she actively teaches revealed 
truths, she is protected from er- 
ror or the possibility of error; in- 
fallibility also extends to those 
matters which are very closely 
connected with revealed truths 
and which the Church also as an 
authoritative teacher may pro- 
rjounce upon. It is also a preroga- 
tive of the pope when he speaks 
as head of the Church cm a mat- 
ter of faith or morals* 

Inspiration (of Scripture) {In'spt- 
ra'shtm), n.j L, The supernatural 
direction or guidaiK^ through 
which a writer of Scripture re- 
ceived matters to be written as 
God wished; the grace of making 
record of truths predetermined 
in the mind of God; that positive 
divine influence upon the intel- 
lect, will, and faculties of the 
writer of Sacred Scripture where- 
by he wrote only and all of those 
things God willed, without fear 
of substantial error; that impulse 
and guiding of the writer by the 
Holy Ghost, said of all Sacred 
Scripture, 

Intercession (In'ter*sesh'n), n.; 
L. Fr. The prayer of one person 
on behalf of another; the offer- 
ing of our prayers to God through 
saints and thereby gaining a new 
efficacy for the prayers from the 
aid of the saints. 



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Introit (In-tro'it), n.; L. That 



prayer of the Mass said when 
the priest ascends the altar after 
the prayers at the beginning of 
Mass; it usually is composed of 
the words of an antiphon, a psalm 



verse, the Gloria Patri, and the 
antiphon repeated. 

Itinerary (itin'er-er^, n.; L. A 
prayer said by clerics before set- 
ting out on a journey; it is found 
at the end of the breviary. 



Jesus (je'zfis), n.; Heb., Gr. The 
name which in Hebrew means 
"The Lord is Help or Salvation." 
The name announced to the 
Blessed Virgin by the angel at 
the Annunciation and given to 
God the Son upon becoming man. 
He is truly God, having one and 
the same nature with God the 
Father from all eternity. 



Justice (jus'tis), n.; L. In its 
broadest sense the aggregate of 
all supernatural virtues or the 
perfection of every virtue; this is 
the sense used in the saying *Jo- 
seph was just" Justice in its par- 
ticular sense means the virtue 
moving us to give to each person 
his due or his right. It is a card- 
inal virtue. 



K 



Keys (power of) (Ices), n. pi; A.S. 
A term used to show the superior 
ecclesiastical authority of the 
pope. The keys are the symbol 
of the office and power of the 
pope and also of the sacrament 
of penance. (Matt. 16:19.) 



Kyrie Eleison (kir f i*e &li f i*sda), 
n.; Gr. The Greek words mean- 
ing "Lord, have mercy'* used to- 
gether with the words Ckfisie 
Eleison which mean "Christ have 
mercy**; it is said immediately 
after the Introit of the Mass, 



L 



Laetare (Sunday) (le-ta/e), n.; L. 
The fourth Sunday of Lent, so 
named because of the first word 
in the Latin antiphon before the 
introit 

Last Things, adf.; A.S. Death, 
judgment, heaven, and hell are 



said to be the last things; the 
e&dbatotogy. 

Lavabo (Id-vito), a,; L. Liter- 
ally: I will wash. Tfa&t part of 
the Mass at which the serwr 
pours water on the thumbs and 
index fingers of the priest, the 



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parts of his hands that will touch 
the host; it occurs after the Of- 
fertory of the Mass and it de- 
rives its name from the first word 
of verse six of Psalm 25 which is 
recited by the priest at this time. 

Lent (l&it), n,; A.S. From the 
Anglo-Saxon word s lencten, mean- 
ing spring. A time of fast before 
Easter as penance and prepara- 
tion for the Feast of the Resur- 
rection; the period of six and one 
half weeks from Ash Wednesday 
to Easter. 

Lesscra (lesn), n,; L,, O.Fr. A 
reading from Sacred Scripture; 
a lection, as the Epistle read at 
Mass. 



Utmy (rifa-ni), n.; L., O.Fr. A 
prayer in the form of alternate 
ejaculations or statements and 
petitions; a formula of prayer 
consisting of a series of suppli- 
cations and responses; a prayer 
of petitions in sequence. It may 
be sung. 



_ ), n.; Gr. (1) The 

worship of God by the Church, 
comprising the offering of the 
Sacrifice erf the Mass, the recita- 
tion of the divine office, and the 
administration of the sacraments. 
(2) In Eastern Churches, the 
Mass, Originally, a public ser- 



vice; in the early days it was 
applied to the solemn service of 
the Church. The liturgy is: (a) 
all forms of rites and services in 
any language in the Church in 
celebrating the Eucharist; (b) 
the rites, official services, cere- 
monies, prayers, sacraments of 
the Church, as opposed to pri- 
vate worship. 



Lords Prayer (l&rdz), n.; 
The prayer which our Lord 
taught His disciples (Matt. 6:9- 
13); the prayer which in Latin 
i$ the Pater Nosier and in Eng- 
lish the Our Falser, and which 
is said in the Mass. 

Low Sunday, a.; AJS. The first 
Sunday after Easter is known by 
this name; it closes the octave of 
Easter. Also, White Sunday or 
quasimodo. 

Luna (lu'na), n.; L. The small 
case with a hinged side, into 
which the lunette is placed; it is 
the receptacle in which the host 
for Benediction of the Blessed 
Sacrament is reserved. 

Lunette (lu-net), n.; L. A circular 
case which fits into the enclosed 
center of the monstrance and in 
which the Blessed Sacrament is 
held while being exposed, 




DICTIONARY IN BRIEF 



M 



Madonna (m0<lon'fl), n.; It (1) 
Title given to the Blessed Virgin. 
(2) The name used in referring 
to certain pictures of the Blessed 
Virgin; also used in invocations 
of the Blessed Virgin. 

Magnificat (mag-nHl-kat), n.; L. 
The first word of the canticle or 
song of the Blessed Virgin re- 
corded in Luke 1:46-55; tibe first 
word in the Latin version also 
used as a title for this canticle. 

Maniple (man f ipl), n.; L., OJFr. 

A vestment worn across the left 
arm between the elbow and the 
wrist and usually tied or pinned 
to the sleeve of the alb. The 
vestment symbolizes penance and 
sorrow; it is made of the same 
material and is of the same color 
as the chasuble. 



Mariology (m^ol'd-}!), n.; Gr. 
The study of the theology refer- 
ring to the Blessed Virgin. 

Mary (mArl), n,; Gr., Heb. Mary, 
the daughter of Joachim and 
Anne, was of the tribe of Juda 
and of the royal house of David. 
The Mother of God; the Virgin 
to whom was born Christ the 
Son, the seamd Person of the 
Blessed Trinity; the Blessed Vir- 
gin, the Queen of Heaven. 

Mass (mis), n.; L,, A-S. S^ The 
Holy Eiidhaiist, p. 54 ff, and Tbe 
Mass, p. 113 ff, 



Matrimony (mat'ii'md'ni), n.; L., 
O.Fr. See The Sacraments, p. 
75 ff . 

Meditation (medl-ta'shfin), n.; L. 
A wordless prayer of the mind; 
the act of praying mentally by 
using the memory, the under- 
standing, and tibe will in con- 
sidering a divine truth or in ad- 
dressing a petition to God, Such 
mental prayer may lead to con- 
templation or higher forms of 
affective (the soul by affection 
of tibe will goes direct to God) 
prayer. 

Merit (merft), n.; L. The quality 
which makes a free moral action 
deserving of reward; the reward 
of a morally good action; value 
attached to morally good actions 
by God; the eternal value of acts 
done through the grace of God. 

Metropolitan (mefr^p6l^t&i), 
n.; L, Formerly tite bishop of the 
largest city or the place whew 
the government was and who 
was considered to rank over tbe 
bishop of lesser places; at pres- 
ent, tibe term is appKed to arch- 
bishops in large cities who haw 
suffragan sees. 

Missal (m&*a), n,; L, Tbe Kte- 
gical bodk containing the tet for 
all Masses used by tbe priest m 
cefeferatiM Mass; Hie Ktargictl 
book nsd by tiie priest mt tibe 
alfcar to imclii Mass; th litur- 



CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 



gical prayer book for all the 

Mitre (ml'tir), n.; Gr. L. A tall 
double-pointed headdress worn 
by bishops, abbots, and some- 
times by other high-ranking ec- 
clesiastics; the two points of this 
ornamental headdress symbolize 
the Old and New Testaments. 

Mixed Marriage (mikst), n.; L. 
See Matrimony, p. 90. 

Modesty (mdd'&*ti), n<; L. (1) 
The virtue which prompts one to 
give the proper degree of impor- 
tance to each act; decorum in all 
external acts; moderation within 
reason erf all external acts. (2) 
Today in popular understanding 
this virtue is chiefly applied to 
matters of purity or chastity, 
meaning a proper or decent re- 
straint regarding se&, especially 
in matters of dress or attire. 

Monk (mungk), n,; Gr. f L. Orig- 
inally a hermit or anchorite, 
Later a name given to a mem- 
ber of a community of men living 
apart from the world under the 
vorws erf poverty, chastity, and 
obedience and according to some 
rule of a religions order. In par- 
ticular it became associated with 
those following the Benedictine 
rale* The title is not to be con- 
fused with that given to mem- 
bers of orders of friars, claries 
regular, w religious congrega- 
tions of men. 

Monsignor (mdo-se'nydr), n.; It 
A title or dignity bestowed by 



the pope upon a priest entitling 
him to be called Monsignor; an 
honorary rank conferred for ex- 
ceptional service; deserving of 
this title are: Prothonotaries Apos- 
tolic, Domestic Prelates, Private 
Chamberlains, Honorary Cham- 
berlains, and Vicars General. It 
is abbreviated Msgr. 

Monstrance (mdn'strons),, n.; L. 
O.Fr. The sacred vessel in which 
the Blessed Sacrament is usually 
exposed for veneration at Bene- 
diction or in which it is carried 
during a procession; ostensorium. 

Mortal mt (m&r'tli), adj.; L. A 
mortally bad human act which is 
grievously off ensive to God; that 
sin which destroys charity, robs 
the soul of sanctifying grace, and 
makes it deserving of eternal 
punishment 

Mystery (mls'ter*!), n.; Gr,, L, (1) 
A truth which cannot be known 
or understood by human reason. 
Also a doctrine of faith, accept- 
ance and belief in a doctrine not 
fully understood, but which is 
revealed to us through Christ. 
The theological meaning is a 
truth which man cannot discover 
of himself, that is, without teach- 
ing or revelation, and which after 
his becoming informed of it, he 
cannot fully understand, (2) 
Sometimes applied to any con- 
sideration of a particular doctrine 
or teaching of faith. (3) The sub- 
ject of meditation made while 
saying a decade of the Rosary. 



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N 



Name day (nam da), n.; A.S. The 
day of the feast of the saint whose 
name one bears, sometimes cele- 
brated rather than one's birthday 
or in addition to this; the day 
commemorating one's baptismal 
name. 

New Testament (nu tes'ta-ment), 
n.; L. The books of the Bible 
which contain the revelation of 
God since the coming of Christ; 
the Gospels, Epistles, Acts of the 
Apostles, and the Apocalypse. 
There are twenty-seven books in 
the New Testament. 

Nicene Creed, n.; Gr., L. The 

statement of religious beliefs 
composed at the first Council of 
Nice. 

Novena (nove'na), n.; L. The 
pious practice of devoting nine 
days to public or private prayer 
for gaining special graces. 



Novitiate (no-vlshl-at), n.; L. 
(1) A time of probation, usually 
of one year, during which the 
novice prepares to receive the 
rule of the order he or she has 
entered; the time in which one 
prepares for profession in a reli- 
gious order followed by profes- 
sion in temporary vows. (2) The 
residence set aside as living 
quarters for novices. 

Nuptial Blessing (nup'shol), adj.; 
L. The blessing read by the 
priest after the Pater Nosier of 
the Mass (Pro Sponsis), called 
nuptial, which may not be given 
apart from the Mass except with 
dispensation. The blessing is 
directed more to the woman than 
to the man. It is not given if the 
woman had received it at a pre- 
vious marriage, nor during spe- 
cial times or seasons of the 
Church calendar. 



O 



Obedience (6-be'dI-ens), n.; L. 
(1) The moral virtue by which 
one submits his will to the will 
or law of one in authority. (2) 
The evangelical counsel whereby 
one renounces his own right to 
act independently in order to fol- 
low Christ. (3) A vow of obedi- 
ence is that vow made by a deric 



or a religious in submitting him- 
self or herself to the authority of 
an ecclesiastical oir religious su- 
perior. 

Occasion (of sm) (S^'zhwi), *M 
L., O.Fr. An external ctireim- 
stance or crnidittei wbkh gives 
(me tibe opportunity and iaoace* 
ment to commit a sin; this may 



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be either a person, a place, or a 
thing. It is said to be proxtmole 
when the circumstance or condi- 
tions are such that they usually 
lead to sin. Such a proximate oc- 
casion may be /rae, that is, either 
sought or possible of being 
avoided; or it may be nee$mnf 
that is, it cannot be avoided. The 
occasion is remote when the dan- 
ger of sinning is slight. 

Offertory (df&vto-rf), a.; L. That 
part of the Mass in which the 
off eriag of bread and wine or the 
oblation is made by the priest. 
That part of the Mass which 
follows immediately alter the 
Creed. 



Office gDMm) (afTs), ***** L. The 
payer contained in a liturgical 
book called the Breviary, ft is 
arranged by the Church and 
ordered to be said daily in her 
name by all clerics in major 
orders, by all who hold an ec- 
clesiastkal benefice, and by sol- 
emnly professed members erf cer- 
tain religious orders of men and 



Oifc {Btofy) {oilsX a. pi; L. The 
Holy Oils are blessed annually by 
die bbhop on Holy Thursday. 
Tiiwe are tfaj^e oik: Chrism* Oil 
of Catechumens, and Oil for the 
Sick. The ecwastitueot parts erf 
Chrism are olive oil and balsam; 
the remaining two oils are mire 
olive oil. In listing the uses of the 
otJs it will be observed that each 
oil may be used for more than 
one purpose* and that in some 



consecrations or blessings more 
than one oil is used, (a) Chrism 
is used in the administration of 
baptism and confirmation, in the 
consecration of a bishop, in the 
consecration of churches, altars, 
chalices, patens and in the bless- 
ing of church bells and baptismal 
water, (&) Oil erf Catechumens 
is used in baptism, in the ordina- 
tion erf a priest, the consecration 
erf churches aixl altars, and in the 
coronation erf Catholic monarchs. 
(c) CHI erf the Side is used in 
extreme unction and in the bless- 
ing of church bells. 



Oratory (6r r &t6'ri), &.; I* A 
chapel which might be public, 
sernipublic, or private wherein 
Mass may be oefebf'iifed; Mass 
may not be heard validly (ie^ 
satisfy the obligation of hearing 
Mass) in a private oratory, ex- 
cept by those having permission. 
An oratory is public if it is built 
chiefly for the convenience of 
some group erf persons, even pri- 
vate persons, yet the faithful in 
geiaeral have tne right to enter it 
or at feast may enter during 
divine service. It is semipublic if 
it is built fear the convenience of 
a certain community or body of 
the faithful and is not open to 
everyone, e* g,, a college or ee>n- 
vent chapel It is private or 
domestic if it is erected in a pri- 
vate house for the sole benefit erf 
some family e>r private person, 

Orders QEfedy) (dr'derz;}, n. pL L. 
See Tl*e Sacaramants, p, 87 ft 



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Ordinary (fir'di-ner'i), n.; L. A 
prelate governing a specified 
territory in the name of the 
Church, e.g., a residential bish- 
op, vicar, or prefect apostolic, 
etc., as well as a major superior 
in an exempt clerical institute in 
regard to his subjects. 

Ordinary (of the Mass), n.; L. 
The unchangeable or practically 
unchangeable portion of the 
Mass prayers into which the 
"Proper" is inserted. The ordi- 
nary includes: prayers at the foot 
of the altar; the Kyrie Eleison: 
the Gloria; the prayer before the 
Gospel; the Creed; the Lavdbo; 
the offering of bread and wine; 
the Orate, Fratres; the preface 
(this changes according to feasts 
and holy seasons); the Sanctus; 
the canon, with the three prayers 
of commemoration; the oblation; 
the consecration; the oblation 
after the elevation; the com- 



memoration of the dead, sinners, 
and all nature; the Pater Noster; 
the Agnus Dei; the priest's com- 
munion; the communion of the 
people; the ablution; the blessing 
and the last Gospel. 

Ordo (d/do), n.; L. (1) The book 
giving directions for the variant 
portions of the Mass and office 
according to the calendar of 
feasts; it is published annually, 
and each province, religious 
order, and congregation has its 
own particular directions. A di- 
rectorium. Formerly called a 
pica, or pie. (2) A ritual book 
for the administering of the sac- 
raments ar*d other ceremonies, 

Original Sin (6-rifi-nfll), adj.; L, 
The sin which we inherit as natu- 
ral descendants of our first par- 
ents; the privation of sanctifying 
grace propagated to man by 
Adam. 



Pallium (pall-tim), n,; L. A vest- 
ment conferred by the pope 
upon an archbishop which con- 
sists of a small band of white 
wool worn around the neck with 
a short pendant descending on 
the breast and the back and on 
which there are six black crosses. 
Also used as a name f ox a frontal 
or antependium. 

Parable (par^-bl), n.; L^ O.Fr. 
An illustrative stoiry pointing to 
some moral or religions troth; a 



manner of speaking used by our 
Lord as related in the Gospel 

Paraclete (plr'oJdet), n*; Gr^ L, 
Literally; a consoler. A name ap- 
plied in the Gospel erf St Jdfan to 
the Holy Ghost; a name of the 
Holy Spirit, the third Person of 
the Blessed Trinity, 



Parish Ipir^h), a-; Gr^ L, A 
division within a diocese; a par- 
ticular district governed lay a 
pastor; the bcmndaries or limits 



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within which a priest has the 
serving of a etmrdh ami the 
members erf the faithful within 
that territory. There are also rwi- 
ffoftol p&rtehm, which are erected 
with the pemi&$Mm of tbe Holy 
See and are not divisions of terri- 
tory but ratter divisions accord- 
ing to tbe nationality and lan- 
guage of the people who are 
served in these churches; thus a 
parish established for a certain 
nationality which is the result erf 
immigration. (Can. 218, sac. 4.) 

faids (plsk), n.; Hefa., Gr. Liter- 
ally, the Hebrew **pa$$0ver. w A 
name applied to the Feast of tbe 
or Easter, 



Paschal Candle (pitfkd). ad,, & 
n,; Gr L* The ouidk blessed on 
Holy Saturday morning and 
burned 10 tbe sanctuary from 
Easter to Ascension Thursday, 
which symbolizes the presence of 
Christ on earth for forty days 
after His Resurrection* 



Precept, n. ; Gr., JL The 
obliatx>n resting upon all the 
faithful who have reached the 
age of reason to receive Holy 
Communion in the course of the 
Easter season; also called the 
Easter duty. 

Pastoral Theology, n. ; Gr., L. 
That branch erf theology which 
1$ called tbe science erf the care 
of souls; it really may mean the 
application erf all other branches 
m tibeofogy t the spiritual in- 
struction erf the faithful 



Pateo (ptffo), n.; Gr., L. (1) A 
plate of gold ysed with the chal- 
ice in celebrating Mass; a circu- 
lar saucerfike dish usually of 
gold or gold plated, used in the 
celebration of Mass to hold the 
consecrated host (2) A com- 
munion paten, or plate, to be 
held beneath the chin erf the par- 
son receiving communion. 



Patriarch (pi'to-irk), n.; Gr,, L* 
{ 1 ) In bibMcal use, the father or 
family ruter erf a tribe or nice. 
(2) The highest honor next, of 
course, to tfae Holy Father in tbe 
hierarchy of jurisdiction; a title 
conferred upon certain leading 
Church dignitaries erf certain 
countries; the highest rank in die 
Orthodox Church. 

Pauline Privilege (pfilln), adj, & 
n.; Gr. Tbe principle based upon 
**the dispensation of the Apostle** 
which states that two unbap- 
toed persons having contracted 
marriage, themgh it has been con- 
summated, may dissolve the mar- 
riage if one erf them becomes a 
Christian ami the otter refuses 
to be converted or places obsta- 
cles in the way erf the others 
observance of his religion. 

Penaoce (pfc'ias), n.; L., O.Fr. 
See Tl^ Sacraments, p. 50 f. 

Pentecost (p&n't&kdst), n.; Gr., 
L. The feast commemorating tfae 
descent of the Holy Ghost upon 
the apostles, fifty days after Eas- 
ter; Whit-Sunday. 



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Piety (pi'-ti), n.; L. (1) The 
faithful performance of religious 
exercises; worship, adoration, 
thanksgiving, and fidelity to 
God's law are all contained in the 
true concept of piety. (2) One of 
the seven gifts of the Holy Ghost. 
(3) The moral virtue, called filial 
piety, which aids one to give hon- 
or, love, and respect to his par- 
ents and to his country in recog- 
nition of the benefits received 
from them. 

Pontificate (pon-tifl-kat), n.; L. 
(1) The reign of a pope. (2) v. 
To celebrate pontifical Mass. 

Postcommunion (postlcd-mun 1 - 
yun), n.; L. The prayer or pray- 
ers, corresponding in form and 
number with the Collects, that 
are said or sung before the lie 
missa est; they vary according to 
the feast 

Poverty (pdVer*ti), n.; L. The 
evangelical counsel recommend- 
ing the renunciation of riches; 
the vow of poverty, one of the 
vows of the religious state. 
Prayer (prr), n.; L., (XFr, An 
act of religion consisting of 
thinking about God or speaking 
with God; meditation; vocal 
prayer; the reciting of prescribed 
words to elevate the mind and 
heart to God. The acts of prayer 
are adoration, thanksgiving, peti- 
tion, and contrition; dedication of 
the acts of the day to God may 
also be prayer. 

Preface (pre'fe), n.; K, O.Fr. A 
prayer of thanksgiving said dur- 



ing the Mass at the beginning of 
the canon, consisting of a dia- 
logue and words of thanksgiving 
concluding with the Sanctus; 
there are prefaces for special 
feasts and for special seasons of 
the ecclesiastical year. 

Prelate (prellt), n.; L., O.Fr. The 
name generally applied to an ec- 
clesiastical dignitary who has 
ordinary jurisdiction in the exter- 
nal forum. 

Priest (prest), n.; Gr., L. One upon 
whom the sacrament of holy 
orders has been conferred and 
who is thereby a minister of di- 
vine worship; one upon whom 
the power of offering sacrifice, of 
blessing, of giving absolution, 
and of preaching has been con- 
ferred. 

Profession (of faith), n.; L. The 
oral pronouncement of faith in 
the principal tenets of the Catho- 
lic religion; a statement of assent 
to belief; an expression of faith 
such as the recitation of one or 
the other of the creeds. 

Proper (prdp'gr), n.; L*, O.Fr. 
Parts of the liturgy of tiie Mass 
which vary according to the feast 
of the day. Ako the proper of tibe 
season which is the division of 
the Missal and Breviary accord- 
ing to the Sundays of the season; 
or the proper of the saints wbfcfa 
is the portion of the Missal and 
Breviary giving die parts for tibe 
feasts of our Lord or the saints. 
The proper of the Mam is the 
prayers whidb are variant and 



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inserted into the ordinary of the 
Mass. These prayers are: the 
Intanoit; the CoUeets; the Epistle; 
the Gradual; the Tract; the Gos- 
pel; the Offertory; the Secrets; 
the Ckmmunion; the Postom- 
munion. 

Province (prdvlm), n.; L. (1) 
That territory made up of several 
dioceses under the jurisdiction erf 
an archbishop or metropolitan, 
the archdiocese nod at least one 
suffragan diocese. {) The terri- 
tory fanning a division erf a reli- 
gknis order, made up of all its 
religious houses within that dis- 
trict. 

Pwgitxjry (pd/ga-to'n), a,; L, 
The state and the place of pun- 



ishment where the temporal 
punishment due to sins previous- 
ly forgiven must be endured, 
and the guilt of unrepented 
venial sins is cleared away from 
the soul of the person dying in 
the state of grace; the place of 
cleansing and preparation from 
which the soul goes directly to 
heavea, 



Pyx 

vesset usually shaped like a 
watdh, in which the Holy Eu- 
charist is carried to the sick or 
dying, (b) The round metal case 
which holds the lunette; the cus- 
todial, (c) The dbcmum, In gen- 
eral this may mean any container 
for consecrated hosts. 



Q 



Quadragesima (k\v6d f rfl.jes r i.ir*j), 
a.; L. LiteraDy, the fortieth. The 
name denoting the number of 
days in Lent; the name some- 
times applied to the first Sunday 
erf Lent, or to the first four Son- 
dby$ of Lent together with their 
respective designating numbers 



as I Quadragesima, etc. The 
woid has come to be applied to 
the entire season of Lent itself. 



Quinquage 

m), a.; L. Literally, fiftieth. The 
name applied to the Sunday 
before Lant 



R 



Redemption (redemp'shtin), n.i 
L, The act erf bringing man out 
of the bondage of sin and restor- 
ing him to the friendship of God; 
the satisfaction of divine justice. 
The satisfaction made to God for 
the fall erf man by the Incarna- 



tion of the Son and His death 
for mankind; Christ s atonement 
for sin and meriting of grace 
through the justice and honuess 
of God the Father. 

Relics (rfiftks), n. pL; L., (XFr. 
See p. 190. 



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Requiem (reTcwi-em), n.; L. A 
Mass said for the repose of a soul; 
a funeral Mass; the name is de- 
rived from the first word of the 
Introit of the Mass for the dead. 

Resurrection (rez'*rek'shim), n.; 
L., O.Fr. Reanimation of the 
body by again uniting jfche soul 
and body of a person after death. 
(1) The historical truth and the 
greatest of Christ's miracles, 
which is the fact that He died 
and came to life again and which 
incontestably proves His divinity. 
The feast of the Resurrection or 
Easter. (2) The resurrection of 
the body of man, which means 
that the dead shall Live again in 
their bodies after the general 
resurrection; the uniting of the 
dead body with the immortal soul 
after which the person will live 
in either heaven or hell. 

Revelation (rev'e-la'shun), n,; L, 
(1) The manifestation of truth 
to men on the part of God after 
the manner of a teacher; this 
may be recorded for all men, e.g., 
the revelation of Sacred Scrip- 
tures; the revealing of certain 
truths to individuals, called pri- 
vate revelations, for the spiritual 
good of the individual or for the 
particular intention of God. (2) 
Book of-the title of the Apoca- 
lypse in Protestant versions <rf the 
Bible. 

Bite (rit), n.; L. (1) A religions 
ceremony or function, e.g., the 
rite of blessing pains. (2) The 



manner in which services in wor- 
ship of God are conducted in the 
Christian Church. (3) An entire 
liturgy, e.g., the Roman rite. The 
liturgy comprises the ceremonies, 
actions, and language. The vari- 
ous languages of the several li- 
turgical rites in which the Mass 
is said are nine; namely, Latin, 
Greek, Syrian, Coptic, Armenian, 
Arabic, Slavonic, Georgian, and 
Roumanian. 

Roman Catholic (ro'man), adj. & 
n.; L., O.Fr. A qualifying name 
of a Catholic indicating com- 
munion with Rome; the Church 
of Rome includes those erf the 
Latin rite and the various East- 
ern rites. 

Rosary (ro'zari), n.; L. The chain 
and numerous beads which form 
a cfaaplet or endless chain for re- 
citing prayers in a given se- 
quence. The name appMed to the 
prayer consisting of fifteen dec- 
ades of "Hail Marys,** each dec- 
ade having an **Our Father* pre- 
ceding and a "Glory be to the 
Father* f oflowiug. This chaplet 
usually has in addition three 
small beads for the "Hail Marys 1 * 
and one bead for the *Our Fa- 
ther* which precede the prayer 
and to this short chain there is 
generally attached a crucifix. 
Mysteries are contemplated dur- 
ing the saying of each decade, 
which mysteries are the five joy- 
ful, the five sorrowful, and the 
five glorious. See The Rosary, p. 
123 & 



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Sabbath (slb'ath), n.; Heb., L., 
A.S. In Hebrew the word means 
rest. In the Jewish law it was 
the seventh day of the week, or 
Saturday, and a day of religious 
worship; among Christians it is 
recognized as the day of rest and 
worship or the first day of the 
week, Sunday. 

Sacrament (sak'kra.ment), n.; L. 
The Council of Trent defines sac- 
rament as *a visible sign of in- 
visible grace instituted for our 
justification.* Simply, it is an out- 
ward sign instituted by Christ 
and producing interior grace; the 
sacrament effects what it sym- 
bolizes. There are seven sacra- 
ments: baptism, confirmation, 
penance, holy eucharist, extreme 
unction, holy orders, matrimcmy, 
all erf which are comprised erf an 
outward sign, ware instituted by 
Christ; aim give grace* See The 
Sacraments, p. 41 ff. 

Sacramental* (sak'rd-m/m'taJz), n. 
pi; L, See Sacramentals of the 
Obordh, p. 99 ff. 

Sacrifice (of die Mass), n.; L. 
O.Fr. The holy Sacrifice erf the 
Mass is the unbloody re-enact- 
ment that makes the sacrifice erf 
the Cross actually present It is 
and must be held to be one and 
the same sacrifice which is ac- 
complished at Mass and which 
was accomplished on the cross, 



because it is the same Victim 
who is offered and offers, namely, 
Christ. It is the renewal of Christ's 
sacrifice of Himself on the cross 
accomplished in an unbloody 
manner. It is the sacrifice of the 
entire Christ, the mystical body, 
for Christ desires to offer Him- 
self for us ami with us. The faith- 
ful thus participate in the re- 
demptive sacrifice of Christ by 
offering satisfaction with Christ 
and in Christ 

Sacristy (slFiis-tS), n.; L, A room 
set aside for the retaining of vest- 
ments ami in which the priest 
vests in preparation for Mass; a 
room off of the sanctuary; the 
diaconicum. 

Saint (sint), n.; L, O.Fr. The 
person who through a life of 
heroic virtue or martyrdom has 
merited the canonization of the 
Church; a member of the Church 
triumphant; a person known to 
be in heaven. One who while on 
earth exemplified in a special 
manner not only the keeping of 
the necessary moral kw but also 
the practice of those counsels left 
by Christ which are not of strict 
obligation. 

Sanctuary (sangk'tu-&r f l), n.; L. 
(1) That part of the church 
embraced by the communion rail 
and in which the high altar 
stands; the place in the church 



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reserved for the clergy. Also call- 
ed presbyterium. (2) The right 
of sanctuary was that right ac- 
corded to a holy place wherein 
a criminal or fugitive from justice 
might take refuge and have im- 
munity from the law. (Obs.) 

Satisfaction (satls-falc'shiin), n.; 
L. O.Fr. The imposed penance 
given by the priest as necessary 
to contrition for sins in the sac- 
rament of penance; also the ren- 
dering of a just return of a debt. 

Scapular (skap'u-Ier), n.; L., Fr. 
See p. 106 ff. 

Secret (seloret), n.; L, O.Fr. The 
prayer or prayers corresponding 
in form and number with the 
Collects, which the priest reads 
silently between the Offertory 
and the Preface; they vary ac- 
cording to the feast 

See (se), n.; L., O.Fr, The terri- 
tory or diocese over which a 
bishop rules; the extended juris- 
diction of a bishop. 

Sequence (seTcwehs), n.; O.Fr. 
The hymn sung after the gradual 
in certain Masses. It is sometimes 
called a prose because originally 
it was not written in any particu- 
lar meter. Formerly sequences 
ware very numerous. Only five 
are found in tfoe present Roman 
Missal: for Easter, Victim&e Pa$- 
chdi; for Pentecost, Vent Smcte 
Sp&itus; for Corpus Christ!, 
Lauda Sion; for the Seven Sor- 
rows of our Lady, Stab&t Mter; 
and the Dies Irae m requiem 



Mass. With the exception of Vic- 
timae Paschati, the sequences 
now in the Missal are quite as 
metrical as tibe other hymns. 

Sign (of tibe Cross) (sin), n.; L 
O.Fr. That sacramental which 
consists in making the movement 
with the right hand from the fore- 
head to the breast and to the left 
and right shoulders in that order. 
It is erroneously called "blessing 
one s self." See p. 103. 

Spiritual Communion (spirlt-u- 
ol), adj.; L., O.Fr. The earnest 
desire to communicate when not 
actually able to do so, accom- 
panied by appropriate prayers in 
the form of acts of love, thanks- 
giving, etc* 

Spiritual (works of mercy), adj.; 
L., O.Fr. Acts of love performed 
for our neighbor by helping him 
in his needs of body and soul. 
They are: to counsel the doubt- 
ful, to instruct the ignorant, to 
admonish the sinner, to comfort 
tibe sorrowful, to forgive injuries, 
to bear wrongs patiently, and to 
pray for tibe living and tibe dead. 

Sponsors (spdn'serz), n. pi.; L. A 
pea-son who answers or vouches 
for another; the spiritual parents 
or godparents of a baptized per- 
son; the two persons who act for 
tibe child in making a profession 
of faith at the reception of bap- 
tism. Tbe spiritual tie framed to- 
tween the person baptized and 
the godparents forms an impedi- 
ment to marriage between a spon- 
sor and the one baptized because 



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it establishes a spiritual relation- 
ship. 

Stations (sta'shunz), a, pi; U, 
Q.Fr. ( 1 ) The word is still used 
in the rnissal on certain feast days 
arid is retained from the old cus- 
tom of the Roman clergy and 
people to meet in some church 
of Rome where the pope or his 
delegate sang Mass. Such church- 
es were called stations. (2) Sta- 
tions of the Cross are a series of 
fourteen representations of events 
in the Passion of Christ; the de- 
votion to the stations or to the 
particular events which occurred 
during the Passion of our Lord; 
such pictures or carved represen- 
tations cm the walls of a church. 

Stipend (stTp&id), n. ; L,, Q.Fr. 
A tenrn applied generally to the 
support of the clergy or the rev- 
emie of a benefice; today it is 
raxnie commmSy applied to the 
offering made by the faithful 
whan asking that a Mas$ be said 
for their particular intentions. 
S^er Cotitrilrtitlng to Church Sup- 
port, p, 38 ff 



Slrfe (st&JX *L; Gr., L,, A.S. A 
long UJUTOW vestment erf the same 
material and color as the chasu- 
We, which is worn about the 



neck; when worn by a deacon it 
is suspended from the left should- 
er, crosses the breast diagonally, 
and is fastened at the waist, 
when worn by a priest the ends 
are crossed on the breast, and 
when worn by a bishop the two 
ends hang down in front from the 
shoulders. It symbolizes immor- 
tality and the yoke of obedience 
assumed by the priest 

Surplice (sA/pfis), n,; L, f G.Fr. A 
garment, sometimes called a vest- 
ment, made of white linen or of 
another white cloth which is worn 
over the cassock by priests in the 
administration of siiersimefifcs; tbe 
familiar white garment, about 
coat length with short sfeeves, 
which is permitted to be worn 
by altar boys or acolytes in serv- 
ing Mass, A superpellicium, 

Symbol (slm'btjlX n.; Cr, See 
Symbols, p. 188. 

Synoptics (sl-ndp'tlkz), n. p!. ; Gr., 
L. The name given to the first 
three Gospek, namely the ac- 
counts of Matthew, Mark, and 
Luke, and so named because 
they all outline the Hfe and teach- 
ing of Jesus in a relatively similar 
manner. 




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Tabernacle (tab'er-nak'1), n.; L., 
O.Fr. The small compartment 
sealed by a door at the center of 
the main altar wherein the Eu- 
charist is reserved. On a liturgi- 
cal altar the tabernacle is covered 
by the canopy. 

Temptation (temp-ta'shun), n.; L. 
The solicitation to sin from an 
external or interior cause; the 
seduction of the will of man to 
commit a sin, which may come 
from the devil, from another 
human being or from man's own 
concupiscence. 

Tertiaries (tux'shl-erlz), n. pL; L. 
Members of the third order 
founded by St. Francis of Assisi; 
lay members who have submitted 
themselves to the third order rule 
of St. Francis. Members of any 
third order group of religious. 

Theological Virtues (the'o-lojl- 
kol), adj. & n. pL; Gr. Faitfa, 
hope, and charity, so called be- 
cause they have God for their 
immediate object; they are su- 
pernatural virtues because they 
tend toward God as man's super- 
natural end, 

Theology (th&dl'fif), n,; Gr. The 
science of reKg^kms truths which 
is the systematic presentation erf 
these truths; that science which 
treats of the revelatioias of God 



and man's rational concepts of 
God and which works toward a 
more clear expression of these 
revelations and concepts; it is the 
science of faith; it is a discipline 
based on revelation and advanc- 
ing by means of that revelation; 
it is a science which, starting 
from the principles of faith, treats 
of God and of whatever in any 
way pertains to Him. Theology 
proper is divided into dogmatic, 
moral, mystical, and ascettcal 
theology. 

Third Order (thurd), nunx adj. & 
n.; A,S, A religious rule and way 
of life interpreted for and made 
applicable to members of the 
laity and the secular clergy so 
that they may enjoy die fruits erf 
a religious life; a religious rule 
or order taking its membership 
from the laity; tertiary. 

Thurible (thu'rfbl), n.; Gr^ L. A 
cemer; a vessel shaped like a bowl 
and usually supported on chains, 
in which incense is burned- 

Tonsure {t&e'sfaa), XL; Gr^ L, A 
sacramental by which a man is 
raised from the lay to the clerical 
slate. The shaving of the OTOWB 
of the head, usually in the form 
of a circle, given as a mark of 
the rank of cleric in the Chun*; 
the clipping of the hair to sym- 



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bolize that one has been raised 
to the clerical state. 

Tradition {tra-d!sh'tin} ( n.; L., O. 
Fr, The handing down by word 
of mouth from generation to gen- 
eration doctrine or truths of the 
faith which were not written; 

the testimony of earlv nonscript- 

** ^ 

ural writings and customs by 

which are known the various 
practices, the truths of faith, the 
moral teaching of Christianity, 
and facts erf the life and times of 
Christ; teaching of the Church 
transmitted orally which has been 
proclaimed to be correct and free. 



ETIQUETTE 

Transubstantiation (tran'sfib- 
stan'shM'shfin), n.; L. The 
changing of bread and wine into 
the body and blood of our Lord; 
the changing of one substance 
into another substance while re- 
taining the accidents of the for- 
mer thing. 

Treat (treat), n.; Fr. A council of 
the Church which derives its 
name from Trent, a city in Italy, 
where it was held. The sessions 
of this council began in 1545 and 
ended in 1583. It is known as the 
great Council of the Ref ormation. 



u 



Unity (u'ttRI), n. ; I*. CXFr. (1) 
Oneness; indiviskm, (2) Said erf 
God becmne only one can pos- 
sess in utter simplicity the full- 
ness erf all goodness and all per- 
fection, one Being without limi- 
tation. (3) One of the marks of 
the Church, because all its mem- 
bers, according to the will of 
Christ, profess the same faith, 



practice the same form erf wor- 
ship, and are joined under the 
Holy Father, the pope, as the 
Vicar of Christ on earth and the 
head of the Church. 

Unleavened (unJ^v'end), adj.; L., 
O.Fr. Without yeast. Used with 
reference to the bread from 
which the hosts to be consecrated 
during the Mass are made. 



Vatican {vIt%k&X ; L* 
independent city and state with- 
in tbc dty erf Rome which is the 
seat of tie Church, where the 
pope resides and where the 
household of the Vatican lives; 
the entire group of buildings 
surrounding the residence of the 



pope. The name by which the 
Council of the Vatican held in 
December of 1889 is known. 



Venial Sin {ve'm^), adj.; L., O. 
Fr. An offense against God in a 
light matter or without full con- 
sent of the will which does not 
destroy grace or friendship with 



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God or the right to eternal hap- 
piness, but is a partial or small 
aversion from God; venial sin 
may be so slight that it is called 
a venial fault rather than a sin. 



Vespers (ves'perz), n. pi; L. (1) 
The sixth canonical hour of the 
Breviary. (2) The devotion con- 
sisting of the public recitation of 
the Vesper hour of the Breviary 
by the choir and the ministers 
of the service, during which in- 
censing of the altar is performed. 

Viaticum (vi-atl-kum), n.; L. See 
Extreme Unction, p. 94 f. 

Vigfl (vij'fl), n.; L., Q.Fr. Origin- 
ally this meant a watch in prayer 
and fasting kept on the night 
before a feast; later it included 
the day before the feast; a time 
of preparation for a feast; the 
day immediately preceding a 
feast day. It is also applied to 
the custom of watching over the 



bodies of the dead before burial; 
a wake. 

Virtue (vu/tu), n.; L., O.Fr. (1) 
An essentially good habit giving 
one the power and the inclina- 
tion to do good acts; briefly, a 
habit of right conduct. There are 
three classes of virtues: intellect- 
ual, moral, and theological. (2) 
In the plural, one of the choirs 
of angels. 

Vocation (vo-ka'shiin), n,; L. The 
calling or the disposition by 
which a person is inclined to serve 
God in a special state such as the 
priesthood or as a member erf a 
religious order; the strong inclin- 
ation or desire to serve God in a 
special manner. The elements of 
a vocation are: (a) the right in- 
tention to avoid all sins and to 
secure one's salvation; (&) free- 
dom from impediments; (c) ad- 
mission or call, by the superior 
of the order or the bishop. Also 
used in general to denote any 
calling in life, e.g., tibe vocation 
of marriage. 



W 



Whitsunday (hwifsun'di), n.; A.S. 
Literally, White Sunday, a name 
applied to Pentecost or the feast 
of Pentecost. 



Worship (wux / s%), n.; A.S. Hon- 
or shown to anyone because of 



superior excelleiaee. Divine 
ship is the adoration of and 
prayer to God whereby we honor 
Him because of His infinite ex- 
cellence. Veneration is tibe honor 
given to saints because of their 
great excellence. 



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Xerophagy (z&r5Fa-ji), n.; Gr, 
Literally: dry food. A strict fast 
which permits only bread, salt, 
certain fruits and vegetables, and 
water. 



Yidetide (ySdftid), a.; A. The 
Christmas season or Cfari rf rnas- 
tida. 



Zeal (za), EL; L*, CXFr. The ac- 
tive and ardent pursuit of an ob- 
jective; perseverance in doing 
good for the promotion of God's 
gteiy. 

Znnarra (zi-mar'a), n.; It Siroar 
(si^narO- Th& black cassock with 
a purple cape, sash, buttons, and 
piping worn in the house by a 
bishop. 

Zucchetto (tsook-ket'td), n.; It A 
skullcap worn by bishops and 
other prelates. Abo, Berrettiao; 
pileolus. 




INDEX 



PAGE 



PAGE 



Abstinence ..... 

Acolytes 

Address, Terms of . . 
Advent ...... 

Altar, The ..... 

Architecture, Church 

{see Church) 
Association of Catholic 

Trade Unionists . 
Attendance at Mass 

{see Mass) 
Awards, Pontifical . * 

B 

Banns of marriage 
(see Marriage) 

Baptism 

Private 

Baptismal Water . . . 

Bishops 

Reverence to ... 

Blessed Virgin, Devo- 
tions to the (see De- 
votion) 

Blessings 

Books 

Index of prohibited . 
Prohibition of ... 



35 
70 

19 



185 



43 

47 

105 

15 
192 



108 
154 
157 
156 



Calendar, Church 

{see Church) 

Canon Law, Code of . . 27 
Cardinals ..... 12 

Catholic Action ... 23 
Catholic Family 

Life Movement . . 182 
Chant, Gregorian 

{see Gregorian Chant) 
Childbirth, Blessing after 109 
Choir ...... 147 

Church 

architecture .... 140 

building, The . . . 139 
calendar .... 133 

Commands of the . 31 
Law of the .... 26 



music .... 
Support of the . . 

"Churching" .... 
Code of Canon Law 

(see Canon Law, Code 

of) 
Commands of the Church 

{see Qburdh) 
Communion, Holy . . 
Communion rail, The . 



147 
38 

109 



55 
142 



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CATHOLIC ETIQUETTE 



Confession . . . . 

Annual . . . 
Confessionals . . 
Confirmation . * 
Confraternities . . 
Confraternity of 

Christian Doctrine 
Congregations 

Religious . . . 

Sacred (see Sacred 

Congregations) 
Contributions . * 
Courtesy . . . . 



PAGE 

5* 

36 

145 

70 
173 

175 
17 



191 



D 

Devotion 

Forty Hours 1 . . . 117 

to the Blessed Virgin 122 
to the Immaculate 

Heart 122 

to the Sacred Heart . 119 

Dictionary in Brief . 197 

E 

Easter Duty . . . 37,59 

Education . . . 153, 159 
Enthronement of the 

Soard Heart . , . 121 

Eucharist, The Holy . 54 

Eittreme Unction , . 94 

Preparations for . . 97 



PAGE 

F 

Fast 

Eucharistic .... 56 
and abstinence . . 34 

First Fridays . . . 119 

First Holy Communion 55 

Forty Hours 
(see Devotion) 

Funerals ..... 194 



G 

Genuflection . . 
Godparents . . 
Gregorian Chaat . 



146, 192 

. . 44 
. * 148 



H 

Hierarchy, The . . . 7, 14 
Holydays of 

obligation .... 52 
Holy Father, The 8, 11, 192 
Holy Hour . . . . 116 
Holy Name Society * . 1 74 
Holy Orders .... 87 
Holy Water .... 104 
Honors, Pontifical . . 24 



I 

Immaculate Heart, 
Devotion to the 
Devotion) 



INDEX 



PAGE 



Impediments of marriage 

{see Marriage) 
Imprimatur .... 
Imprimi potest . . . 
Index of prohibited 

books (see Books) 

K 

Knights of Columbus, 
The 

L 

Laity, The . . , . 
Lay apostolate, The 
Laymen's services at 

Mass ...... 

Law of the Church 

(see Church) 
Libraries, Parish . . . 

M 



Marriage . . . 

Banns of . . 

Impediments of 

Laws concerning 

Mixed . . 
Mass, The . . . 
Mass 

Attendance at . 

Missing . . . 

Nuptial . . . 



155 

155 



186 



22 
23 

69 



Masses, Types of . 
Matrimony .... 
Medals, Religious . . 
Music, Church 
(see Church) 
Mysteries of the Rosary 

N 

Names 

Baptismal .... 

Patronal .... 
National Catholic Rural 

Life Movement . . 

Catholic Welfare Con- 



PAGE 
66, 114 

- 75 
. 105 



- 75 

- 79 
. . 82 
. . 80 
. . 83 
. 60, 113 

. 32, 62 

. 63 

. . 85 



125 



48 
73 

184 
178 



ference 

Council of Catholic 

Men 181 

Council of Catholic 

Nurses 182 

Council of Catholic 

Women 181 

Council of Catholic 

Youth 181 

Nihil obstat .... 155 
Noble Guard, The . 25 
Nuptial Mass (see Mass) 

O 

Offerings 39 

Opus Dei - .... 177 
Orders, Religious 

( see Religious Orders) 



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Ordination . . . 
Organizations . . 

P 

Parish library . . 
Penance .... 
Pope, The . 
Prayers 
Private . 



PAGE 

91 

169 



Priest, Ordination of . 
Private baptism 
(see Baptism) 

R 

Reading .... 
Regulations - - - 

Relics 

Religious orders . , 
Reverence .... 
Rosary, The . . . 



... 50 
. 8, ii, 192 
. . . no 
. . . 129 
92 



28 
190 

*7 
191 

123 



s 

Sacramentals . . . . IOI 

Sftcmments, The , . . 43 

Sacred Congregations, 

The ...... 12 

Sacred Heart, Devotion 
to the ($00 Devotion) 

St. Vincent de Paul, So- 
ciety of 183 

Sanctuary, The . . . 142 



PAGE 

Scapulars 106 

Schools 160 

Serra Clubs . . . . 186 

Sign of the Cross . . 103 

Societies ..... 169 
Sponsors 

in baptism .... 44 
in confirmation ... 72 
Support of the Church 

(see Church) 

Symbols ..... 188 



T 

Terms of address 
f see Address, Terms 
of) 

Tertiaries .... 



V 



Viaticum 
Vocations 



19 



96 

88 



w 

Water 

Baptismal (see Baptis- 
mal water) 
Holy (see Holy 
water) 
Pkin ...... 56 

Way of the Cross . . 128 
Weddings * .... 78 



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